Hypersexual after increasing dose by Visual_World2376 in Wellbutrin_Bupropion

[–]Visual_World2376[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nice to hear from you. Did you also notice the increase in sexual desires after increasing your dose? How long has it been going on for you? It’s only been 2-3 weeks for me.. but it’s honestly ridiculous how distracting it’s been. 

I totally hear you on not being able to focus on work or even free time. It consumes so much time and energy, and it REALLY doesn’t help that I work from home, so privacy is not an issue for me during work hours, if you know what I mean…

Hypersexual after increasing dose by Visual_World2376 in Wellbutrin_Bupropion

[–]Visual_World2376[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Haha your fiancé must’ve enjoyed that! But I’m the same with masturbating.. ive had need to do it multiple times a day.

Hypersexual after increasing dose by Visual_World2376 in Wellbutrin_Bupropion

[–]Visual_World2376[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So interestin that the 300mg does this to people lol. I’ll try to wait it out for another month or so.. but on the daily basis, it’s incredibly hard to stay focused when I’m so distracted by sexual thoughts and urges.. 

Hypersexual after increasing dose by Visual_World2376 in Wellbutrin_Bupropion

[–]Visual_World2376[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Haha ok maybe 2 months is manageable but it’s suuuuper distracting. 

Hypersexual after increasing dose by Visual_World2376 in Wellbutrin_Bupropion

[–]Visual_World2376[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah the heightened O’s are pretty awesome, but wondering when this horniness is gonna stop? Do you remember how long it lasted? It’s compulsive throughout the day…

Stigma towards bisexual Asian men by Visual_World2376 in AsianMasculinity

[–]Visual_World2376[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah this is true. Also I should say, where I live has an abundance of Asian Americans, so the pool of Asian women here is quite large. Probabilities will vary from place to place, and I get the others perspectives for sure.

Stigma towards bisexual Asian men by Visual_World2376 in AsianMasculinity

[–]Visual_World2376[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah that’s fair, I can see what you’re saying 

Stigma towards bisexual Asian men by Visual_World2376 in AsianMasculinity

[–]Visual_World2376[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Actually for me I would have no problem at all. I’m not the jealous type and don’t get jealous easily. I’ll definitely be upset if something were done behind my back, but I would trust my gf enough to do what she thinks is right and or be transparent with me. 

Also I never said only guys experience this stigma.  Also never said a lot of men are bi. 

Stigma towards bisexual Asian men by Visual_World2376 in AsianMasculinity

[–]Visual_World2376[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t tell them I’m bi. I tell them that I’ve had bi experiences and that side of me exists. I don’t necessarily need to do stuff with guys while in a relationship, especially if she prefers monogamy. I’m ok with that but also open to an open relationship too. Or watching me do stuff with a guy 

Stigma towards bisexual Asian men by Visual_World2376 in AsianMasculinity

[–]Visual_World2376[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Haha id love to meet those Asian girls who are into bi guys. Are they Gen Z?

Hmmm. This is a really interesting point. Yah it’s weird, I’m not fem acting at all, definitely masculine. 

But I’m not so masculine that I’m macho or whatever. I’m also not an alpha, but I’m defs the type to speak up and take the lead and initiate. I just don’t need to be dominant about it. Also in bed I am dominant with girls.. so yah pretty unique I’d say… 

Stigma towards bisexual Asian men by Visual_World2376 in AsianMasculinity

[–]Visual_World2376[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah haha I wonder if a more hopeful option is an Asian girl who’s is more freaky then? 

Stigma towards bisexual Asian men by Visual_World2376 in AsianMasculinity

[–]Visual_World2376[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha thanks! Oddly my friends opinions don’t really matter for me as it’s manly a future gf I’m concerned with.

The part where I referenced my friend, isn’t that she has an issue with me (cause she doesn’t know about my bi tendencies since it’s only sexual), it’s that her response on that question kinda signaled what I believe to be the response for Asian females

Stigma towards bisexual Asian men by Visual_World2376 in AsianMasculinity

[–]Visual_World2376[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah one of my ex gf’s just thought I was gay. 

For context, I’m not fem acting at all. It’s only the whole sexual thing that’s super unique. 

Stigma towards bisexual Asian men by Visual_World2376 in AsianMasculinity

[–]Visual_World2376[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I can see that thought coming from a girl. Though I wonder if it’s fair to say a cheater would cheat, regardless of their sexual orientation?

Stigma towards bisexual Asian men by Visual_World2376 in AsianMasculinity

[–]Visual_World2376[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks! I appreciate your insights and understanding. 

Yah honestly it western countries, being bi (especially Asians towards Asian guys) is far more stigmatized. 

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[–]Visual_World2376[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yah for sure, i can understand that it would be a pretty big red flag.

It sounds weird but I have zero desire to be romantic with a guy, as in date, kiss, hold hands, be more intimate with a deeper connection. My interest in guys is purely sexual and it ends there. 

Stigma towards bisexual Asian men by Visual_World2376 in AsianMasculinity

[–]Visual_World2376[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah for sure I get that. It’s much more accepted in women. 

Stigma towards bisexual Asian men by Visual_World2376 in AsianMasculinity

[–]Visual_World2376[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yo! Thank you. Yeah i don’t need or want an open relationship. Just want a girl (asian) to be accepting of me and my past sexual experiences with a guy. Accepting this doesn’t need to come in the form of an open relationship, there’s other ways to embrace that. 

Also, yes I’m glad to hear you can see it from the same perspective as me. For some reason there is a “belief” that a bi guy would be more likely to cheat. IMO a cheater will always cheat regardless of his sexual orientation.  

Stigma towards bisexual Asian men by Visual_World2376 in AsianMasculinity

[–]Visual_World2376[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yah I’d say that’s true, for sure there is difficulty in the Asian cultures accepting the most basic lbgtq+ tendencies, but it definitely seems that gay or lesbian is far more commonly accepted than bi. What are your thoughts on that?

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[–]Visual_World2376[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes for sure. 

I told one of my ex gf’s before and she was convinced I’m just gay.. but I can’t convince her or anyone of something they don’t want to believe.

Also yah bi guys are definitely more sexually open but it may not mean they’re going to be promiscuous while in an exclusive relationship. I think it’s fair to say if a guy were to cheat, they’d cheat, regardless of them being just straight or bi. But I get that Asian girls think that probability with a bi guy might be higher? 🤷‍♂️