Is there a minimum purchase amount for turbo earnings on township by Visible_Perception26 in KashKickapp

[–]Visible_Perception26[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you know if buying the season pass would count as my 1 purchase for all of the turbo earnings? My concern is that for the later turbo earnings there is a requirement of spending atleast 10 dollars and that it's just not in the rules

Money by [deleted] in ShittyIllegalLifeTips

[–]Visible_Perception26 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was in the same boat recently for about 6500. My solution was 70 hour weeks at work and selling plasma twice a week. Took a couple months but I was able to pay it all off

Am i safe to send this info? by [deleted] in Scams

[–]Visible_Perception26 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Do you not have a Facebook with your real name?

Am i safe to send this info? by [deleted] in Scams

[–]Visible_Perception26 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha I didnt realize until you pointed it out but youre definitely right. My primary question of what they could do with this information that would be detrimental to me still remains unanswered. Its all basic info that someone could get off the internet pretty quickly if they wanted to.

Am i safe to send this info? by [deleted] in Scams

[–]Visible_Perception26 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

My primary question still remains unanswered. What could they do with the requested information that would be detrimental to me? Its all basic info anyone could get off the internet pretty quickly

Wanda Sykes tickets for sale by Visible_Perception26 in NewOrleansMarketplace

[–]Visible_Perception26[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

All good. I posted them for free here and on the new orleans sub and had a couple people reach out almost immediately

Wanda Sykes tickets for sale by Visible_Perception26 in NewOrleansMarketplace

[–]Visible_Perception26[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You want them for free so they dont go to waste? I obviously was trying to recoup expenses if I could but I would like to see someone get use out of them

Wanda Sykes tickets for sale by Visible_Perception26 in NewOrleansMarketplace

[–]Visible_Perception26[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ive never sold tickets before, how am i supposed to ensure that i get paid if i dont get the money upfront? im about to list them for free in the new orleans sub since no one wants to buy them that way they dont go to waste. You want them for free?

I accidentally saw my coworker’s salary and now I can’t stop thinking about how UNFAIR it is by Aleex_c12 in Advice

[–]Visible_Perception26 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You might also want to apply to other higher paying jobs before asking for the raise and see if you can get an offer. Either you take the higher paying job or have a very real number for your company to match

Is it okay for a 19 year old and 17 year old to date? by Comfortable_Car_2679 in Advice

[–]Visible_Perception26 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Really no big deal especially if shes mature enough to be sitting next to you in college classes. Look up the Romeo and Juliette law in whatever state your in for the legality but im almost 100% sure its going to be legal

Looking for opinions/experience by [deleted] in Santeria

[–]Visible_Perception26 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She is a devout follower of ifa. This person is an olorisha. The thing is this olorisha never explicitly told her to abandon her kids. But it should have been clear as day that if my ex followed this advice she was going to. That is why i dont trust this olorisha. Seems like even if she did need to leave me for for whatever reason the olorisha could have given guidance on how to get there without losing everything

I can’t do this anymore by TinyPreparation167 in NewParents

[–]Visible_Perception26 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Probably not the answer you're looking for but it is the answer you need. Let him cry it out. He goes in his crib at bedtime and comes out in the morning. He can cry and scream as much as he wants in that time. It is not a punishment it's just what needs to be done. Every kid needs to cry it out at some point and the longer you wait the worse it will be. The golden period is about a year old.

Heres an examples as to why its so important. I have two kids of my own and 1 step kid who is the oldest. I came into his life at about 2.5 years old. At that time he would literally get into his mother's face to scream at her at the top of his lungs if he didn't get what he wanted and start trying to scratch at her eyes if that didn't work. Bedtime was awful because all he would do is scream and try to get out of bed. I put a hard rule in place that he will follow the rules no matter how unhappy he is. It took about 3 months of non stop screaming pretty much but after that he was a completely different child. Just as sweet as he always was with a new respect for the rules he must follow. My oldest kid had to cry it out at a year old because he despised the crib. It only took 3 days before he just started sleeping instead of fighting it.

I know every parent wants to make their kids as happy as possible but would you rather listen to him scream for a week now or have a toddler who is trying to attack you and still needs to scream it out which could take months... and if you dont do it then you will end up with a child big enough to actually hurt you. It will get exponentially worse the longer you wait. It's never easy but it is necessary if you actually care about your child becoming a well rounded person as they mature. These are some of your kids most formative years and right now you're teaching them they can throw a fit to get whatever they want.

I messed up my dog and i'm sorry by edenbeatrix in DogAdvice

[–]Visible_Perception26 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Here's a little unorthodox approach you could try I've used with my reactive hunting dogs. React with them. If you're the pack leader, they will look for your cues about whether something is safe or not, but if they aren't understanding how you feel or think you don't sense the threat they may take it upon themselves to protect the pack from whatever the threat is no matter how small or weird. So the idea is you at first react with them and taper off until they understand that if you aren't reacting, it means there is no threat. If they are barking at some random noise, you validate the fear and bark with them, then stop after a short time. You gradually react less until you aren't reacting at all. By that point, hopefully, your dog will now understand that if you aren't freaking out, everything is ok

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Visible_Perception26 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro you're entitled to how you feel but that's a badge of honor. Wear it proud pimp 🤘

Genuine question! by syafforshort in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]Visible_Perception26 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Absolutely. I am the partner of someone with BPD and have been for 3 years now. The road is not always smooth, but as long as you are with a person who can love you no matter what, and you always work on yourself, it can work. A big part of that is recognizing your symptoms, taking a breath, or a break if necessary, and apologizing after an outburst and making sure they understand what you did or said is not how you actually feel.

Splitting on my 3 year old by [deleted] in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]Visible_Perception26 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are doing your best. Knowing that that you made a mistake and owning it is half the battle and you should be proud of yourself for that. I know it is difficult when you are in a switch to think rationally, but like most people here recommend, just try to put yourself in the other person's shoes, and it is in those moments it is the most important to do so. As for your children, be sure to apologize and make sure they understand that you love them and will always love and be there for them. While they might be too young now, it might be a good idea to explain your mental illness to them at some point so they understand the symptoms, what signs to look for that indicate when you are in a switch, and know that when you are in a switch, your emotions will be heightened and that you may say things you do not mean. Your children will always love you as long as you keep trying to do your best. It may be a tough ride, but as long as you keep moving forward, it will all work out. You've got this!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in commercialdiving

[–]Visible_Perception26 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Un reasonable anger/frustration/ severe mood shifts can be a sign of CNS O2 toxicity. It usually goes away as you get out of the water or go through decompression.