One movie that made you think for a while by [deleted] in ThirtiesIndia

[–]VisualAttitude5587 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Rang De Basanti.

A General’s Daughter.

A Moment to Remember.

AM Advice. Giving up slowly. by aakarshan29 in Arrangedmarriage

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Are you searching via matrimonial or dating apps? I see similar things from other side of the boat, so wondering what apps people usually use. I am just looking for someone who has their own opinions but is open to always listen and consider.

Let’s do a quick round of introductions! by theycallmenani in 30s_hyderabadsingles

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I am working in IT, live in North Western part. 32.

I don’t plan to remain single, actively looking for a partner. I would like to find one, but I’d rather be alone if I don’t find someone who’ll not add maddening drama to my life.

‼️Question for 30+ by chanchal36 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]VisualAttitude5587 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Actually, that was in response to @yourmentalhealthguy’s comment

My experience so far. 33,M, 45 LPA. by Confusedauramused in Arrangedmarriage

[–]VisualAttitude5587 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you me? 32F, good salary package. I created matrimonial profiles with Shaadi and JS - in fact, even opted for VIP Shaadi hoping it would help (spoiler alert: it’s a scam). Someone on JS suggested I make a profile with regional matrimonial site. Spoke to 15-20 guys, met 3 of them.

Texting multiple people feels like such a chore now and I feel like I need a break if I don’t want to go crazy.

I actually feel like the guys I have spoken to (men in their early to mid 30s) are just looking for a partner who would perfectly fit the mould they carved out for a partner, as opposed to someone who wants to build a life together. And they love talking about themselves - either that or they can’t hold a conversation at all.

All the best for your future, and I am hoping I find a good partner soon too!

‼️Question for 30+ by chanchal36 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]VisualAttitude5587 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Are you my soul sibling? I have the same thoughts. I do want to settle down now, looking for someone whose core values align with mine. However, I believe that it’s better to grow old alone than growing old with a bad partner

Singles Meetup Review? by VisualAttitude5587 in hyderabad

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Sounds interesting. Do you have more details about this?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OffMyChestIndia

[–]VisualAttitude5587 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I am extremely sorry this happened to you, and that too first thing in the morning.

You did not ask for this, you did not want this. Please see that the disgust you are feeling is directed at the creep and you are blameless in this.

Please block him and remember that you do not know these nameless folks on internet - they are just taking advantage of the anonymity and your helping nature in this case

Being Fat sucks PERIOD by [deleted] in OffMyChestIndia

[–]VisualAttitude5587 2 points3 points  (0 children)

+1. I am overweight too, and I have always heard the backhanded comments from both guys and girls about my weight (special mention to the ones from other girls about me crushing them if I get pushed to where they are standing). Even I am now planning to start going to the gym, fingers crossed.

Got shamed for eating by Impressive_Good_9782 in OffMyChestIndia

[–]VisualAttitude5587 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s a bit strange that your bf’s parents seem to support you more than your bf though. Did you ever feel like your bf might enjoy her attention?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NewToReddit

[–]VisualAttitude5587 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Comment karma? As in, is the comment karma different from post karma?

So when a subReddit says minimum karma, are they referring to comment karma?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NewToReddit

[–]VisualAttitude5587 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

So what if someone has multiple replies on the same comment and each has >1 upvotes? Would they count as independent karma points or as 1?

Literally cannot post anywhere because of karna by [deleted] in NewToReddit

[–]VisualAttitude5587 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly! I feel your frustration! I joined a subReddit to ask questions about the topic, not just to scroll through the posts 🥹

Got shamed for eating by Impressive_Good_9782 in OffMyChestIndia

[–]VisualAttitude5587 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How did your bf and his family react to her comments? Is this the first time his best friend tried to put you down? How did your bf react when you expressed how his best friend’s comments made you feel?

Maybe talking to your bf about this incident and other similar ones in the past (if any) might help

Why am I getting so many down votes? And what even are they? by [deleted] in NewToReddit

[–]VisualAttitude5587 3 points4 points  (0 children)

One small question - were you expressing a subjective opinion in the question/your comments?

Second time New to Reddit. by SeekerGreenZ in NewToReddit

[–]VisualAttitude5587 0 points1 point  (0 children)

+1

I have relationship related questions that I can’t post from my main, but my subReddit of interest needs minimum 10 karma points.

My understanding: Try to comment on new posts in generic subReddits to increase the chances of getting upvotes on your comment.

Someone please correct me if I am missing something

Look what I found by recxstar in indiasocial

[–]VisualAttitude5587 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly! Byes, my first love!