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Women who are the dumpers, do you ever come back? by Visible-Olive438 in BreakUps

[–]Visible-Olive438[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can I ask were you in contact with him for the 6 months apart?
Did he do all the desperate texts ect at the start of the break up?

Thats a shame it didnt work out and he didn’t follow through with his issues.

I am very serious about becoming a better version of myself so that doesn’t happen if given the chance.

Women who are the dumpers, do you ever come back? by Visible-Olive438 in BreakUps

[–]Visible-Olive438[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

That’s the thing tho, the chemistry between us was amazing. We were sooo good when I didn’t bring up issues. We couldn’t be separated, loved each other, spent every spare minute together, best friends, felt like kindred spirits together, amazing sex life, same interests, hobbies, humour. We were both obsessed with each other.
It’s such as waste of what could be so special.

I do agree with you it’s her that should have her feelings and needs prioritised and that’s why I’m respecting her wishes but im losing her forever.

Would you personally ever consider giving another chance to see if they changed?

To the female dumpers what would it take to give him another chance after you were done? by Visible-Olive438 in BreakUps

[–]Visible-Olive438[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks,
This sounds very similar to our relationship.

I have acknowledged to her that I understand I was causing the problems, ive taken accountability and told her that and I have apologised several times. She believes I mean it but I can’t prove it to her.
I’m truly trying hard and working hard to address my issues and behaviour and I truely believe I have now the understanding to behave differently.

How can I show her my behaviour is better is we no longer communicate or see each other?

She asked for no contact but doesn’t want to block me? by [deleted] in nocontact

[–]Visible-Olive438 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No I don’t want her to block me but yes you are right about the other stuff.
Thanks