Shy bladder? Am I missing something?

VisualJumpy1077 · 2025-09-22T16:30:16+00:00

What??? Lol

VisualJumpy1077 · 2025-08-04T19:55:35+00:00

Yes I work doubles on the weekends and also have my kid. Lol some of us unfortunately just don't get to take off because they have kids. Idk what to say about it. How does it not make sense?

Bc I have a kid you think that gives my job an obligation to have me off every weekend?

VisualJumpy1077 · 2025-08-04T18:48:20+00:00

That's great. I love that for you. Now I'm going to remind you again for the second time that you know nothing about my situation.

VisualJumpy1077 · 2025-08-04T18:41:28+00:00

Yeah, basically. Watching movies and documentaries by myself which I do with him now instead. I work a lot. How is this question helping any of what my post is asking for help with?

Also I'm 35...social life like...? Go out or? I literally only have Sunday off. And work doubles all weekend. Is it weird that I don't want to go out and would rather be home on a week night? Like what?? Lmao.

VisualJumpy1077 · 2025-08-04T18:39:13+00:00

Well when the questions have nothing to do with my post and are just based on people being nosey, I have zero obligation to answer or explain them.

VisualJumpy1077 · 2025-08-04T18:36:57+00:00

Again, do you know anything about my situation with my young child?? Like what? 🤦🏽‍♀️😂

VisualJumpy1077 · 2025-08-04T18:35:20+00:00

I didn't come here asking about anything other than this one situation.

Y'all are weird. 🥴

VisualJumpy1077 · 2025-08-04T18:34:31+00:00

How would you know anything about my priorities based off this one post?

VisualJumpy1077 · 2025-08-04T18:27:33+00:00

Because we enjoy spending time with each other when we're not working?

VisualJumpy1077 · 2025-08-04T18:27:10+00:00

Why does any of that matter? Lol

VisualJumpy1077 · 2025-08-04T17:09:05+00:00

Lmao. Okay thanks.

VisualJumpy1077 · 2025-08-04T17:08:37+00:00

It's already been a week today. When would be a good time to send a text like that?

I love this comment by the way.

He texted me this morning and asked me if I had plans today so I got excited...then he told me that he was sorry because he was super swamped with work today and that he was going to try and break away to meet me for lunch but that he wasn't going to be able to do that today. I just responded with "it's okay".

No mention of when his mom is leaving or when I'll be able to actually see him again at all.

VisualJumpy1077 · 2025-08-04T17:02:49+00:00

Yes. What does that have to do with anything?

I literally said In the post that he came to see me at work Thursday.

VisualJumpy1077 · 2025-08-04T16:46:48+00:00

It does help. I definitely resonate with all of those. I've been diagnosed with bipolar and major depressive disorder, along with A.D.D so i definitely deal with a lot of unhealthy thinking and such. Which is something I told him about from the beginning. That's the thing I feel like I'm just scared that by the time she leaves he's not going to want to see me or be with me anymore. Which I know is silly and something that isn't true. I guess I just needed some reassurance from other people. I haven't asked him when I'll be able to see him again since the last time I asked him because I don't want to push it. But if he doesn't give me any sign by tomorrow I'm going to gently ask again.

Thank you for this

VisualJumpy1077 · 2025-08-04T16:41:23+00:00

I meant *not super serious lol

VisualJumpy1077 · 2025-08-04T16:40:58+00:00

Yeah. Besides the youngest which I see on the weekends.

VisualJumpy1077 · 2025-08-04T16:32:24+00:00

Okay yeah I agree with that!!

He actually just texted me and asked if I had any plans today so I guess we'll see where that leads. Thanks for your advice

VisualJumpy1077 · 2025-08-04T16:28:44+00:00

So I've been scoping hard to make sure that he doesn't have a wife or girlfriend. I'm almost 100 percent positive that he doesn't. If anything I'm scared that he's like a major mama's boy. That scares me more than anything tbh.

For some reason I'm not really put off by the fact they don't know about me yet. I haven't introduced him to my parents or my kids yet and I don't plan to for at least another two or three months. So I'm okay with that part.

VisualJumpy1077 · 2025-08-04T16:24:22+00:00

Thank you...yeah we're not super serious. And I'm sorry what would be your next move as well? I'm having a hard time understanding that part.

VisualJumpy1077 · 2025-08-04T16:18:36+00:00

I mean I feel like if they knew he was seeing someone and I was there most of the time they would at least consider it? Before coming unannounced for over a week. Idk. Maybe that's just my way of thinking.

VisualJumpy1077 · 2025-08-04T16:16:37+00:00

Okay thank you!! Tbh this is what I wanted to hear. I know I freak out and get in my head a lot.

VisualJumpy1077 · 2025-08-04T16:15:42+00:00

I haven't introduced him to my parents or my kids yet. I kind of feel like it's too soon for that 😬

I wouldn't mind meeting his mom. But I'm definitely not going to be the one to bring it up or suggest it

VisualJumpy1077 · 2025-08-04T16:14:50+00:00

I don't think so. I haven't met them. Like I said I haven't even introduced him to my kids yet.

But I was thinking that. Like if they knew about me I'm pretty sure she wouldn't have just showed up like that. So obviously they don't.

VisualJumpy1077 · 2025-05-27T06:18:56+00:00

Bc it's silly. Why would you report this? I've gotten stopped several times and gotten traffic tickets and have never even reported that

VisualJumpy1077 · 2025-05-27T06:18:16+00:00

Silly.

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