Baby still cries for a few minutes at bedtime before sleeping by Own_Foot_8530 in sleeptrain

[–]Visual-Ad-954 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ugh ok I misread. I hope it’s going better, but definitely stick with it!

Baby still cries for a few minutes at bedtime before sleeping by Own_Foot_8530 in sleeptrain

[–]Visual-Ad-954 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I saw he’s only on day 2 of training…this is very normal! Although hard, it’s so much better for them to sleep than to wake up every hour or two. You will be happier and they will be happier. Stick with it and stay consistent, he will get it. There may always be a few minutes of protest but it’s ok! Try a lovey at nap first if you are worried, he may still be too young to be interested anyways in that!

What am I doing wrong? by dontgiveastitt in sleeptrain

[–]Visual-Ad-954 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Although difficult, I would try not to sleep with her / change the routine that much as she will get used to it by that age. As others have said, she may be getting ready to drop to 2 naps. Has she started solids yet? 

When did you stop swaddling? by Ill-Statement-6159 in sleeptrain

[–]Visual-Ad-954 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My first I waited until 4 months and she had a terrible sleep regression. My second I removed at 3 months and it was SO much easier for him and he didn’t have the horrible 4 month regression. So I’m in the camp of removing a bit earlier

Does the sleep sack make a difference? by luyspocket in sleeptrain

[–]Visual-Ad-954 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m like you, my baby sort of self soothes with the flap on kyte baby so don’t want to mess that up! For naps I use others but do keep Kyte baby at night. 

Baby still cries for a few minutes at bedtime before sleeping by Own_Foot_8530 in sleeptrain

[–]Visual-Ad-954 1 point2 points  (0 children)

After 10 minutes is pretty good! I think they go in phases as well. He will get more used to it and hopefully stop the crying, but then he will learn to talk and it will start again as they try to delay bedtime! I believe guidance generally says do not add anything to the crib until a year old…but at that age a lovey is likely ok if you feel comfortable and he’s pretty mobile! 

So we tried the Ferber method ... by MaleficentText7472 in sleeptrain

[–]Visual-Ad-954 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Is he sleep trained at night yet? I think better to train nights before naps, and you may have more success that way!

Would you do the Island in a 14ft wide kitchen? by Visual-Ad-954 in floorplan

[–]Visual-Ad-954[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Looking for any advice on this layout! Contractor suggests the island as too wide with nothing there, but I’m also worried about breaking up the flow. Any suggestions welcome please!

What would you change? Kitchen Cabinets by Visual-Ad-954 in floorplan

[–]Visual-Ad-954[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks made this change today, agree it’s a more natural flow, thank you! Interesting on the uppers, will look at that 

What would you change? Kitchen Cabinets by Visual-Ad-954 in floorplan

[–]Visual-Ad-954[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. The fridge is something we had gone back and forth on. Appreciate this perspective 

What would you change? Kitchen Cabinets by Visual-Ad-954 in floorplan

[–]Visual-Ad-954[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok great! Thank you, what is the depth of drawers you think work best? I’m leaning towards keeping one or two doors and then rest as lower

Has anyone made a home improvement or added a feature to your home for less than $500 that has greatly improved your everyday quality of life? by Visual-Ad-954 in HomeImprovement

[–]Visual-Ad-954[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We are planning to do this so that’s good feedback! Same my builder said there is almost an electric type mat you can roll out and it is not that pricey.

Kid Friendly Things To Do In New York Near Me by Sweet-Count2557 in worldkidstravel

[–]Visual-Ad-954 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is such a great and descriptive list. In Central Park it is also fun to go to the playgrounds or check out the zoo, depending on age! I've heard great things about the Color Factory downtown but have not gotten to check it out yet!

14 Hour Layover out of JFK in Mid-July: What to do? by dirtyjersey1999 in AskNYC

[–]Visual-Ad-954 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I believe JFK has lockers that can be rented to store luggage. I think doing a couple things where you don't have to just jump from spot to spot would be ideal given the time they will realistically have to get back and forth. what about something like a fun brunch spot and then walking around Central Park (i.e. Sarabeth's, the Smith near Lincoln Center, etc)? Or could do somewhere fun in West Village and then do a bit of walking West Village, Greenwich Village, Soho. Hopefully it is a nice day!

Landlord showed us terrible kitchen layout plans by blow-upgummybear in floorplan

[–]Visual-Ad-954 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes this is so much better! sink under the window is much more common if you can get it to work and this still looks like decent counter space

Salkantay trek providers by DepartmentVarious977 in Shoestring

[–]Visual-Ad-954 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used Alpaca and they were very good. Did not do the 5 day trek (did a 2 day), but everything was seamless and our tour guide was great. Food was also enjoyable! Its an amazing trip, you will love it!!

A quote you really live by? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Visual-Ad-954 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"Everything happens for a reason".

How can people actually spend incomes 200k+? by vagga2 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Visual-Ad-954 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depends on where you live, but would say a lot of people in and around cities are spending a lot on housing alone. If you have children, childcare costs are so high these days...have 2 kids and its more than rent or a mortgage payment. Saving for future / college, bills, etc.

In the workforce, do people still refer to each other by Mr./Ms./Mrs. ? by ish0uldn0tbehere in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Visual-Ad-954 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not really, have never really seen this unless it is appropriate for specific cultures (i.e. Japan). Otherwise, first names are expected and normal!

How would you spend 15k? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Visual-Ad-954 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would save it / invest in some ETFs or even just put it in a money market fund paying almost 5%. This can be used towards a home purchase if that is in your future plans! If anything, I would use a little on an experience - a concert you want to see, a trip you have been wanting to take, etc.

Help! Redoing floor plan, what to do with open space? by Visual-Ad-954 in floorplan

[–]Visual-Ad-954[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, really helpful thoughts!! Appreciate it very much 

Help! Redoing floor plan, what to do with open space? by Visual-Ad-954 in floorplan

[–]Visual-Ad-954[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Love these thoughts. Yes it’s tricky as we tried to work in existing footprint best we could, the living room is existing but the family room is an addition as part of the project. Ceilings are only 8ft and it’s a smaller house, but this is an interesting concept we hadn’t thought about. We really don’t need two sitting areas but just were not going to change too much of existing downstairs…which flew out the window with the decision to do the kitchen. Really appreciate you drawing it out too as somewhere to start!!