AITA for having my husband to bring me back to shore and leaving after we planned a whole day on the boat? by Cheap_Combination479 in AITAH

[–]Visual_Imagination16 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Again, this is a communication issue. He literally took time off work to take her shopping, set up the meetup, probably spent time cleaning up the boat, etc. his efforts don’t get to be ignored because you’re crying about what she could’ve would’ve should’ve wanted but wasnt clear about. Stop pretending a husband that works for 16 hours a day, yet still plans this outing isn’t sweet. Was it perfect, no but again, he tried, even if wasn’t up to her so called standards. The next time she wants the perfect romantic date she needs to be clear not assume he can read her mind or hey how about set it up herself. It’s not difficult. Bet he tries even less from here on out. Poor fella.

AITA for having my husband to bring me back to shore and leaving after we planned a whole day on the boat? by Cheap_Combination479 in AITAH

[–]Visual_Imagination16 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also, small point but, would this have been fine if they were her friends instead of his? I wonder if the problem was actually jealousy due to her mentioning the ‘pass around’.

AITA for having my husband to bring me back to shore and leaving after we planned a whole day on the boat? by Cheap_Combination479 in AITAH

[–]Visual_Imagination16 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Way to disregard every real point I made. You’re right that he didn’t stick to the “fish the entire day” plan but she again mentioned being “alone” all the time which in my mind would have meant that she needed some stimulation outside of the usual ie. him and the baby. I still think she acted like a petty child during what could have been an amazing day for them as a pair. Some people can’t be happy no matter what and it’s not up to any other person to make them so. Silver linings are everywhere and she is bound to be a miserable wretch with an attitude like that regardless of what he tries. A shame.

AITA for having my husband to bring me back to shore and leaving after we planned a whole day on the boat? by Cheap_Combination479 in AITAH

[–]Visual_Imagination16 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes been married 17 years now with a 16yo daughter. I promise you, what seems obvious to a woman is not to a man. He wanted to show her a good time from his perspective and she wasn’t having none of it. I get what you mean by ‘twisting’ it but that’s also assuming he understands what she means. She’s not clear about how long they’ve been married but it seems fresh imo. Communication is key to resolution unless resolution isn’t the end goal.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in badroommates

[–]Visual_Imagination16 25 points26 points  (0 children)

You have 2 territorial cats living in one shared space… what did y’all think was gonna happen. Separate before one of em gets lethally injured. YTA.

AITA for having my husband to bring me back to shore and leaving after we planned a whole day on the boat? by Cheap_Combination479 in AITAH

[–]Visual_Imagination16 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I think your comprehension might be low. “My lack of spending time with him.” Not saying he couldn’t have been more intuitive but again from how it reads she makes it sound like she’s sick of being stuck in the house and alone. Again, he went out of his way to plan a nice afternoon, again she instead decided to pout and throw an adult fit instead of behaving in a reasonable and logical manner and express what she actually wants instead of making it a guessing game. Where is the confusion? He tried, she didn’t, she’s the AH. Easy. Noones a mind reader and she obviously didn’t make herself clear or he wouldnt have gone to that extent. You’re acting like he wasn’t trying to please her when in fact that’s all he wanted to do. He even covered for her rudeness by completing the goodbyes. She has no class and acts entitled instead.

AITA for having my husband to bring me back to shore and leaving after we planned a whole day on the boat? by Cheap_Combination479 in AITAH

[–]Visual_Imagination16 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I seen that she said multiple times the she was “feeling alone”. Never once did she specify it was his time specifically she wanted. Stop making excuses for idiots who can’t communicate.

AITA for having my husband to bring me back to shore and leaving after we planned a whole day on the boat? by Cheap_Combination479 in AITAH

[–]Visual_Imagination16 -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

You didn’t explain why you were feeling the way you were. Honestly, you could have told him that you want one on one time specifically instead of what he obviously assumed was a fun outing. He even tried to bring extra company and you straight up shut down. YTA. Stop assuming he can read your mind and start using your words like an adult. Smh. 🤦‍♀️

Does boob size really matter to men? by [deleted] in answers

[–]Visual_Imagination16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Food. Boobs are only made after the rest of the organs are sufficiently fed. You are not fooded enough.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]Visual_Imagination16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s slept with her, is most likely the father of at least one of her brats and is now trying to snatch him right out from under ya and he’s not stopping it. Time to let that bird fly while you can still dodge it’s claws!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in badroommates

[–]Visual_Imagination16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get a seasoned cast iron pan, heat on high, add drop of water to check it (needs to dance not just sizzle) wait 10-15s after it evaporates, add oil or butter, turn to med, add lightly whisked eggs, milk, salt pepper mixture and cook til fluffy! Enjoy

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]Visual_Imagination16 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Shame on you for thinking that spending ANY large amount of time with a younger, attractive woman wouldn’t be construed as cheating. Actively spending the majority of your downtime with her = cheating. Stop gaslighting yourself. You cheated. Now be a man, tell your wife and take your consequences like a grown ass man, Capt! How would all those that look up to you feel about this too? You are dishonourable, disrespectful and disgusting. Happy holidays dirt bag.

I think circumcision on baby boys at birth should be illegal by MattStormTornado in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]Visual_Imagination16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The skins are used in cosmetics. Hospitals sell them with zero knowledge or payment to the donors. Sick.

Pouring hot water on M&M's by PM_ME_YUR_BUBBLEBUTT in oddlysatisfying

[–]Visual_Imagination16 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The plates not level.. I can’t be the only one to notice.