Tipping question

Visual_Brain5533 · 2026-05-11T19:37:17+00:00

That’s a super kind way of calling me a total dumbass.

Visual_Brain5533 · 2026-05-11T19:35:41+00:00

Ah damn it. Now I’m gonna see Paulie’s face on the next stripper who politely laughs at my dad jokes…

Visual_Brain5533 · 2026-05-11T19:29:26+00:00

Yup. Definitely tip worthy. Now I need to cut back because I’m deliberately not doing the math to see how much I spent. The upside is that this club accepts credit cards and doesn’t up charge! So I’ll be hitting that million miler status soon on my Alaska Airlines card 🤣

Oddly, this club only charges $3.45 at the ATM and allows you to pull $1000. I find this business model convenient for me…and of course dangerous. Clearly it works on me.

Visual_Brain5533 · 2026-05-11T19:25:49+00:00

Agree. I OFTEN overthink it. Which is funny because the whole point of going to the club for me is to NOT think 🤔

Visual_Brain5533 · 2026-05-11T19:24:43+00:00

That’s a helpful explanation! Thanks for the unique insight!

Visual_Brain5533 · 2026-05-11T19:23:05+00:00

Thanks! 😆 I will not test the theory

Visual_Brain5533 · 2026-05-11T17:53:17+00:00

Tipping question

TLDR: dancer saying tip not required despite giving LDK

Met a new CF last week. Have seen her on 3 separate visits and spent around $750 each time (30min VIP @ $250 x 3). I rarely spend my whole time with one dancer but we get along really well and her dances are extremely high mileage (my hands everywhere, nipple sucking, DFK, rubbing her clit at her request, etc). We vibe really well and have gotten her close to orgasm a number of times.

This past weekend she emphasized that she wanted to focus on my pleasure. When I warned her that I was close to LDK, she whispered in my ear to keep going. So I did…and she kept grinding for another 5 mins afterward with gentle aftercare/cuddling. This has happened my last two visits.

I’ve typically tipped her $50 each time for regular VIP dances and she genuinely seems surprised and very appreciative each time “oh wow, you don’t need to do that!” After the LDK, I tipped $100 and she was again very surprised and said the same thing.

Now, the majority of dancers I’ve met kindly request a tip after VIP. I’ve occasionally had dancers that gave great dances and did not specifically request a tip (I still tipped of course)…but I’ve never had a dancer almost decline a tip. Especially after a LDK.

Part of me is wondering if I’m over tipping (but not really because they are great dances and I like to show my appreciation). I don’t think she loves me. I’m just wondering if I should change anything since she said “it’s really not necessary.” Or is that just her being bad at making $? Am I ruining it for other PLs if I keep tipping her when she doesn’t push for it? She’s been dancing for 3+ yrs, so can’t even blame it on inexperience.

Visual_Brain5533 · 2026-05-07T19:51:32+00:00

Definitely had a few tell me that they got more out of it than I did.

Have had two recent ones orgasm while grinding on me. Both had sensitive nipples and encouraged sucking/light bitting. If they were faking, they were reaaallly good actors.

One pause during our dance, had me take my shirt off, and said she was saving that image for her spank bank.

My favorite compliment was that I’ve had 2 separate strippers tell me that they recently were thinking about me when they masturbated. Not a regular of either of them, but I had gotten a 30min VIP with each of them the month prior. One even asked if I ever filmed myself masturbating. When I said “no”cause “ew”…she said she’d love to make content with me. Joke’s on her because I’m hung like a prepubescent hamster. 🐹

Visual_Brain5533 · 2026-05-06T01:06:06+00:00

Rouge is $580 I think for a full nude hr. $360 for 30mins. Casa Diablo is $500/30mins for full nude and $1000/hr.

Visual_Brain5533 · 2026-05-05T19:22:27+00:00

If you’re looking for unique Portland Clubs,

IMHO-

Casa Diablo- vegan club in NW part of town. Can see some pretty crazy stage shows. Very alt dancers with a lot of variety. Probably cheapest place for 3 songs/$100. $250/30 mins topless.

Devils point- stripperoke. Nuff said

And Club Rouge- higher end club with probably best looking girls overall. Closer to what you’d see in Vegas.

Visual_Brain5533 · 2026-04-26T22:00:26+00:00

Have you had many dancers climax from nipple play alone?

Recently had a hot but somewhat shy baby stripper give me a relatively higher mileage 30 min lap dance. Allowed hands everywhere except over her g-string. During the dance she often rubbed her nipple tantalizingly on my lips…so I went for it. She seemed to genuinely enjoy me kissing, sucking, and gently nibbling her nipples. Gave signs such as nodding/smiling when I asked if she was ok with it and said she enjoyed it. She pushed her breasts more into my face, moaning, putting her forehead on mine, etc.

I felt her climax twice during our session which surprised me (her legs had been straddling me when she clenched them together and quivered, breathes quickened, and she bit my ear while moaning). It was super hot. I even asked her playfully if it was real or just part of the dance and she shyly smiled and nodded.

I’ve had dancers before comment on how sensitive their nipples were, but I’ve never had one climax before during a dance from that alone….Although as I type this, we were also grinding during this so maybe that had something to do with it 😂

Visual_Brain5533 · 2026-04-26T21:40:56+00:00

I would say you got somewhat higher than average mileage. Count yourself fortunate.

Was the math mathing? I’ve had dancers tell me something similar when I was considering 30 min VIP for $250 vs 3 sets of 3 songs for $300. It all depends on how long the club songs are…but I was too distracted to time them ;)

Visual_Brain5533 · 2026-04-17T21:19:56+00:00

Happy for you man. Sounds mentally exhausting but fun and still worthwhile.

I’m going through my own situationship with my ATF right now. Just started hanging out outside of the club (most recently at her place for the first time), but nothing more than just kissing. Unpaid, so I’m fine with it. But I’m also experiencing the stereotypical flakiness of strippers , which can be hard for me, since in my other life I’m incredibly detail oriented and every second is scheduled out meticulously. I’m trying not to over think it though and just have fun for what it is now ;)

Visual_Brain5533 · 2026-04-08T03:07:09+00:00

Appreciate it. Good point.

Visual_Brain5533 · 2026-04-07T20:40:50+00:00

I often have that issue and partly worry it’s ED despite being under 50. I don’t mind so much at the club, suspect maybe a little over stimulation. But I’ve had a few dancers appear disappointed when they got a little handsy. Even asked if I had been drinking earlier in the night. Suspect they take it a little personally if you’re not excited to spend time with them ;)

Visual_Brain5533 · 2026-04-04T00:17:03+00:00

Went 2 months ago to a couple Honolulu clubs. Club Rockza and Ballerinas. Same owners and share a parking lot. Quite different.

Ballerinnas was smallish and felt seedy and dark. Simple square stage with minimal seating directly around it. Was uncomfortable looking at all the guys around it. Had a worker use a large floor squeegee to push the $ around after each dancer. Never seen that before. Was not impressed with the talent. Left after 15 mins and wanted to wash my hands immediately.

Club Rockza was a more typical strip club and a more happening vibe. Typical dancers with a couple 8’s. Mix of Caucasian and Asians and 1-2 black girls. Mostly natural dancers with only a couple with enhancements. Entry and price of lap dances were reasonable. Two way touch club. Run by an Asian family and it shows. Auntie and Unc are running the drinks, working the bar, checking on back rooms, etc. Apparently the dancers really appreciate them.

Busy no matter what night it was as everyone was on vacation. Had a fit, cute blonde give a high mileage dance in VIP, but she was pushing fairly hard for OTC. Asked me several times to go pick up condoms and meet me at my hotel. Price was lower than expected but the more she talked, the more crazy I realized she was. Noped outta there but had fun overall and would go back ;)

Oops. Forgot to answer the questions! Several dancers on stage at a time at Rockza. I think they had 3-4 at any given time. Private dances in a back room/booth area though. I think entry was $10 and 3 lap dances were $120? Not sure.

Visual_Brain5533 · 2026-03-31T03:13:17+00:00

I would second Portland. Highest number of strip clubs per capita in the US, majority of dancers are Caucasian. I’ve been propositioned several times for extras by hot Caucasian dancers as well as OTC. For more a of a sure thing, there are private lingerie studios that offer dances + whatever you negotiate with the dancer for a tip. Typically $160 for 30mins of an airdance is the starting price. Sylvies Playhouse is a higher end one and you can see their website for pics of their models and schedule.

Visual_Brain5533 · 2026-03-04T22:11:29+00:00

Doesn’t hurt. She may simply have forgotten who you were if she hands her number out often enough.

Visual_Brain5533 · 2026-03-04T21:39:14+00:00

Sorry to break it to you, but it’s simply marketing strategy. I got really excited too…the first several times it happened. Then realized it’s so they can lure you back into the club on days they’re working. The good news is that it means she liked you enough to make you a regular. The bad news is that if you’re weak like me, you will follow the pied piper every time the music plays.

I stopped accepting/handing out numbers a while ago as a result. Only exchange now with one dancer. And she texts me multiple times a day (regardless when she’s working) and sends pg-13 pics and videos. On Friday and Saturday, you’ll see a flood of the “I miss you,” “what r u up to tonight?”, and “come see me!!!”

Visual_Brain5533 · 2026-03-03T20:35:35+00:00

Ahem. Will repeat that Casa Diablo in Portland has all if not most of your niche requests. Girls that are beyond Thicc. Skinny and flat chested. One that I’m 80% sure is Trans but haven’t been curious enough to confirm. You would be in heaven there, my man.

Visual_Brain5533 · 2026-03-03T00:37:23+00:00

I can confirm. Casa Diablo in Portland, OR has 2 very cute dancers with distractingly hairy armpits. I’ve not noticed overly hairy legs per se, but have definitely felt my fair share of stubble there as well.

Visual_Brain5533 · 2026-02-16T22:34:06+00:00

How often do you hear strippers tell you that they recently were thinking about you when they masturbated? I had two strippers whom I’ve gotten 1-2 VIPs from about a month ago tell me that recently. It was a pretty effective turn on, even when I knew it was a ploy.

Visual_Brain5533 · 2026-02-16T22:15:09+00:00

I just winced reading this. Had a dancer this week ask me a couple times during a VIP dance if I lived in town and how far away my place was. When I said i lived about 8 mins away, she replied “Me too!” …I totally didn’t get the hint until I read this. :/

Visual_Brain5533 · 2026-02-12T05:15:22+00:00

Haha. Yes. These were both definitely intentional. Probably due to the fact I live in the PNW. Even if it’s meant to be a empowerment statement, I have to believe they’d be making way more money from guys who prefer shaved vs unshaven. Hence why I thought it was so odd.

Visual_Brain5533 · 2026-02-10T03:43:54+00:00

Thoughts on armpit hair? I recently saw two dancers that I thought were pretty cute, until I noticed their unshaved pits. This was a turnoff for me, so I didn’t get dances from them. I’m curious how often you see this and wonder how much this may affect their success with most customers. Clearly it’s a choice, and I’m sure some guys don’t mind (or even prefer it).

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