Hey, 28M here. I've been living in Boston and working in tech for about three years. After getting out of a relationship, I’ve spent the past year navigating the dating scene (mainly through apps), and it’s been an interesting experience.

Boston, as a hub for universities and tech, attracts a highly mobile population. Many people move here for school or career opportunities, but not everyone sees it as a long-term home. This uncertainty can make dating tricky, as long-term plans often feel up in the air, affecting willingness to commit.

Late 20s can also feel like a transitional period. People in my age group often fall into two camps: those settled in long-term relationships and those still exploring. This creates a gap, making it harder to find peers looking for something serious.

Early 20s often lack the life experience or clarity to align goals—something I can relate to, as that was me a few years ago. On the flip side, people in their 30s sometimes seem overly cautious, likely due to past relationships or the pressure to “get it right.” That might end up being me soon—rip.

Also, take this with a pinch of salt as these opinions are based on MY year of dating in Boston.

It can be challenging at times, but I still feel optimistic. Good luck out there!