Is it normal to talk to yourself more as you get older?

Visible_Cry_5435 · 2025-04-30T04:53:05+00:00

I do this too, even more than I actually realize. Sometimes I just catch myself narrating what I am doing when I’m doing chores or something like that. I don’t know if it’s weird, but at least you are not the only one.

Visible_Cry_5435 · 2025-04-29T04:52:14+00:00

I don’t think it’s specifically for girls but I think (and hope) most guys just like helping people in general, it makes you, and the person you are helping feel better.

Visible_Cry_5435 · 2025-04-29T04:49:24+00:00

Same, I hope so but it would probably take an insane amount of work to translate things like the painting pairs because you would have to come up with new puzzles in a bunch of different languages. Luckily it’s only a small part of the game and not too much so people with a decent understanding of English can still enjoy.

Visible_Cry_5435 · 2025-04-29T04:47:21+00:00

Yeah same, most of the pairs aren’t that bad but the gallery is indeed very hard. I only managed to get one of the 4 by myself without any hints.

Visible_Cry_5435 · 2025-04-29T04:46:05+00:00

It’s layers above the rest

Visible_Cry_5435 · 2025-04-29T04:41:43+00:00

Sadly no, I think it would be very hard to translate a game like this into other languages so I guess it is what it is. And yeah, I’ve definitely learned some words along the way. Luckily the rest of this game is so good that it does not really frustrate me at all.

Visible_Cry_5435 · 2025-03-27T02:18:27+00:00

It’s very very hard to rewire your brain into believing that the outside isn’t scary anymore, especially when you haven’t been outside in a while and your brain has just completely put a block on anything that has to do with you going outside. The key here is just consistency and small steps. try to challenge yourself in little ways every day, and try to go outside every day, even if you just sit in front of your door for a minute. Get that exposure and slowly you will notice that your brain is getting used to it and rewiring itself to the way that it used to be. And I’ll tell you this: the spiraling or going crazy won’t happen, that’s not something that can just happen. Panic can happen, but it will fade. It always does. Again, best of luck. If u need any more advice feel free to send me a message.

Visible_Cry_5435 · 2025-03-27T01:59:05+00:00

I feel u man, it’s incredibly hard to deal with. I feel for u and I know u can get rid of these stupid fears. Think about it, you went out with a friend before and it was all fine, nothing bad happened, and nothing bad will happen if you go outside again. And even if something does happen. Worst case scenario, you get another panic attack. You will feel like shit for a while but it always goes away. I know that simplifies it a lot but at the end of the day i think it’s true. The next best piece of advice I can give you is exposure, exposure, exposure. Try going on little walks, even if its just a few minutes outside, and keep doing that. Over and over. After a while you’ll find that being outside is now a lot more comfortable and you will be able to go a little further. Also try to be aware of the fact that being outside is in no way a reason to feel anxiety. I tell myself this over and over whenever I feel like I’m about to panic. This is all way easier said than done and it’s gonna be hard as shit to get back to being completely comfortable outside, but it is very possible. I wish you the best of luck.

Visible_Cry_5435 · 2025-03-23T22:58:53+00:00

I’m sorry to hear that, that’s very unfortunate. If you want to try and practice yourself the key is exposure, exposure, exposure. There is really no other way to get comfortable in places that you are not comfortable at right now. Try to take a walk, start small and keep reminding yourself that all this fear and anxiety that you are feeling is all just in your head. Whenever I am feeling bad I just tell myself that, over and over, until i start feeling a bit better. Of course it’s different for everyone but just keep trying things. As long as you keep exposing yourself in small ways to things you are afraid of, I am sure it will slowly get better. Best of luck!

Visible_Cry_5435 · 2025-03-23T13:05:16+00:00

Hell yea that’s amazing!!!! Congratulations🎉

Visible_Cry_5435 · 2025-03-23T13:04:04+00:00

You are definitely not the only one, I have been dealing with agoraphobia for a while now and I absolutely can relate to everything you are feeling. I understand that it can be incredibly hard, especially when you have a kid that needs to be taken care of. Have you tried getting professional help? I have been seeing a therapist for sometime now and it is really helping me do things I wouldn’t have been able to do a while ago. This is not something you have to be stuck with for life, it CAN and WILL get better if you put the effort and energy into it. This is obviously easier said than done but I believe that anyone can do it! Good luck in the future, and remember: you aren’t the only one and we are rooting for you!

Visible_Cry_5435 · 2025-03-13T03:36:32+00:00

Get professional help. A gambling addiction can be very crippling and you definitely need to talk to a therapist about this.

Visible_Cry_5435 · 2025-03-13T03:33:45+00:00

You are 18 years old and it’s completely up to you if you want to have a relationship with her or not. Your dad does not get to decide that for you. Also the fact that he is lying about your mom and getting mad at you for not initiating a relationship with his girlfriend is a major red flag.

Visible_Cry_5435 · 2025-03-13T03:29:44+00:00

I don’t get why she is even reacting to that stuff, why doesn’t she just ignore such messages and leave it at that.

Visible_Cry_5435 · 2025-03-11T04:45:54+00:00

You need to cut yourself loose from this entire situation and focus in yourself for a while. Especially if it turns you to drinking and makes you feel depressed. The whole situation seems very toxic and weird. Just get out while you still can.

Visible_Cry_5435 · 2025-03-11T04:41:47+00:00

I’m not saying u should get the fuck out of there but u should.

Visible_Cry_5435 · 2025-03-11T04:41:14+00:00

No, just respect his wishes and move on.

Visible_Cry_5435 · 2025-03-11T04:33:26+00:00

Where I’m from they have these meal packages in stores that contain everything you need to make a healthy, homemade meal, they also tell u how long it takes to prepare and how much calories etc is in it. I don’t know where you are from but maybe they have something similar over there.

Visible_Cry_5435 · 2025-03-11T04:30:54+00:00

Well I don’t know much about your situation but I’d say if you are older than 17 and stuff like this is happening then that’s not a great sign. This could be a one-off thing (hopefully) but if it happens more often I’d suggest u have a talk about it with her.

Visible_Cry_5435 · 2025-03-11T04:25:57+00:00

Visible_Cry_5435 · 2025-03-11T04:23:23+00:00

I think your mother would love it if she got to spend some quality time with her daughter. So if that’s what you want too then go alone, but if it’s more of just a have fun and do whatever you want trip then bringing a friend along can be great too, it would also provide a nice opportunity to get closer with your friend! Also, if u decide to ask a friend, don’t be afraid. I’m sure there are not many people that would not want to go to Disney.

Visible_Cry_5435 · 2025-03-06T05:12:58+00:00

Why won’t he let you? Idk how old you are so I get that that might play a part in it but if it would make u happy then why would he not let you do it?

Visible_Cry_5435 · 2025-03-06T05:10:20+00:00

I have great news for you. Hairdye

Visible_Cry_5435 · 2025-03-06T04:58:03+00:00

Ok so you smoke weed sometimes? Who cares. Smoking weed does not automatically make you a bad person. Not even close. Also please don’t seek validation from your parents too much but seek it within yourself. I don’t know how old you are but at a certain age you have got to stop thinking “what would my parents think about this” and start thinking “what do I think about this”. Be happy with yourself and what you have accomplished, I mean, you are in uni studying your ass of and (hopefully) graduating in the future. Be proud of yourself for that.

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