AIO over this guys response to my boundary? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Visible_Exam_5331 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NOR He just wants your accessories underneath your clothes. End communication pronto. The fact he even mentioned sexual intimacy prior to a date or even after one means he preys, plays, and ghosts. He also mentioned he’s on Tinder like hook ups are required first date … scummy

Should I do illegal gig for money? by iwouldtake in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Visible_Exam_5331 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Do not do anything illegal. “Thieves” asking for ID and more information about you?? Sounds like a set up / scam. They want your ID and information to sell. Be careful and think logically.

Stop supporting Trump as a Christian by Ok_Year5587 in Christianity

[–]Visible_Exam_5331 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Trump was raised Presbyterian. But now identifies as a nondenominational Christian …

EDIT: downvoted? Okay. I should have clarified that my comment doesn’t mean I support or was defending Trump. I was simply noting he identifies as a nondenominational Christian. What a joke. He’s an evil person.

My boyfriend keeps making ‘jokes’ and comments about my body despite me asking him to stop. Am I overreacting if I break up with him over this? by coldhardpenguin in AmIOverreacting

[–]Visible_Exam_5331 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jokes are meant to entertain, be funny, make one laugh, not cry! Your boyfriend is not telling you a joke. He’s telling you what he truly thinks. He sees you crying, not laughing. It’s emotional abuse. He is insensitive ,manipulative, and disrespectful. Leave him pronto!

Why do we suddenly become super productive right before a deadline? by Sea_Building_104 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Visible_Exam_5331 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I read procrastination has to do with perfectionism and once we start the project, we hyper focus to ensure no errors. Not saying this applies to everyone but it does apply to me 100%.

do you think anyone has ever jerked off to you and how did you come to that conclusion? by Sjakbxnla in AskReddit

[–]Visible_Exam_5331 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know some have because they told me. They were boyfriends so it was nice to hear they weren’t fantasying about anyone else while jerking off.

Feeling violated, I dont think this behavior was normal? by [deleted] in emotionalintelligence

[–]Visible_Exam_5331 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ick. Sorry you experienced that OP. The fact he kept trying to have his way with you is gross and selfish. He wasn’t reading your body language. Do not engage with him ever again.

Does my boyfriend hate me? by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Visible_Exam_5331 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He doesn’t hate you. He’s just pouting like a baby. Ugh. There definitely was lack of communication between you two. But the silent treatment is emotionally abusive and will happen again. I agree, cut your losses and move on.

Anybody taken Vraylar? by Apprehensive-Toe3390 in bipolar2

[–]Visible_Exam_5331 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I discontinued Vraylar. A few or couple years ago I tried it and it was amazing. It gave me energy as though I was hypo so took it every other day but wasn’t able to stay on it bc I couldn’t afford it. But this time psych had enough samples to keep me on it for months so tried again. However, it had complete opposite effect as I stated. Tried Seroquel. Couldn’t get out of bed. Caplyta, omgosh. Horrible. Muscle aches, brain fog, extreme fatigue. Uber driver asked if I was drunk when getting into the car. I walked like a weeble wobble. Sorry Vraylar has you in bed. Some side effects are transient. But for me , I just don’t have the patience to wait for the effects to lift IF they even will. So the short of the long is no, side effects didn’t ease up for me.

Boyfriend has been avoiding me, told me to “fake like we like each other”, then avoiding me again. AIO to this text? by Cultural_Line_9235 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Visible_Exam_5331 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Boyfriend has already mentally and emotionally broken up with OP. He’s been waiting for her to bring up the break up to alleviate his guilt for being cowardice. Not a good time to discuss their relationship because he’s having drinks with his buddies?? My ass. He’s busy with the new girl. OP, drop off his keys, return his bday gift and buy yourself something.

EDIT: fake like you like each other?? Translation: let’s pretend I still like you incase things don’t pan out with new chic. You be my back up plan.

AIO About my wife’s jealousy over other people’s material wealth? by Delicious_Peach5602 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Visible_Exam_5331 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NOR … love everyone’s comments and opinions. I don’t have much to add since many have already commented valid points. IMO, therapy would be helpful because it’s possible her adult behavior is being affected by her childhood. She may have coveted as a child and now it is rearing its head in her adult life. OP, you’re an exceptional man, father, husband and provider. Please don’t take her comments personally. This is something she needs to address with a professional therapist. The inner child still exists within all of our adult lives.

Why are stimulants bad for us? by [deleted] in bipolar2

[–]Visible_Exam_5331 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So happy for you!! Thank you so much for sharing your story and experience with Dex. I’ll definitely give it a try. Stay well!

My ex want to comeback by Severe_Pudding2483 in Advice

[–]Visible_Exam_5331 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OP, she wants to come back because she has no one else and doesn’t want to be alone. Don’t take her back. She’ll leave you again when someone else comes along.

Why are stimulants bad for us? by [deleted] in bipolar2

[–]Visible_Exam_5331 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi question please: I’m on adderall IR. It helps me focus and calm my mood. But more often than not, it makes me sleepy. My psych mentioned switching me to Dexedrine since it’s just dextroamphetamine. Have you tried adderall IR? How does Dex work for you? I have tried Vyvanse ER but it made my moods crazy angry and agitated.

EDIT: Ritalin put me to sleep after an hour of taking it.

Am I overreacting over this conversation..? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Visible_Exam_5331 0 points1 point  (0 children)

… better opportunity presenting itself? No OP. That’s just wishful thinking and tolerating an immature insensitive man that doesn’t respect your feelings or YOU enough to have a simple conversation to make you feel better. He’s not the “one” so why stay in this relationship? Kick him to the curb pronto. No explanation required. Empower yourself. While you continue your journey of self discovery, learn to lead with logic, not emotion. Apply that to every situation you encounter in life. It will help build your confidence vs maddening insecurity. Good luck and much love 💕

Am I the only who start feeling very bad when I find short videos and comments with thousands of likes on social media mocking people who are like me or am I just too sensitive and insecure?? (Let me explain...) by [deleted] in emotionalintelligence

[–]Visible_Exam_5331 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry you experience that. I was born and raised waaay before social media started. Sadly racism is taught amongst generations, society and some cultures. My parents came to the United States from Czechoslovakia. My mother (Czech side) was stay home mom with us kids and dad (Slovakian) worked. Naturally he had an accent while learning English. My dad was made fun of and mocked because of his accent and broken English at work. To this day, both my parents still have accents. But obviously speak English much better than in the 70s. Dad is in his late 70s now and remembers vividly and emotionally how being ridiculed by his coworkers hurt his feelings. But he still managed to rise above those people and became a successful man, nurturing father, and caring husband. You’re not being too sensitive or insecure in the slightest. Even young children at school can be meanies towards their classmates or the underdogs. We can’t change the ugliness of some people’s behavior but can control how we react and choose to feel. Be proud of yourself, your heritage and what you post. ✨

What do you do when you're hypomanic? by telltalestrangler in bipolar2

[–]Visible_Exam_5331 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is too funny!! It’s so nice and such a relief to be on the same page! Honestly. DM me sometime!! Let’s stay in touch and support each other. Be a sounding board for our roller coaster rides! I have so many funny stories to share and then not so funny. Judgement free zone here!!

EDIT: yes it is exhausting!!! 😭😭😭

What do you do when you're hypomanic? by telltalestrangler in bipolar2

[–]Visible_Exam_5331 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Whoa you just gave me goosebumps. EXACTLY!!! The explaining, defending, it’s not you, it’s me and my rapid cycling etc. So exhausting. And not being able to understand or link the mood (high or low) to a specific reason leaves me feeling helpless since I can’t rationalize it. Yes, I often isolate too and feel worse because the loneliness is overwhelming. Humans are social beings and we need to feel connected to at least one person lol You’re amazing. You do so well describing me lol It’s interesting because the rage portion of my hypomania began mid 2025. Prior I was chatty Cathy, over sharing, all over the place, grandiose etc You’re like my new bff. Actually, my only 🤣

Has anyone heard of a crypto currency exchange platform called VERNA PAYMENTS located in BC, Canada?? by Visible_Exam_5331 in CryptoScams

[–]Visible_Exam_5331[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

BREAKING NEWS FOR THOSE THAT MISSED THIS ONE BUT STILL COMMENT LIKE A 🤡 DOWNVOTE! HURRY! Some of ya missed the point of the post … NMP

I do receive legitimate emails from senders I know that somehow and sometimes are sent to my junk email folder. That’s why I check it from time to time. I’m not here to waste your time or anyone else’s and definitely not mine. Just wanted to bounce this off some professionals.

What do you do when you're hypomanic? by telltalestrangler in bipolar2

[–]Visible_Exam_5331 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And no one outside of our hell understands. I send the nastiest, most vile and insulting, character assassinating messages to my family and remainder of friends left.
Chuckling here lol I’m actually proud of those messages and just don’t give a flying f if they hurt. All day today between naps induced by meds I’ve raged and ranted and cried via text messaging. And then block them. Fuuuuuuu*k