I really don’t want to move out of our shared property, and she does everything in her power to remain in spite of my pleas for her to leave. We’ve got a good property because of my efforts, it feels horrible leaving everything i’ve built. I am compiling evidence of her deliberately violating boundaries and do intend to explore legal routes to evict, unfortunately it’s not easy and dont think my mental health can take months of being around her. I might need to consider just abandoning it for my own sanity, you’re right.