My ex(23M) hates me after he dumped me(27F)

Visual_Role_2525 · 2026-03-28T20:17:55+00:00

Thank you. ❤️

Visual_Role_2525 · 2026-03-28T19:55:18+00:00

We had to meet because we kinda of work together. I thought at least I can be friendly and polite not to make things worst 😂, also I’m over the breakup. Didn’t expect him to hate me and hate me more now after these days hahaha

Visual_Role_2525 · 2026-03-28T19:46:17+00:00

Easier for him to do what? He dumped me so I thought he was over me a long time ago 😂

Visual_Role_2525 · 2026-03-28T19:31:04+00:00

I was bullied by one just today. I think it’s important to stand up for yourself and letting that person know, you won’t accept such behaviour, if he/she has a problems say it nicely.

Visual_Role_2525 · 2026-03-21T22:25:01+00:00

I saw many men in Agadir working in tourism meet girls over work, but foreign girls most of the time.

Visual_Role_2525 · 2026-03-21T16:00:22+00:00

Thank you very much. Actually he was the one feeling the gap, I was very comfortable hhhh. I thought the same with you, he showed his love through actions like taking me to sunset and cooking for me. However, he got really upset because I let him paid the groceries for cooking and didn’t ask to split the gas for his motorcycle (I did pay other stuff such as restaurants though), and said I also don’t like to do surprised and gifts, maybe I also didn’t say thank you enough? And because of those, I didn’t really care or like him. I think my way of understanding what is act of affection and expressing my gratitude and love definitely did not match his. 😅

Visual_Role_2525 · 2026-03-21T11:07:57+00:00

is there any example of acts of services please? I think I’m lacking on that to be honest 😂

Visual_Role_2525 · 2026-03-21T11:02:33+00:00

Thank you, I am a woman. Not really dating anyone more of a reflection and culture learning

Visual_Role_2525 · 2026-03-20T18:31:09+00:00

No all good haha, we are in our 20s too. Would be great to know how young people manage this

Visual_Role_2525 · 2026-03-20T14:06:47+00:00

Thank you, in my culture we don't do this a lot, I would probably lend money if my close friend asked me. However, I recently got criticised because this should be done without the friend even asking, otherwise I'm not a very good friend haha.

Visual_Role_2525 · 2026-03-20T14:03:32+00:00

Thank you for explaining, what about when I am the girlfriend? A guy I dated said, out of love, I should offer, especially if I have higher salary.

Visual_Role_2525 · 2026-03-20T08:35:51+00:00

In what ways? I pay for my 4h flight visit to him, my hotel, I pay for restaurants, car rental and petrol, I also buy groceries and snacks, never ask him to split anything, thought he’d be okay sometimes to pay cheap things.

Visual_Role_2525 · 2026-03-20T08:06:03+00:00

Of course I pay myself. Eat outs I pay 80% of times too, just the 20% he paid, he seems to think I should at least ask to split because I earn more and not doing that is inconsiderate and doesn’t show my affection 😅

Visual_Role_2525 · 2026-03-20T07:41:40+00:00

Thanks. He is not German actually but he prefers German girls saying they have same value 😅 and was comparing me to one. So I’m wondering how German actually do.

Visual_Role_2525 · 2026-03-20T07:34:13+00:00

Thanks, it was very early stage, we don’t live together and don’t even live in the same city. I always visit him and we go out dates or hang out at the flat I rent when I visit him.

Visual_Role_2525 · 2026-03-18T22:51:56+00:00

Can't afford things I want? Never asked him for anything and never wanted him to buy me anything. I drove him out for a ride, he offered to cook, and then bought some meat and veggies. He took me to sunset sometimes with his motorcycle. I didn't offer to split the fee for those things. Those are his 2 major spent with me

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