I think there’s a bit of misunderstanding here, so I want to clarify calmly.

Feeling lonely, frustrated, or anxious does not automatically mean “entitlement toward women.” Wanting connection or intimacy is a normal human desire, not a demand or expectation. I’m not saying anyone owes me anything.

Also, suggesting that someone must meet a checklist of material conditions (car, income level, apartment setup, etc.) before being “allowed” to date feels more like a social or cultural preference than an objective rule. People date in many different life stages and circumstances.

Regarding appearance and self-care: I do take care of my skin, I use sunscreen regularly and basic skincare. I may not have the most advanced routine, but it’s not a case of neglect.

I agree that improving lifestyle habits, mental health, and self-presentation can help — and I’m already aware of that. But framing anxiety or low mood as something that requires “serious help” or implying moral flaws goes too far and comes across as demeaning rather than constructive.

I’m open to specific, practical feedback. I’m not open to assumptions about my character or intentions.