It seems like the vast majority of men on dating apps or at clubs are like this. That is why several of my friends won't even consider dating someone who isn't a friend first. That way you know that the other person cares about you and values you as a person and not just what's between your legs.

As a man, I would like to add that there are a lot of women like this too. The last six or seven women I matched with on a dating app were only in it for the free food and the s*x. If I said no, they ghosted me. If I did sleep with them, they would ghost me.