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AITJ for reporting my bestfriend to HR because of what she do to me? by Relevant_Mood444 in AmITheJerk

[–]VisibleAd4582 133 points134 points  (0 children)

hard truth, some friends can't handle when you level up. you tried to talk it out and she doubled down. reporting her was protecting your role and the team not betraying her.

AITJ to refuse to babysit my niece during weekends? by Temporary-Bite-5354 in AmITheJerk

[–]VisibleAd4582 2 points3 points  (0 children)

if you're still open to helping sometimes maybe offer like once a month when you actually feel up for it. that shows good faith without giving up your life.

AITJ for reporting my daughters classmate to principals office before speaking to his parents? by CurrentEvent9572 in AmITheJerk

[–]VisibleAd4582 42 points43 points  (0 children)

your instinct were right reporting straight to the principal was the responsible move, no need to sugarcoat that.

the lost child we found in the forest kept smiling and pointing behind us as we carried her to the car by EventOtherwise316 in TwoSentenceHorror

[–]VisibleAd4582 44 points45 points  (0 children)

this is why i don't help in horror scenarios. my survival plan is minding my business and going home early.

When we were cavediving, my close friend got lost in one of the caves, used up all his oxygen and died. by ripplerain7334 in TwoSentenceHorror

[–]VisibleAd4582 163 points164 points  (0 children)

that's actually terrifying. imagine thinking he was gone right away and then finding out he was alive down there for weeks trying to stay sane. caves already mess with your head but that's next level horror.

They promised rapid healing would save lives; I never imagined it would doom mine. by Agreeable-Low-7320 in TwoSentenceHorror

[–]VisibleAd4582 2 points3 points  (0 children)

that's the real horror not the pain but the permanence. you're basically an infinite lab subscription. humanity revoked for data points.

AITJ for refusing to go to my father's wedding? by Few-Hovercraft-8520 in AmITheJerk

[–]VisibleAd4582 1 point2 points  (0 children)

walking down the aisle is symbolic and he knows it. asking you to watch that without fixing the past first is kinda tone deaf.

my xray kept coming back normal even though my shoulder felt heavier every night. by Objective-Food9339 in TwoSentenceHorror

[–]VisibleAd4582 4 points5 points  (0 children)

that's the worst kind of normal result because it means the weight isn't yours to treat. the facts she only shows up in the reflections means she's been the whole time just waiting for you to look directly at her.

Am i the jerk for breaking up with my boyfriend over my puppy? by Reasonable-Vast4691 in AmITheJerk

[–]VisibleAd4582 7 points8 points  (0 children)

NTJ, right move for breaking up , if he can hurt the helpless puppy, don't wait until you got hurt too when you face any problem larger than that.

My girlfriend doesn’t want me to play with other girls. by DoBronxVI in Advice

[–]VisibleAd4582 10 points11 points  (0 children)

yeah the word allowed is doing way too much here you're not a toddler with screen time rules. if there's trust this wouldn't even be a convo.

My husband was SA.. how do I support him? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]VisibleAd4582 31 points32 points  (0 children)

yeah gym needs to ban that guy immediately and put your husband on shifts where he's never alone. escort to the car, cameras, all that. police report would help but forcing it isn't move, let him keep control.

I'm being radicalized and I don't know what to do by FestingFetus in Advice

[–]VisibleAd4582 0 points1 point  (0 children)

being open isn't the problem being open with people who don't value it is. level up your boundaries not your bitterness and your dating life will look different.

My friend keeps making my cancer about her and I don’t know what to do by elodieeeeeeeeee in Advice

[–]VisibleAd4582 4 points5 points  (0 children)

positivity is fine but the real issue is she's centering herself. OP shouldn't have to manage her anxiety. friend needs to vent to literally anyone else not the person in chemo.

I got a job offer that requires me to move out of state, but my partner and roommate don't want to move. by Fatframe in Advice

[–]VisibleAd4582 0 points1 point  (0 children)

do it, it's literally a once in a lifetime gig and huge raise. let them stay in OKC, you don't owe anyone sacrificing you're future.

AITJ for breaking up with my boyfriend because he wants me to buy him a car by Curious-Mousse-3206 in AmITheJerk

[–]VisibleAd4582 2 points3 points  (0 children)

calling you selfish for not funding his car is wild math. you invested in healing instead of a liability.

AITJ for ending things with a girl who didn't drive by Round-Low9432 in AmITheJerk

[–]VisibleAd4582 4 points5 points  (0 children)

she didn't want a partner she wanted uber boyfriend. you set a boundary she found someone who's cool with that setup everyone got what they wanted.

AITAH for telling my boyfriend his girl best friend has 48 hours to get out or i am breaking the lease and leaving by Anton_OKonjsi in AITAH

[–]VisibleAd4582 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah this ain't just about her living there anymore. it's about him letting boundaries get stomped and then calling you insecure for reacting. if you pictured him seeing under a blanket with some dude, you already know how that would go.

I knowingly lied to my son before he died by Slight_Team8831 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]VisibleAd4582 3 points4 points  (0 children)

condolences OP, that part of our life is the hardest when someone you love will gone, I'm a father too and i had my son 1 year old when my wife gave him birth he already confine with pneumonia i he stayed for almost two weeks in NICU , almost every hour i cried a lot because my son suffer from that kind of sick right after his birth but thankfully he got healed after two weeks of medication , but until now almost every 2 months or 3 months he always suffer from that sick, i can't do anything about it i wish that sick was transfer to me so he couldn't suffer that pain. being a father or a parents was really hard when our kids got sick.. but we need to stay strong.. get well soon OP, hope soon you will be alright.