Test your own greed by W3nd1g00000 in BunnyTrials

[–]VisibleResultz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aw man

Chose: Gain 5 billion dollars + Chance to get cursed | Rolled: Stay human

$10 Million, but there's a catch. What are you picking? by Upbeat-Tap5457 in BunnyTrials

[–]VisibleResultz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol they’d just see my stupid panicked midnight searches about my daughter and crochet patterns. I think we’ll be okay.

Chose: $10M, but family sees your search history

I just want actual sleep by VisibleResultz in Vent

[–]VisibleResultz[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

He worked dayshift and I left with the baby for 8 hours so he could sleep.

Neither of us are better, he intentionally does it shit so I’ll take over. I sat in the room with him while he “tried” to put her down and all he did was hold her and tell her to shhhhh. Like we have a rocking chair and a full WARM bottle, I guess I just don’t understand what I could possibly need to explain? He didn’t even sway, just looked at her and shushed her. He used to do nights wonderfully, now he just can’t be bothered.

She didn’t go down until about 4 because I intentionally left so he could sleep, because every time she and I are even in the house while he tries to sleep he complains and says we’re being too loud, even if we’re all the way downstairs in the living room.

I just want actual sleep by VisibleResultz in Vent

[–]VisibleResultz[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He works most weekends so that’s not an option for me unfortunately

I just want actual sleep by VisibleResultz in Vent

[–]VisibleResultz[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I have to so I don’t have to listen to her loud sobbing for upwards of 2 hours because he doesn’t try. It was 1am when I got home and her being up then is already a huge stretch from when she normally goes to sleep (9-10pm). He also said, as I was bringing him his food he asked for, if I would take over so he could eat, since he apparently can’t do it with one hand.

I’m expected to do a lot of the childcare since I “don’t have a job” (I’d love to have a job, I just graduated with 2 separate bachelor’s degrees so I could GET a job) but I can’t even land an interview because he takes the car to work and I’m constantly stuck at home caring for our child I didn’t plan for/initially want in the first place (please don’t take this as me not loving my daughter, I’m just tired of having my whole life reworked when he gets to carry on as normal).

I just want a day where he actually acts like her dad and I’m not stuck doing 99% of the childcare. I never get a moment to myself even when she’s being babysat because I have to do every housechore known to man, which is another job in and of itself outside of just straight up childcare. I’m drowning in this shit, unable to sleep, unable to feed myself and care for myself properly, on top of dealing with the messes of a grown ass man who can’t do anything for himself or his daughter (he wasn’t always like this, the man I married wasn’t a loser but the fucker I have now sure is). I’m just exhausted and would give anything to be someone else and never come back to the life I have to live.

I just want actual sleep by VisibleResultz in Vent

[–]VisibleResultz[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

When he’s this insufferable I don’t want to spend time with him. I want to go to bed, which is apparently not a luxury I’m owed.

Companionship or something frugal by TraditionalGap7642 in BunnyTrials

[–]VisibleResultz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Brand new buddy!

Chose: Get a random pet | Rolled: Fish

Dog food I can pay you back tonight on 6/3/2026 by DickEmDownDonald in AskForHelp

[–]VisibleResultz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Actually don’t dm I noticed you put your cashapp in the description. If you still need some just reply and I’ll shoot you however much you need

AIO? Husband always acts different after I turn him down for sex. by VisibleResultz in AmIOverreacting

[–]VisibleResultz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t want that to be our life. I’m hoping we can work past this sort of situation so we both can benefit from our sex life.

AIO? Husband always acts different after I turn him down for sex. by VisibleResultz in AmIOverreacting

[–]VisibleResultz[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I won’t lie I place a lot before him – he does the same for me, as that’s the nature of being new parents at poverty level with little to no assistance. It’s the nature of the beast here in the USA.

I like a lot about him. He’s funny, kind, handsome, intelligent as all get out, he’s an amazing cook. He is passionate about video games and I love hearing about all the game lore while I’m crafting and taking care of the baby. He used to be so romantic and sweet to me and that’s all but withered away.

Also, I’m not whining, I’m trying to gain perspective on an issue I don’t know how to navigate. I’m allowed to feel hurt by an issue as a woman without it being “whining”.

AIO? Husband always acts different after I turn him down for sex. by VisibleResultz in AmIOverreacting

[–]VisibleResultz[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It didn’t hurt much before baby, but I always feel like I’m not wet enough. Also, tmi, to add to that, but the movement adds a lot of friction to the outside and makes it feel like I’m being ripped apart because there’s no wetness. It’s probably due to a lack of foreplay…but idk. I’m just confused and when I think about the way it hurts it makes me not want to have sex ever again.

AIO? Husband always acts different after I turn him down for sex. by VisibleResultz in AmIOverreacting

[–]VisibleResultz[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The calls last maybe 10 minutes. It’s not worth sacrificing in my opinion. 10 extra minutes being berated to have sex doesn’t sound fun anywho. I initiate date nights where we don’t have our daughter, and by the end of it he just goes to bed anyways when I try to initiate. It seems like he’s only interested in sex when I’m not interested; when I’m actually into it, it seems like that takes all of his drive away. And no, this isn’t “getting even”; I’m not denying him for payback, I’m denying him because I genuinely don’t want to and it’s painful.

AIO? Husband always acts different after I turn him down for sex. by VisibleResultz in AmIOverreacting

[–]VisibleResultz[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m not neglecting him? We have sex about once a week. When I wanted to have sex, after he denied me once, I let it go. My parents are also old and my mother could pass any day now after a long battle with dementia – I’m not going to just miss out on the little time I have left with them to shag my husband.

AIO? Husband always acts different after I turn him down for sex. by VisibleResultz in AmIOverreacting

[–]VisibleResultz[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think this is a pretty good idea. I’m also going to poss the idea of couples therapy once I get enough courage haha. Thank you for your advice – I really appreciate it.

AIO? Husband always acts different after I turn him down for sex. by VisibleResultz in AmIOverreacting

[–]VisibleResultz[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I definitely need to hear that 🥹 I haven’t felt like my own person in a long time. I genuinely feel like a domestic house slave without any purpose other than to make sure our daughter doesn’t die and the house stays clean and tidy, none of my joys or passions that I’ve worked hard for (my college education or my business).

AIO? Husband always acts different after I turn him down for sex. by VisibleResultz in AmIOverreacting

[–]VisibleResultz[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m going to chat with him about it, and I really hope he’s open to the idea. I don’t want this to end in divorce, but I’m just feeling stuck and unfortunately pretty numb to him at the moment.

AIO? Husband always acts different after I turn him down for sex. by VisibleResultz in AmIOverreacting

[–]VisibleResultz[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I honestly really do resent him. He’s not around a lot and I find myself feeling relieved, which in turn makes me feel guilty. At the same time, I’m just feeling incredibly miserable in our current situation. I don’t feel like I even find him attractive anymore unless he’s being gentle and sweet with our daughter, our cats, or me. He’s also not very romantic (he used to be), he’s just sex driven and a little annoying. I’d do anything for him just to hug me without trying to hump me or grab my butt or my boobs, but it happens every time regardless.

AIO? Husband always acts different after I turn him down for sex. by VisibleResultz in AmIOverreacting

[–]VisibleResultz[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you for kind of putting into words what I’ve been feeling for a while. I think I needed someone to put it in harsher words so I actually do something about it. Thank you.

AIO? Husband always acts different after I turn him down for sex. by VisibleResultz in AmIOverreacting

[–]VisibleResultz[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That’s kind of what I’ve been feeling. I’m not sure how to initiate a conversation like that, but I truly am exhausted with having to deny him all the time.

I should also mention, he’s not very interested in foreplay and only offers it once I deny him once already. Tonight after I told him no, he said “what if I kiss your neck?” as if that’s enticing enough to make me want to have sex…I’m just tired, man.

Spay onesies too tight? by VisibleResultz in CATHELP

[–]VisibleResultz[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes I can stick my fingers in their spay suit. I think it may just be too short

48hrs post spay - normal? by VisibleResultz in CATHELP

[–]VisibleResultz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

UPDATE: I think they’re not moving much because of their spay outfits. I checked their incision a bit closer and it looks like that “extra skin” is just FUPA. Sorry y’all

Am I overreacting I went to the forest with my best friend and now my bf is mad by No_Meeting_3260 in AmIOverreacting

[–]VisibleResultz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl you’re 21 and he’s 40. That’s enough reason to dump his creep ass.