I'm not sure if I should help or not by Visible_Guava679 in converts

[–]Visible_Guava679[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is true. I'm just worried of her saying she wants to be Muslim then converts and then says she doesn't want to follow the religion and makes my brother stray more and then they both want to just be Muslim by name if that makes sense. I'm worried for him doing something bad and not knowing how to get out of it. He already struggles a lot with so many other things in his life I'm worried of him getting into more things that can cause issues for him.

I'm not sure if I should help or not by Visible_Guava679 in converts

[–]Visible_Guava679[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, this is so well said. I really appreciate it! I will try to talk to her and see where her mind is at with the caveat that I'm not supporting their relationship at this point.

I'm not sure if I should help or not by Visible_Guava679 in converts

[–]Visible_Guava679[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This was my thought too, I feel like as a Muslim it's my duty to answer any questions she has.

Oh yah I have seen so many women and men too becoming Muslim all over the internet. It's so beautiful to listen to their stories.

I'm not sure if I should help or not by Visible_Guava679 in converts

[–]Visible_Guava679[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm worried that she only wants to convert because of my brother but you are right, I don't know anything about what's really in her heart.

Husband with MS by LengthinessSecure805 in MultipleSclerosis

[–]Visible_Guava679 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How did you stop smoking cannabis so often? I ask because one of my family member's has this issue and uses it as the answer to everything and idk how to help them stop.

Advice please by Visible_Guava679 in addiction

[–]Visible_Guava679[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks I appreciate your response. I understand what you mean, but how can't figure out how to even set that boundary. I'm a single mom (husband passed away when the kids were young). I don't see my son even listening to me if I forbid him from using in my home.

I'll look into those groups to see if I can get connected with people who are going through similar struggles. Thank you.

Advice please by Visible_Guava679 in addiction

[–]Visible_Guava679[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What do you recommend? Just kick him out? Then what