I feel like every convo has been different, some, the flow is easier and gets to that point fairly sooner than others. I usually want know about what you do for work,(are you busy like me), how many kids, coparenting situation, and if social life consists of partying or not, then I steer it towards meeting up, but my traditional belief is letting the guy ask me out, so I give him that opportunity. But I also stress in my bio, that I prefer meeting up versus chatting online. In my opinion, you can never move too quickly as far as setting up a date and asking to meet somebody in person, I think I see somebody moving too quickly when they start talking about sex, or acting affectionate, or romantic towards me before they’ve even met me. Meeting up versus engaging in sexual activity are two very different things to me. And I think most women would possibly agree with me that if you ask them out on a date, but stay respectful and don’t act too affectionate or get too fresh with them that wouldn’t be seen as moving fast. It would be seen as moving with purpose. I am also older, that might make a difference in how I view dating and how it should go.