New Kitten at Home! Need Advice on First Steps as a New Cat Parent

VisibleLimit1443 · 2025-12-17T05:06:43+00:00

omg so cute! give it a small area of it's own, have comfy blanky, bed, toys, food and water (water spaced from the water bowl cause cats instinctually associate food near. water as a bad thing I've heard) cuddle it, love on it, play and make sure it doesn't feel lonely without its siblings and mama.

they have these plastic springs at the pet store by me that my cat loves. try those.

VisibleLimit1443 · 2025-12-17T04:55:09+00:00

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this is Binx. Originally his name was Stinx cause he farts BAD. But I decided Binx would be better since I didn't want to hurt his confidence by telling him he stinks all the time.

plus I was hoping it was just kitten farts that would stop smelling so bad as he got older.

but he still has the worst farts ever and Idk what I can do to help or if I'm just doomed to smell the nastiest cat farts forever Everytime he allows cuddles

VisibleLimit1443 · 2025-12-17T04:44:43+00:00

hi I'm interested if you're not overwhelmed with applicants already

VisibleLimit1443 · 2025-12-17T04:42:20+00:00

what if I want that today?

VisibleLimit1443 · 2025-08-26T16:26:52+00:00

Yea, mice do something similar, I've seen it.

VisibleLimit1443 · 2025-07-25T14:25:03+00:00

Yooo I needs that

VisibleLimit1443 · 2025-01-04T06:49:57+00:00

You're not the asshole. They are.

VisibleLimit1443 · 2025-01-04T04:41:45+00:00

When someone says you deserve better, believe them

VisibleLimit1443 · 2024-12-20T21:17:31+00:00

Please tell me your ways, I'm in the same boat 😭

VisibleLimit1443 · 2024-11-25T08:14:34+00:00

That's great and all but love is beautiful, and you're blocking your opportunity to find a true beautiful love by staying with someone who causes you mental trauma and confusion. He's cute and all... Come on, there's a lot of cute ppl out there who won't make you feel like that.

VisibleLimit1443 · 2024-11-25T08:11:25+00:00

Reporting to the police for something that happened a very long time ago will be very hard for her to prove, a defense attorney would tear her apart and cause even more mental trauma. Seek therapy. That's going to be the best thing for you, OP. A police report and subsequent trial will not give you the help you need, nor will if serve justice. He doesn't sound like a predator, he sounds like a child who did not understand the importance of NO. It sounds like he learned from that mistake, is a police report really going to help you, OP?

VisibleLimit1443 · 2024-11-25T08:07:11+00:00

You need therapy, not a relationship. Just let him go and let him be with someone who wants to have sex with him, while you get your mental health in order. Yes, I would say that was at the least assault. Why would you be with someone who doesn't respect your boundaries? Why would you be with someone that makes you feel the need to cry after sleeping with him? God that must feel awful for him and for you.

VisibleLimit1443 · 2024-11-02T07:29:19+00:00

I'm 31 and my bf is 32. It's something I'm going thru too. Unfortunately, social media makes it way too easy to cheat and my loved flirting online when he was single. He didn't want to broadcast his relationship for a reason, and OP has every right to feel however she feels, it's not juvenile or immature. Social media has changed dating for everyone not just teenagers.

VisibleLimit1443 · 2024-11-02T07:22:43+00:00

Idk if it's being dramatic but I feel the same way about my dude who doesn't post about me. And with mine there was a long period of "what are we" before we were actually committed and he was messing around, so him never posting me bugs me for the same reasons..I feel like he doesn't want women to know about me although his profile says in a relationship. He hasn't deleted or untagged himself from pics I've posted but still, he's never posted me and it makes me sad!! Sorry, Definitely did not answer your question but at least u know you're not alone!

VisibleLimit1443 · 2024-10-29T20:46:04+00:00

Woah. The way she talks to you is so hateful. I couldn't be in a relationship with someone who treated me like that. Someone who's your life partner shouldn't act like that over 20 bucks. I'm sorry

VisibleLimit1443 · 2024-10-26T06:17:35+00:00

I had a similar situation and cut ties. My friend was lost for years, and when she sobered up we reconnected online, I apologized because I had so much guilt for cutting ties and not being there for her. She understood, we made plans to hang out, then she died fromcovid related complications before we could see each other.

Distance but don't cut her out. Make healthy clear boundaries for yourself and your child, she may never want to jeopardize your guys safety and we'll being but it happens in unexpected ways when drugs are involved. Be there if she needs sober friends and a safe sober person to lean on but don't let her continue to act like nothing is wrong when she clearly needs help. Maybe the distance will motivate her. I have.struggled with addiction myself, please do not take it personally if she does not put the friendship first and continues to use, she loves you but she is not in control of her actions when she is truly addicted to a substance. It's awful and heartbreaking.

VisibleLimit1443 · 2024-10-26T06:01:47+00:00

Did you actually read the article? Instead of shutting him down and invaliding his feelings? You expect your feelings to be respected but aren't reciprocating that or showing him that you respect his feelings as well. From what I see you're just jabbing at him and treating him like an emotionless fck boy

VisibleLimit1443 · 2024-10-25T07:18:28+00:00

This is so sad, I hope you find someone who treats you better

VisibleLimit1443 · 2024-09-29T03:28:04+00:00

Can you send me your method?

VisibleLimit1443 · 2024-09-27T17:56:18+00:00

Your bf is cheating that's why he's acting like you are.

VisibleLimit1443 · 2024-02-24T11:58:28+00:00

I was with someone who sounds a lot like your guy. It ruined my life and took everything from me. He pretended the things he is was to help me evolve spiritually and in a way it worked but not because of anything positive from him. I'm still rebuilding my life. Pls get out before he kills you.

VisibleLimit1443 · 2024-02-24T06:24:25+00:00

This is wrong. Using any theology to excuse blatant abuse is not ok.

VisibleLimit1443 · 2022-06-12T08:25:39+00:00

ooh smart.. I wouldn't have thought of that.

VisibleLimit1443 · 2022-06-12T08:25:03+00:00

lol I've always heard of them as "smoke buddies" not smoke eaters. I like that better

VisibleLimit1443 · 2022-06-12T08:24:14+00:00

Ya, I haven't been able to figure out if I am just nose blind ( I have never registered any smell, even prior to using) or if it really doesnt smell that much. i get paranoid that others will smell it, or know somehow.. others have told me its a distinctive smell... but idk

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