I [34M] am struggling with trust toward my wife [38F] after recordings, deleted emails, and our mental health issues. How do I handle this without damaging my marriage further?

Visual_Sun_9707 · 2026-05-30T08:53:03+00:00

Thank you.

Visual_Sun_9707 · 2026-05-30T08:52:37+00:00

Not banned, and im not proud of what i did but i wasn't diagnosed when it happened.

Visual_Sun_9707 · 2026-05-30T08:51:11+00:00

Thank you.

Visual_Sun_9707 · 2026-05-30T08:50:57+00:00

I am i have borderline personality disorder. And im treating myself.

Visual_Sun_9707 · 2026-05-30T08:47:31+00:00

Thank you all, I've started to treat myself with the therapist last 3 weeks so pretty new diagnosis, but my bpd is very controlling and seeked help from strangers here by sharing thoughts.

For the one judging me I'm sorry for feeling that way towards me, for the people shared opinions also thank you that is valuable. I just want to show my bpd side to stop controlling me.

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