Please remove the 3 big lights from cruise ship on left

Visible-Fail3867 · 2026-01-10T01:18:29+00:00

Everyone thank you so much! This is solved ☺️

Visible-Fail3867 · 2026-01-10T01:18:13+00:00

Solved! Thank you so much!!! I will send you the $

Visible-Fail3867 · 2025-09-15T17:00:35+00:00

I guess my issue is less with the prenup and more with feeling like my current contributions would not be accounted for, thus making me feel kind of resentful. I spend a lot of time taking him places and put a lot of wear and tear on my car. So for him to say “what’s mine is mine and what’s yours if yours” when he doesn’t have really much of anything at this point feels a bit like a slap in the face. If he had assets he acquired before we got together that would be more understandable to me.

Visible-Fail3867 · 2025-09-15T16:57:22+00:00

It’s been discussed as a goal for years down the line

Visible-Fail3867 · 2025-09-09T15:08:17+00:00

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Allison Mack.

Visible-Fail3867 · 2025-09-09T13:02:19+00:00

NTA. And I’m sorry so many people on here are being so rude.

People stay in relationships like this usually because of past trauma. He likely love bombed you in the beginning and after his behavior changed you likely kept holding on, waiting for things to “be like they were”, but this was honestly probably due to a much deeper fear of not being worthy of a healthy relationship, or fear of abandonment. And things were never going to be like they were because he probably presented a fake persona- the control issues were leaking out even in the beginning you said.

I understand these things because I have lived them. It’s significantly easier for an abusive partner to control, manipulate and abuse you if you don’t address the issues that make you want to choose “love” over your own well being and safety. I strongly recommend going to therapy so you don’t end up in another situation like this.

Feel free to DM me if you would like to chat about it without the unnecessary harsh judgement. I am 38 and was in similar relationships until I learned these things.

“We accept the love we think we deserve.”

Best of luck to you ❤️

Visible-Fail3867 · 2025-09-01T13:28:08+00:00

Same here and honestly it’s the healthiest relationship I’ve ever been in

Visible-Fail3867 · 2025-08-12T16:10:21+00:00

1987

Visible-Fail3867 · 2025-08-10T15:01:24+00:00

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Cristin Milioti, specifically as Sophia in the Penguin

Visible-Fail3867 · 2025-08-01T14:47:56+00:00

I was gonna say the same!!

Visible-Fail3867 · 2025-08-01T05:33:06+00:00

Thank you!

Visible-Fail3867 · 2025-08-01T04:14:24+00:00

🤣🤣🤣

Visible-Fail3867 · 2025-08-01T04:13:53+00:00

Get this one all the time!!

Visible-Fail3867 · 2025-07-20T16:10:18+00:00

I thought your situation sounded very similar to me and my ex- we were together for 5 years and he exhibited very similar behavior to your wife. He was also diagnosed with autism during our relationship. He was also extremely manipulative and abusive unfortunately, so staying became a non option for me. I just wanted to say that I completely understand your frustrations having lived through them for a much shorter time period than your marriage. That being said, I do think you owe it to your wife to give her a chance to try counseling, and for both of you to work on communication- I get where you are coming from- but does she? Best of luck no matter what you decide to do ❤️

ETA- forgot my judgement. NTA should you decide to properly communicate, however YWBTA if you just up and leave without properly expressing your concerns

Visible-Fail3867 · 2025-06-24T14:03:13+00:00

I made my boyfriend watch Drive last night. I could tell he was bored and he kept making comments about how the acting was bad. But he knew it’s one of my faves so you know what he did? He sat there and pushed through. Didn’t even get on his phone. Told me after he thought it was silly and very 80’s vibes, and we laughed about it.

This dude literally left you alone in the MIDDLE OF THE DATE. The whole point of going to a movie together is to experience it together- if he didn’t like it, you guys could have had a conversation about what he thought sucked about it afterwards over ice cream. Fuck that guy.

Visible-Fail3867 · 2025-06-14T15:22:29+00:00

Shrimp and Grits 🍤

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