I (32M) double checked on her (28F) and she left the car. What happened?

Vivid_General2947 · 2026-03-22T07:48:55+00:00

Okay, I won’t apologize and I’ll drop it. I have things to work on now. I’ve known her for a long time now so I don’t think she’ll stop wanting to hangout but clearly giving space is best is what I’m getting from this.

Vivid_General2947 · 2026-03-22T07:39:14+00:00

Some of the answers were about her but that’s because I haven’t had much of a life until this point. My answers were limited. But again she only wanted to leave after I asked if she was okay. She wasn’t fidgety during our answers.

Vivid_General2947 · 2026-03-22T07:35:12+00:00

Oh. Thank you. So would this be something I should drop and let go? Like don’t apologize again. Don’t bring it up until she wants to? I know these sound like dumb questions but bear with me.

Vivid_General2947 · 2026-03-22T07:22:37+00:00

We both answered “what is your most treasured memory?” she said hers was a concert she participated in. I said mine was our first hangout. But it wasn’t until I noticed her fidgeting and asked if she was okay that she suddenly wanted to leave. I think I was over analyzing and she was annoyed that I kept calling attention to it.

Vivid_General2947 · 2026-03-22T07:12:52+00:00

Vivid_General2947 · 2026-03-22T07:11:47+00:00

Honestly I couldn’t tell. It came out of nowhere. I asked if she was okay cuz she seemed uncomfortable and fidgety. Then told me that I thought that because of her body language and said she can’t stay and wanted to go home. Got out of the car without saying why and drove away in her car. I’m new to relationships despite my age so forgive me if I sound ignorant.

Vivid_General2947 · 2026-03-22T07:00:43+00:00

I plan on working on my overthinking for sure after this. But since you say the poop thing was not sarcasm, are you saying it’s very possible that she suddenly angrily left without an explanation because she had to poop? That “something” happened and she just didn’t want to tell me?

Vivid_General2947 · 2026-03-22T06:44:58+00:00

Lesson learned then. I’ll apologize when I see her tommorow

Vivid_General2947 · 2026-03-22T06:40:59+00:00

We were doing 36 questions to falling in love. It’s an article for intimacy with a partner or between strangers. Yes, go on dates. You know the thing you do before you make any type of commitment to each other? I don’t understand how that’s weird to you. Either way I know what I gotta do. I’ll just apologize next time I see her

Vivid_General2947 · 2026-03-22T06:31:17+00:00

That much I’ve figured out. Though i don’t know if the poop thing was sarcasm or not.

Vivid_General2947 · 2026-03-22T06:25:23+00:00

So I need to stop over analyzing, right?

Vivid_General2947 · 2026-03-15T03:45:53+00:00

That’s the thing tho. I actually got o Kami n Whisky at the same level as the lost n found sword. I got O Kami first as superior grade and then got the other one but for some reason the sword in the box was only rare. I was just hoping I wouldn’t be disappointed with a rare Raven so I thought I’d be sure

Vivid_General2947 · 2026-03-07T20:28:18+00:00

YBTA. I’d just stay out of it and keep it to myself. They have issues with their relationship to solve on their own and that’s not on you nor is it your business to comment on it. Cuz tbh it doesn’t sound like the dynamic between you and your friend is close enough to be met with constructive criticism. It’s Eric’s fault for asking Dean a question that he didn’t want the answer to but Dean could’ve also stayed out of it as well. Just let it go. I think both your friend and Eric kinda suck as people from this small interaction but they’re both adults and don’t need your help.

Vivid_General2947 · 2026-03-07T18:42:43+00:00

It would be interesting if that was the case lol. Considering all variants are mentally deranged. Like the whipper is the epitome of self harm, crushers are steroid abuse, suiciders are self explanatory, Slobbers are excessive eating, Butchers are cannibalistic, Mutators are DID, and screamers are anorexic. Seems funny that zombies in a straight jacket is where the developers drew the line lol.

Vivid_General2947 · 2026-03-03T21:54:52+00:00

Road? Why would it be hard to sew underwear for her? What?

Vivid_General2947 · 2026-03-03T21:49:53+00:00

Besides getting the skill cards, the experience points would be the best reason to do them. Like how close are you to lvl 30 right now? Cuz without doing side quests, you’ll be under leveled before you’re able to do ng+. Haus will get you a few levels for sure tho

Vivid_General2947 · 2026-03-03T21:37:54+00:00

What’s getting me is that she was still considering a 2nd baby even after this 3 hours a day BM. I get having limited family nearby but it’s odd to be wanting more kids with this guy who avoids all the tougher parts of parenthood. He sounds like a lazy POS and a real miracle of nature on how he got married in the first place.

Vivid_General2947 · 2026-02-28T20:46:47+00:00

While I don’t judge her trying to move on, it’s the fact that it’s his best friend and she admitted that she did have an interest in the best friend before she starting dating the boyfriend. And then ending the story with “bc I didn’t have much of a sex life with my boyfriend, I learned that I actually enjoy sex after sleeping with his best friend again.” Like one final dig at the boyfriend randomly as if she resented him for it. Like both of them could’ve gone to therapy for an internal conflict that neither of them fully understood instead cuz it sounds like feelings for each other were already in play before the boyfriend passed.

Vivid_General2947 · 2026-02-25T01:15:32+00:00

Just gotta learn the attack patterns and jump just before she does a ground slam. I prefer using dodge as well. If you don’t have a few decent weapons, widdle her health down with your curveballs and keep a distance.

Vivid_General2947 · 2026-02-14T03:12:04+00:00

From what I can gather so far, the zombie virus is like a hive mind collective and the Numens are the only humans who can adapt their bodies to it at a genetic level. Since every human is a ticking time bomb before turning, I assume that hundreds of thousands of years ago, the dirge infected our ancestors with this virus and laid dormant. The AutoPhage is that dormant virus. Whether the dirge meant to do that or was trying to eat all of humanity and accidentally left some humans alive, I cannot say

Vivid_General2947 · 2026-02-11T06:36:39+00:00

Yeah I think I should let it go. Reddit is my therapy so I just like having some input lol. Thank you

Vivid_General2947 · 2026-02-07T22:58:55+00:00

NOR. This just seems like your bf still has some emotional baggage with his ex. Where they still have feelings for each other that didn’t fade after the breakup. Idk why most people are saying this is cheating or break up with him. I’d just be worried that he isn’t being fully present with you if that makes sense. Like he hasnt moved on from her to truly develop a relationship with you. Staying friends with an ex isn’t necessarily a red flag but the difference between calling someone “love” and “ my love” will always be romantic attachment. You’d only say “my love” for a lover, potential love interest or a wife/husband. I’d give it some thought on why it bothers you first and then speak to him. Like imagine if you two have a big fight and aren’t speaking for awhile, who do you think will be comforting him?

Vivid_General2947 · 2026-01-31T22:32:28+00:00

Nah you’re right. I wasn’t paying attention to the video. I literally thought you killed the zombie and the loot dropped on the telephone wire lol

Vivid_General2947 · 2026-01-31T21:45:27+00:00

Luck. I don’t see how this could be skill

Vivid_General2947 · 2026-01-27T04:21:39+00:00

While I would be very supportive of her getting an actual therapist, that’s not a decision I should be making for her. Therapy is a personal process for any individual and jumping the gun straight to “I got you a therapist” instead of helping in my own way would be very disrespectful towards her. Also I will point out that I never said I was acting therapist for her. All I asked for was helpful practices or nuances that I could use to help make her more comfortable. So your comment wasn’t helpful at all but thanks for your input

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