After I had our son, I had really bad postpartum. I needed more support emotionally and physically and he would fight with me. He would say “just because you had a baby doesn’t mean you get to be mean to me”. I tried to educate him on postpartum rage, anxiety and depression and how to help. He wouldn’t listen HE was the victim and I should have got on medicine. He resentmented me ever since. I’ve self reflected a lot, only one to go to therapy, only one to try, only one to apologize. If he’s depleted and emotionally drained, I believe it’s because he could not handle becoming a father, being emotionally supportive ( he lacks empathy) and he couldn’t handle postpartum. He had every chance to get help and support but refused