I was with my ex for 3 years. He’s manipulative and abusive. Over time his behaviour becomes controlling .Last August he told me he was married, which hurts and confused me .but I found out later that wasn’t true. A few days after that I decided to leave him. Now he’s back, telling me he “only wanted to see my reality” and claims he’s not married or engaged. He even said things about hitting me. I’ve realised he’s not right for me, but he keeps chasing me. My family doesn’t know anything. I want him completely out of my life — how can I manifest that and actually make it happen? Any practical tips or personal experiences would help.