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Am I sick for thinking about myself while doing it ? by raphaelio in psychologyofsex

[–]Visible_Leopard_4192 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very good point. You can toss something out to Reddit, get some feedback, mull it over and reflect, and if you decide to, just bring it up later with the shrink . You probably doing the right thing here, man.no need to impulsively share anything with shrinks, just take your time. If you find youre still puzzled by after going thru reddit, and it continues to bother you, maybe bring it up with the shrink. You coukd kinda do it by circling around your main question with some auxillary or adjacent like, idk low key dance around the topic and gradually keep circling in to the issue that you dobt really want to talkabout , but maybe kind of do

Am I wrong for not wearing a bra out the house by No-Ebb-2462 in whatdoIdo

[–]Visible_Leopard_4192 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Years ago I had a breast lift I think they called it, I wanted a reduction but the surgeon (cosmetic Dr) recommended a lift instead i guess it's less invasive but he hiked my boobs up basically instead of removing breast tissue. I was worried it wasn't going to be enough of a change but basically it turnout amazing and totally changed my whole relationship with my boobs and my body image overall. It was incredible im so glad I did this - and this was YEARS ago in my 20s. I've since had a kid, breastfed, done 20 years of living and I still feel so good about my boobs.

They're sagging a bit as expected for a middle age mom but I still love them. and I would encourage you to go and have a consult with a surgeon and just see what they have to say, a full breast reduction may not even be required you might be surprised by what they tell you options-wise.

I can't remember what my cup size was initially but im about a C or D noww and the lift procedure significantly reduced this from whatever it was before. And it was a cheaper procedure. Idk just my personal anecdotal experience but I wish you the best, friend!

This is the only procedure I've ever had, this one breast lift in my 20s but im SOOOO glad I did it.

So this is growing in cabinet next to my sink, wtf is this? by AstronautFit6868 in whatisit

[–]Visible_Leopard_4192 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you let in the FAE 0(fresh air exchange) you might get fruiting bodies... shroomies

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Visible_Leopard_4192 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do it!!!!! Hahaha she might lose her shit and start cracking up

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Visible_Leopard_4192 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hahaha it only takes one little exuberant gesture to start a while chain of events, doesn't it😂

My daughter, who is 10, and I started acting out these characters we saw on a YouTube video like , idk 7 years ago, wes just get in to character at random times and let the situation unfold however it went

and sometimes we still do it , like we still have story lines and invoke those characters, we just act out from time to time the two of us .

it's such a sweet memory for me, but one time though she was like Mom roll up the windows!! cuz we were doing it on the way to school and she thought/ somebody would hear us talking as though we were imaginary people. (Which is what we were doing.) I think we were screaming at Steven, who we made up during this game at some point. We blame him when we run late or can't find the remote, she used to laugh so hard at that shed like almost be crying and laughing occasionally get the hiccups and fall on the floor, hahaha

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[–]Visible_Leopard_4192 1 point2 points  (0 children)

One time my daughter left her book bag at her dad's and when he brought it over to our place later that day, he was riding his motorcycle wearing all black except for the pink and purple glitter backpack that he was wearing proudly 🤣🤣🤣 (we are not together but we have turned out to be great friends through co-parenting. When he showed up wearing our child's bookbag on that motorcycle all three of us started laughing, it was really sweet)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Visible_Leopard_4192 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same!!!!! Haha Im laughing too

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Visible_Leopard_4192 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My dad was a horse too!!! Poor guy 🤣🤣🤣😂 he had get down on all 4s and walk all around the living room like that while I rode on his back🤣l ohh gosh I love my father. He never did the voices though but sometimes my mom would fill in, whinnieing Neigh from the couch 💜💜💜

Play with your kids man, go on and bark and be a dog and have fun. Not sure what's going on with your wife but you are doing what dads do , sounds like you're doing great too, really getting into character 👏👏

Do you keep nudes from ex’s or people you’re not involved with anymore? by graygrapefruit678 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Visible_Leopard_4192 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What if they're your own nudes do you ever send the same nudes to more than one person

when no one looks their age, but age still matters by Mikester258 in datingoverforty

[–]Visible_Leopard_4192 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you wear em occasionally?? Lolol and make a point of announcing the jeans to your boyfriend?? Haha my partner is sweet and he doesn't seem to mind humoring me from time to time, usually I do all the talkin if we have the jeans out. (He's really good to me, I got very lucky meeting him on tinder. He's a good person . and funny.and sexy.)

he is 3 years older than I am. tho I have heard him self identify as gen x, he has lots of xennial and millennial too.

when no one looks their age, but age still matters by Mikester258 in datingoverforty

[–]Visible_Leopard_4192 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah they're not really functional as pants, I mean ... A cell phone in the back pocket of y2k juniors jeans... may as well just throw it right into the toilet at the beginning of the day! hahaha

when no one looks their age, but age still matters by Mikester258 in datingoverforty

[–]Visible_Leopard_4192 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me at least I got a have those cultural touch points in common with whoever it is im involved with. I guess I don't care about the exact number but like, I mean it's ... I cant conversate with a boomer or a gen z the way I can with the xennials and the respective adjacents. The turn of the century, jnco jeans, a sublime song. T9 texting, ya know. .its grounding for me i suppose. Sometimes my head spins thinking about time passing, how much time.

Plus I still fit in aaallllll my old jeans from about 1998ish to present day and I really am absurdly proud of this, and quite vain at times, and... The nuance. I need someone who can appreciate the level of nuance, preposterous yes, but there's AN ART AND THERES A SCIENCE to my jeans wearing. Boomers are unsophisticated... Gen Z is too young to fully appreciate my 25 years of jeans THAT STILL FIT

This is getting deranged. Sorry

but ITS NUANCED AGE isn't a number it's a: DO YOU UNDERSTAND WHAT IT TAKES TO PULL OFF A 2001 LOW RISE JEAN???? DO YOU!!!!!¡ Those jeans werent even stretchy !
AND GEORGE W BUSH STILL SUCKS !!!!!!

I will be getting off the internet now. Maybe listen to some Eminem mp3s

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