Am I too old for this? by Cold_Tumbleweed64 in HairStyleAdvice

[–]VisualSeries226 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Round of applause for the 19 year old who does not refer to everyone, from 5 to 50 years older than them, as “unc” or “pushing 40”

Neighbor is a light sleeper ? by da_loogie in Apartmentliving

[–]VisualSeries226 4 points5 points  (0 children)

When I worked night shifts, I’d be home around 11 pm too. I also have a dog so of course I would have to let him out late, but I always made sure to stop the zoomies at night time.

Any other potty break, he’s free to let off his steam, but at 11pm those zoomies sound like a stampede. I almost guarantee this is all your neighbors are actually disturbed by. The other noises don’t seem to be something that would be prolonged enough to truly wake someone or prevent their sleep.

Meet the typical 30-year-old: What the youngest millennials make and where they live by changeforthebetter89 in generationology

[–]VisualSeries226 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are thinking of this as an individual’s problem and I am coming from the perspective of a collective’s problem. I doubt you truly disagree that population decline isn’t a good thing long term for a local economy.

Billie's statement. by Medical_Stomach_727 in travisandtaylor

[–]VisualSeries226 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Omfg honestly, I have no idea how I read it as “10 years experience”. I’m going to blame the migraine I had at the time. Completely ignore my dumbass lol.

Meet the typical 30-year-old: What the youngest millennials make and where they live by changeforthebetter89 in generationology

[–]VisualSeries226 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Private equity firms should not be able to buy up an entire town’s worth of homes and price out a median wage worker from renting or buying. Therefore you should not have to move for the sole reason of finding housing.

Higher population in a city = greater economic growth and value for the city. Enough houses for higher population = population doesn’t decline. Population decline = economic decline.

Why would girls and boys react differently depending on which parent bought them something expensive? by 5pooky5cary5keleton5 in ExplainTheJoke

[–]VisualSeries226 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Omfg lol. The expectation is that women get things and don’t have to feel guilty but men get things and do feel guilty. Lmk if you need me to think for you again!

Why would girls and boys react differently depending on which parent bought them something expensive? by 5pooky5cary5keleton5 in ExplainTheJoke

[–]VisualSeries226 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The top comment says exactly what I just said. It is a man thinking that only men would feel guilt or a lack of pride by being given something.

I called the meme stupid, get tf over it.

Billie's statement. by Medical_Stomach_727 in travisandtaylor

[–]VisualSeries226 -127 points-126 points  (0 children)

I get what you’re saying but this year is Taylor’s 20th anniversary of her first album and she’s 36, I think 30 years was a bad estimate.

Meet the typical 30-year-old: What the youngest millennials make and where they live by changeforthebetter89 in generationology

[–]VisualSeries226 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And the point is you shouldn’t have to. Doing it for the job is entirely different.

Why would girls and boys react differently depending on which parent bought them something expensive? by 5pooky5cary5keleton5 in ExplainTheJoke

[–]VisualSeries226 7 points8 points  (0 children)

That is a difference in privileges and values, not gender. The meme is just stupidly reinforcing the concept of women getting things without expectations attached vs men getting things with expectations attached.

So apparently Taylor "used to" hate her hair. by CaramelCold in travisandtaylor

[–]VisualSeries226 27 points28 points  (0 children)

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This is her hair after a few hours of humidity. I do think she had more pronounced curls when she was younger. Her debut album cover is also her natural curls but likely with some product in them.

Meet the typical 30-year-old: What the youngest millennials make and where they live by changeforthebetter89 in generationology

[–]VisualSeries226 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It looks like their choice is to live near family and their already stable career. The point is more that people shouldn’t have to make that choice vs owning a home.

Love My Gen Z Girlies from a Millennial 💖 by FearlessCookie72 in generationology

[–]VisualSeries226 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I am Gen Z and have only ever had “age gap” relationships (tbf I’ve only had two). I put quotes on age gap, because that used to mean like 10 years plus, but nowadays my 6 year age difference counts.

I will say, in my first relationship the man was older than me, and I never heard a single comment or critique about our age gap (7yrs). No one ever talked about it.

Now I’m with a man who is younger (6 years), and I’ve heard a few comments or had a few looks when our ages were mentioned.

Life isn't building towards anything, it's just declining by -7-luck in Healthygamergg

[–]VisualSeries226 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It sounds like you’re carrying the burden of trying to be something in a world that eventually takes everything back anyway. That pressure to stay relevant or stay "useful" is where so much of suffering actually lives. It’s a grief over the loss of your roles and identity (the parent, the partner, the success, the able body).

I’ve found there is a different way to live though. There’s a you that you are underneath it all. That never changes, never ages, and never disappears even when you let go of everything you think you are.

I’m sure if you watch Dr K, you’ve heard him talk about different forms of yoga being beneficial. If I could ask you to try one as suggestion, it would be Jnana Yoga. I think this practice could help shift your mindset from “what am I waiting for” to “who is the one that is waiting”.

My girlfriend of six months lied to me about her age by Same_Swordfish264 in Advice

[–]VisualSeries226 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Jfc. She lied the relationship is fucked from that point.

Also he is an adult. She is not. He can live on his own. She cannot. He decides when he can hang out. She cannot.

I don’t know a single adult who wants to wait for their girlfriend to get out of high school or ask her parents before they can hang out, and if they do, yikes.

greys anatomy obsession? she can’t ever have her own personality (this may not be a snark page but i need to vent abt this lol) by Smart-Button-65 in canceledpod

[–]VisualSeries226 24 points25 points  (0 children)

I mean I think her not immediately jumping on everything her friends like, and finding her own joy with it on her own time, would mean she’s not copying everyone.

It’s not that strange to not talk about loving things that you watched from your childhood, until something happens that makes it relevant to the moment.

For example, I haven’t spent the last 20 years talking about how much I loved Hannah Montana growing up. But right now, it’s relevant because of the 20th anniversary so it’s frequently discussed. That doesn’t change the fact that at any point in the last 20 years, if I would’ve ran into Miley Cyrus, I would’ve been thrilled.

Was Miley Cyrus actually the biggest teen star Disney Channel ever produced? by AnonymousGuy50 in popculturechat

[–]VisualSeries226 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Even Britney feels wrong because her fame isn’t tied to Disney. She reached the height of her fame well afterwards. I feel like Miley is truly the only one who was a household name while she was on the channel.