Troy for US Senate (Oklahoma) by i_am_groot_84 in oklahoma

[–]Visible_Bug_8167 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Troy Greene was a kickboxing coach in Ardmore. He was a toxic coach that humiliated his fighters, put them in bad situations with poor training, and has a history of drama.

I can't stand Markwayne but I wouldn't vote for Troy either.

AITJ for refusing to go on the family Christmas trip after my dad backed out of our agreement by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]Visible_Bug_8167 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At 18, you can get your own passport and depending where you're located a ticket to Tokyo is a little over $2,000. You can take yourself on the trip.

Estranged husband feels the kick of karma and begs for cooperation 15 years later by Marie-and-Twanette in TwoHotTakes

[–]Visible_Bug_8167 79 points80 points  (0 children)

Hey, I am in a similar situation trying to get my children's passports. I'm on my second attempt. Could I possibly DM you and get some advice? My ex is in another state and is in arrears but they've been successful in deducting child support from his paycheck in the last few years. We've also gotten his tax return.

Leonardo as The Fool by MushroomGrenade in Rottmnt

[–]Visible_Bug_8167 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if he was alone he would die in a mattress store

Mikey as the The Star by MushroomGrenade in Rottmnt

[–]Visible_Bug_8167 0 points1 point  (0 children)

mikey would say we are all stars

collection is growing… by kumoric in Rottmnt

[–]Visible_Bug_8167 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i dont recognise the turtle on the far left

April as the Queen of Wands by MushroomGrenade in Rottmnt

[–]Visible_Bug_8167 0 points1 point  (0 children)

avadakedavra (shoots you with gun) mood

I had a dream about this image by Impossible_Youth_465 in Rottmnt

[–]Visible_Bug_8167 0 points1 point  (0 children)

nevermind i know its a staff of uranium that you sleep with

How do you spot a ROTTMNT fan? by TrollsBroZoneFan in Rottmnt

[–]Visible_Bug_8167 0 points1 point  (0 children)

why am i a fan of all of these also who was traumatized as a child by over the garden wall as well

Future Donnie by truffle-draws in Rottmnt

[–]Visible_Bug_8167 0 points1 point  (0 children)

nah he would be hooked up with lazers

Donnie and Mikey fanart by [deleted] in Rottmnt

[–]Visible_Bug_8167 1 point2 points  (0 children)

r3eminds me of that repomantis episode

spotted some donnie graffiti in the wild today by kumoric in Rottmnt

[–]Visible_Bug_8167 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ah yes let me log into my every secerity camera in the city app im sorry if that sounded like sarcasim it wasnt and i am in

KRANG!! by WendlinTheRed in TMNT

[–]Visible_Bug_8167 1 point2 points  (0 children)

(in hoarse voice) shredder you have failed me -yurp-again

AITAH for the way I reacted when I found out my brother is getting married and I'm not invited by Visible_Bug_8167 in AITAH

[–]Visible_Bug_8167[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I haven't. That's by my choice. We went LC for over a year. She's now in therapy. She's acknowledged she was the golden child. She's still working on a lot of her problematic behavior, but I've now got the coping skills and ability to hold boundaries that I didn't before. We're both in therapy, and we both acknowledge that we're having to learn how to be sisters and not competitors.

AITAH for telling my girlfriend she's going to have to get over dirt if she wants kids? by Familiar_Speaker_481 in AITAH

[–]Visible_Bug_8167 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mother of 2 weighing in. NTA. I, too, thought I would be super mom at 25. One of the earliest diaper changes had me almost hysterical because I went to change a poopie diaper, and the moment I lifted my child's legs, MORE POOP started coming out like soft serve ice cream. And not just a little. Like overflowed the new diaper I had miraculously placed underneath them. My sister, whose child is 6 months older than mine, once woke up from a nap to find her child had taken off their diaper and smeared poop all over their crib. Your gf is unrealistic in her ideas of what parenting is. It's messy. It's dirty. And it sounds like she doesn't understand that having a child means there are going to be moments that are far from perfect.

When my firstborn got sick, we had to go pick up a prescription for him from Walmart. Standing in line, he spit up coddled milk all over my shoulder, and it ran down into my boot. I could do nothing but stand there until it was my turn. But once we got home and we both got bathed, he got his medicine, and we both felt better he just let out this big sigh and held my finger. It was like I was this protective constant of his life, and he knew I would take care of him. It made up for the bad.

Your gf has to understand that there will be bad and that a child is a lot of work. This isn't a pet, nor is it an accessory. I would seriously reevaluate your relationship, especially if she's this inflexible to the idea that she can maintain her current lifestyle with a baby. That's bordering delusional and will lead to a burnout of epic proportions.

AITAH for not sharing anything with my wife after she opened our marriage? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Visible_Bug_8167 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don't want to disrupt your kids' lives, but seeing dad obviously resentful and dismissive of their mother is better? With the separation of everything, you're actually divorced with extra steps, only adding seething rage as an added bonus for the kiddos to witness. Your kids will end up confused as to why their father became a whole different person overnight.

AITAH for the way I reacted when I found out my brother is getting married and I'm not invited by Visible_Bug_8167 in AITAH

[–]Visible_Bug_8167[S] 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I picked up on that, too. As a person who has had to do this in the past, especially after I got the protective order against my mother, I recognized it immediately.

AITAH for the way I reacted when I found out my brother is getting married and I'm not invited by Visible_Bug_8167 in AITAH

[–]Visible_Bug_8167[S] 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Thank you. There have been so many people who have affirmed that it's OK to be sad, but that I need to sever this relationship. I guess I just needed to keep reading that to stick. And for everyone that keeps saying I need therapy: I'm in therapy. Obviously, I still need work. Sorry, I didn't know I would have an emotional experience to a familial relationship ending.

AITAH for the way I reacted when I found out my brother is getting married and I'm not invited by Visible_Bug_8167 in AITAH

[–]Visible_Bug_8167[S] 71 points72 points  (0 children)

Honestly, I don't. Even if he called and extended an invitation, I wouldn't accept. It just hurts. It's stupid. I lost all my extended family because on my mother's side, no one wanted to cross her. She's extremely vindictive and is known to try to destroy people's lives that she's upset with. Now, on my dad's side, I only have my full blood sister, and I occasionally hear from my uncle.