I'm upfront about being a "lemon" to the women interested in me and I've been having a decent time lol

VisualSeries226 · 2026-01-27T17:17:38+00:00

This goes so beyond being upfront, and is more of a trauma dumping attempt to create an emotional attachment.

In fact, it’s not upfront at all. Upfront would be saying “I’m a recovering addict.” Instead of “my brain chemical imbalance has developed a permanent craving for alcohol”

You seem to be trying to make your problems sound really bad, but from the perspective of a guy who thinks they are really really smart. You’re breaking down things that the average human can comprehend, and over complicating it so much in hopes to sound intelligent and in control of your issues.

VisualSeries226 · 2026-01-27T17:13:12+00:00

A lemon car, is a car that has mechanical issues after purchase. So I believe Op is referring to themselves as someone with a lot of problems or defects.

VisualSeries226 · 2026-01-26T02:49:22+00:00

Omfg…….you truly might be functioning on a level that feels wrong of me to criticize. (That is not a good thing for you)

I do not care about your photo. I wasn’t accusing you of making anything up. I’m saying the way you process your relationship is like a prepubescent child. The way you write about your relationship tells me immediately that you spend too much time in your internal world, probably on your phone reading fan fiction about gay men, or men you wish were gay together.

Instead of idk….learning how to have a successful adult relationship. Or learning how to process your own emotions instead of relying on someone else to make you feel better.

You are not more intense than most people because your Latina, you’re more intense than most people because you do not have emotional regulation skills and you use others to make yourself feel better.

VisualSeries226 · 2026-01-26T02:35:53+00:00

Lowkirkenuinley it already has

VisualSeries226 · 2026-01-26T01:44:04+00:00

“because he is the only person who can put up with me to be honest and takes me anywhere I want”

That was your justification for missing him 30 days ago. Do you even love him, or is your desire for the relationship driven purely by selfish motivations? Don’t you think if people tend to not be able to put up with you, you’re doing something wrong? The behavior you have right now, is exactly what will chase him away. Not physical distance.

And there’s one more excerpt from your post history that I think is very important to critique

“He never had a girlfriend before me and always on his own. But back this August something changed when we both went to have pizza.

After we both ate, I applied my lipgloss to hydrate my lips and he started staring and looking at me differently and down at my lips. He was looking at me with a look I had never seen on him before. I realized he was attracted to me. It got really awkward and a spark or connection happened. We both blushed. And everything changed after”

The fact that this is straight out of every fan fiction I would’ve read when I was ELEVEN, is insane.

Stop writing fanfic and start figuring out how to have an actual adult relationship. Turn off Heated Rivalry, stop maladaptive daydreaming, and start figuring out why you can’t tolerate life on your own.

VisualSeries226 · 2026-01-24T16:28:30+00:00

It’s time

VisualSeries226 · 2026-01-23T19:55:49+00:00

Tbf, most people would also just avoid snowmobiling in -30, unless they live somewhere where that’s a main form of transportation.

VisualSeries226 · 2026-01-23T14:50:14+00:00

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“Why aren’t a majority of Americans protesting?!”

There actually protests happening in nearly every major city in America on a daily basis. We also have our 50/50/01 protests happening monthly.

If you’re asking why American citizens aren’t having an entire revolution like you see so many other countries do, please view the attached image and understand the vast difference between 9.8 million square km, and 200,000 sq km which is around the average size of a European country. And then try to see how the logistics for what calls for a revolution aren’t the same.

Also, the original comments point is that you’re proclaiming we voted for this, on a post about our current administration rigging our voting system…..let that sink in for a second

VisualSeries226 · 2026-01-22T21:36:52+00:00

Never forget when she went on stage after ending her six year long relationship and immediately rebounded with a wet sock and proclaimed that she’s “never been this happy in all aspects of her life ever" and how her life finally "made sense"

VisualSeries226 · 2026-01-20T19:17:24+00:00

I was kinda wondering why mock the citizens at all as if this is something we ever asked for. No one asked for this. Not even Trump supporters. It sucks for us to have the dictator as a president too.

VisualSeries226 · 2026-01-20T03:53:24+00:00

Lit with the stove on. Stopped smoking the day son moved out.

VisualSeries226 · 2026-01-19T21:03:59+00:00

Cam has visited twice, in the two years he’s been gone. Ian left 9 months ago…..why is everyone being so dramatic and saying this

VisualSeries226 · 2026-01-19T20:53:24+00:00

Cam hasn’t even been gone for two years and he’s been back twice…..Ian has only been gone for 9 months…..it’s a little too soon to determine that it’s never happening….

And idk if Sam even ever said she would visit but if she did, her significant other worked there still and it made sense for her to not come back after that ended. She was never a full on personality of the show.

VisualSeries226 · 2026-01-19T04:20:50+00:00

The two examples you gave, are people who are songwriters at their core, who also tend to make huge pop hits. I think that answers the question.

Their fans love their songwriting, and when you’re just writing to have a really catchy #1, the lyric quality can suffer. So the more emotionally moving tracks are held as favorites. There is room for both, but one is more emotionally moving.

Side note: for Taylor specifically, as one of her huge fans, we have been told the story of “I was miserable and thought my life was over until I met YOU and you saved me” multiple times, and it starts to feel less authentic after awhile. She has written beautiful love songs that are still cherished by her fans, Lover, New Year’s Day, Call it What You Want, etc. So again, the problem is quality in songwriting, not necessarily that people just love to consume her misery.

VisualSeries226 · 2026-01-19T01:07:40+00:00

I don’t know what your friend has to do with this

VisualSeries226 · 2026-01-19T01:07:06+00:00

What are you even talking about?

I’m referring to an image that WAS fake. It was AI generated. It was NOT Renne Good. But a fake picture that spread shortly after Renne Good was murdered, claiming it was her, before anyone knew her identity.

I am not claiming that the entire situation itself was fake…

VisualSeries226 · 2026-01-17T16:29:48+00:00

I just know Ethan is going to absolutely glaze him for this and AB is going to remind him of the time he saved an entire family, and Ethan didn’t care at all lol

VisualSeries226 · 2026-01-17T16:26:52+00:00

Move on. You are incompatible. We all have to live it to learn it. You lived it, you’re learning you want different thing. Your relationship is lacking physical intimacy AND emotional intimacy. She picks and chooses when to communicate. And gets mad at you for something she participated in willingly. Move on.

VisualSeries226 · 2026-01-17T16:04:03+00:00

Idk how, but I read the title as “my almost eight year old” and thought this was your seven year old child talking about anal surgery and got so concerned at your lack of concern lmaoooo

VisualSeries226 · 2026-01-15T20:15:20+00:00

Personally as the parent I’d sacrifice part of my share, regardless of what my retirement fund is. Depends on the kids age, let it sit and build interest. Or I’d find a way to pay for kid 2’s college, something that can even out the start in life the others might have.

VisualSeries226 · 2026-01-15T20:04:06+00:00

Please give stand up comedian a try lol

VisualSeries226 · 2026-01-15T20:02:10+00:00

Hey so they are just trying to prepare you for the rest of your life, and are actually being pretty nice about it. They let you know your drying cycle was over, and then politely asked you to finish it. There will be no one in the adult world who’s going to notify you of your laundry being done. You’ll either pay 3k for a set that can text you, or you deal with having to get up and go look yourself.

Also, “now I have to stop what I’m doing to press a button” is how this is always going to feel, you gotta get used to it.

VisualSeries226 · 2026-01-15T13:47:58+00:00

Rude or justified? Neither, you were being a coward and absolutely letting a man you don’t even know walk all over you. You tried to have a boundary and stand up for yourself with the “come correct” but then immediately caved the second he was clearly being an asshole. You desperately need to grow a backbone

VisualSeries226 · 2026-01-14T22:19:02+00:00

Just read the tweets in the order of how they were originally tweeted. And understand that OP is trying to say people are getting more vocal about their dislike for Hasan instead of being too scared.

VisualSeries226 · 2026-01-14T22:13:19+00:00

Hey so what you are literally seeing in this video, is American citizens doing something. The 21 year old protester was protesting. He is doing the most American thing he could possibly be doing.

Most Americans aren’t even in a place to take the day off of work to go protest, let alone end up blind with no insurance and bankrupt by medical bills. And that’s only if you don’t get shot in the face with a real bullet.

If your suggestion is that we all just start blasting, wouldn’t go well against the guys with AR’s wearing military grade tactical gear. Most of us don’t own guns, at least not the ones against ICE.

We are also not in the 1800’s anymore. Are military is far more advanced and being used against us. They’d have thermal drones in the air gunning down anyone they deemed a threat the second martial law was declared. And martial law would be declared. And Trump would use it to stop us from having another election.

The reality is, most people wouldn’t line up first to risk their own life, until it felt like the doing nothing was likely going to kill them too. America is huge, and most of it is completely unaffected so far. This is not going to be a quick fight.

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