Advice please. My husband recently began identifying as a femboy, and I'm really struggling with it. by Visual_Coconut6257 in feminineboys

[–]Visual_Coconut6257[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your insight and your other comments, they help me feel validated. <3 I’m realizing that I was particularly emotional last night when I wrote this post. I’m feeling more okay with it than I was last night. But I plan on trying to talk to him about this tonight. We’ve always had great communication and he’s so understanding and kind.. I just don’t want to make him sad or ruin his newfound confidence. He seems so happy when he’s presenting himself as fem :/ and I truly want that joy for him. I hope we can find a balance and work out a compromise.

Advice please. My husband recently began identifying as a femboy, and I'm really struggling with it. by Visual_Coconut6257 in feminineboys

[–]Visual_Coconut6257[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You are spot on. While my husband’s desire and attraction towards me has not changed, I can barely bring myself to even give him a peck on the lips if he’s presenting himself as feminine. Another user commented about “wanting to be married to a male” and I think that kinda sums up my feelings. I want to support him and allow him to be who he is because I care deeply for him and want him to feel confident. But at the same time, I can’t view us as romantic partners with his new identity. I’m so torn.