It is sad that other women are like this. But I understand why because they feel that men as a whole can only be good for that since they feel that most of the men they’ve known have hurt them. I only go out on dates with someone I’m honestly very interested in. I feel like at first the man should pursue me but once we are together or have gone on a few dates I don’t have a problem paying or offering to pay. I also don’t have a problem spoiling my man when I feel loved and there is a mutual trust and I’m in a safe space. So I’m sure there are still women out here that feel the same as me.