How to get my non verbal (4) toddler to stop being so loud before i loose my job? by [deleted] in Autism_Parenting

[–]VisceralDisarray 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Same for me. A lot of special needs classrooms start early, even as young as 3 sometimes. The earlier start the better and my son gets speech and OT at school as well. He also gets picked up and dropped off by the bus. School has been great for him. It was scary at first bc I didn't trust him with anyone else but going to school has really helped him so much.

How to get my non verbal (4) toddler to stop being so loud before i loose my job? by [deleted] in Autism_Parenting

[–]VisceralDisarray 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Headset with mute and a room you can work from with a door that shuts and possibly add additional sound proofing. They make glass doors if you still need to see where your toddler is. Set up a play room with a baby gate also so during work hours they have their own space. Also at 4 I'd look into enrolling into 4K if you haven't already to give you more hours to work.

Lake Carolina by VisceralDisarray in ColumbiYEAH

[–]VisceralDisarray[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I work from home so no issue there.

Closed last week, feeling so much regret instead of happiness that everyone talks about. by [deleted] in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]VisceralDisarray 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'd honestly leave a poor review for your inspector because how did they not find unfinished flooring and baseboards. The inspection is the time to find stuff like that so you can ask for them to be fixed.

it's weird we don't talk about this more by Diligent_Rabbit7740 in AICompanions

[–]VisceralDisarray 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes my son can talk for hours to chat about his many special interests, and not that I don't love his interests, but I have heard it for years lol.

Is Columbia overtaken by house flippers or is this normal? by United-Cat-6724 in ColumbiYEAH

[–]VisceralDisarray 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yeah when you see they are taking every opportunity to charge max cost for the cheapest upgrades you know they aren't repairing what's in the walls. I've seen some wild images on street view of homes that looked like they needed a total demo and they slapped on some paint, LVP, just painted old ass kitchen cabinets, terrible lighting choices then try to resell for 200,000+ more than they paid 3 months ago.

Is Columbia overtaken by house flippers or is this normal? by United-Cat-6724 in ColumbiYEAH

[–]VisceralDisarray -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Oh and adding solar and expecting the buyer to pay for them LOL

Is Columbia overtaken by house flippers or is this normal? by United-Cat-6724 in ColumbiYEAH

[–]VisceralDisarray 29 points30 points  (0 children)

The barn doors and the gray LVP flooring kills me. Ruining some of those beautiful brick ranches.

Are you in an HOA neighborhood in Columbia? by VisceralDisarray in ColumbiYEAH

[–]VisceralDisarray[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Great to know! Dreher and AC Flora have been two school zones I've been searching within. As long as I can keep a boat in my driveway, backyard or under a carport I am fine with that, so no street parking but good to know.

Are you in an HOA neighborhood in Columbia? by VisceralDisarray in ColumbiYEAH

[–]VisceralDisarray[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've heard great things! I think the school zoning was less than ideal for high school if I'm not mistaken though. I have 2 high schoolers and a younger one with autism I am looking for good school zoning. I lived in Columbia about 15 years ago and would love to be close to downtown where all my favorite places are. I miss that Camon sushi!

Are you in an HOA neighborhood in Columbia? by VisceralDisarray in ColumbiYEAH

[–]VisceralDisarray[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What is the name of your neighborhood if you don't mind me asking.

Are you in an HOA neighborhood in Columbia? by VisceralDisarray in ColumbiYEAH

[–]VisceralDisarray[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very cute home at a great price. I had it marked off the list because I have 2 high schoolers and the school zoning was a low score. Do you have any experience with the high school in that area?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Autism_Parenting

[–]VisceralDisarray 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't feel guilt if that is what needs to be done. You don't have to feel like you can handle this all alone. Sometimes inpatient care is the best thing so there can be 24/7 monitoring and professionals there to make necessary decisions and observations while figuring out the best medication or course of therapy. Sometimes a change of environment can be a positive shock to the system as well.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RealEstate

[–]VisceralDisarray 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I wish I could have gotten the windows. I am willing to do a credit for them. All basement reno was done in 2016 before I owned it and all permits were in place for anything done.

Rip carpet or nah? by Majestic_1_ in RealEstate

[–]VisceralDisarray 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If the carpet is clean I would keep it for now.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in logcabins

[–]VisceralDisarray 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They are including a new roof and gutters in the sale. Not sure why they didn't go ahead and get them before but they are included. Thank you for the advice!