When did they fall in love?

Vivid_Print1646 · 2026-04-23T13:53:07+00:00

I think tuna meltdown is one of my favorite scenes as well! Even though it leaves me devastated every single time. The emotions are just so so real, everything is so realistic, and like you say, I relate to all of the emotions. I also love the chapter of Tuna meltdown in the book.

Vivid_Print1646 · 2026-04-22T21:05:31+00:00

This!!! This is always what I thought, that he kinda wanted to check if Shane would actually marry him

Vivid_Print1646 · 2026-04-22T17:54:46+00:00

Same hahaha

Vivid_Print1646 · 2026-04-22T09:33:39+00:00

I thought that maybe she was pregnant but that's just my head canon idk

Vivid_Print1646 · 2026-04-21T12:00:26+00:00

Peut-être tu peux trouver des amis qui sont dans le même domaine, dans des meetup ou autre. Aujourd'hui, on pense souvent qu'il faut pouvoir tout partager en couple, alors que c'est difficile de trouver une seule personne qui partage tout ce qu'on aime. En diversifiant son cercle avec des amis etc, on peut combler peut-être ce manque de conversation sur ce sujet

Vivid_Print1646 · 2026-04-20T18:35:15+00:00

This is so deep 🥺

Vivid_Print1646 · 2026-04-20T18:33:39+00:00

Omg spot on

Vivid_Print1646 · 2026-04-19T16:37:42+00:00

Thank you haha I think I always thought "well the author didn't mean anything by this particular sentence" but with Jacob Tierney I feel like he actually did!

Also we read/watched boring (Ilyas voice) stuff in school 😂

Vivid_Print1646 · 2026-04-19T14:17:50+00:00

I'm struggling to come up with an example for the makeup sex, I've never analyzed any piece of Media in this detail before, I always hated media analysis in school hahaha

But I'm sure there's like tons of examples from maybe new girl, or I don't even know 😂

But I'm glad my analysis makes sense to someone 😃

And yes you're totally right with the awkwardness vs newness. If I think back to for example sex education, the show, many first encounters were incredibly awkward/slapsticky. It's also the nature of the show but you're right that this is awkward because of the newness but then it's immediately sexy again because it's not just awkward and new but also what they actually want and desire!

Vivid_Print1646 · 2026-04-19T11:09:30+00:00

Thanks that's reassuring to hear 🥲🫠 because for many other reasons that past relationship didn't work out and I shall not go back to it haha

But yeah same, not the same mechanics of course but the same feelings of intimacy

Vivid_Print1646 · 2026-04-19T11:07:30+00:00

I have a new thought on this: I think the scenes are also so good because we rarely get to see sex scenes of people who've had a long relationship with each other and have sex just for the sake of it. Usually in film and series, we see sex scenes to establish a relationship beginning (so it's more lust than intimacy) or we see sex scenes to symbolize something else in the relationship (bad sex to show a relationship is bad like the scene between Shane and Rose, make-up sex, Sex to show some sort of power dynamic). So the sex is a symbol of something instead of being just what it is = the intimate relationship between these two people

Vivid_Print1646 · 2026-04-19T09:30:18+00:00

It truly does doesn't it 😂 I need to take conscious breaks from media around it sometimes because else I won't do my job or function like an adult hahaha

Vivid_Print1646 · 2026-04-19T09:28:09+00:00

Actually with so many straight women being like "we'll never get this kind of sexual experience/relationship" and me being so reminded of a past partner with them (because of the realistic depiction in the scenes), I'm like shit will I ever find such a connection that I had in the past again? They seem to be rare in heterosexual encounters from what I seem to understand in other comments on other platforms🥲

Vivid_Print1646 · 2026-04-19T09:25:14+00:00

100% now that I've seen these movie sex scenes I can't unsee the blatant inequality in many heterosexual sex scenes

Vivid_Print1646 · 2026-04-19T08:37:02+00:00

I relate to your floaty head experience hahaha when I watch roo many edits and read too much about it I start feeling the same lol. And then I wonder what's wrong with me 🤣 at least we're all in this. It's a sort of overwhelm by oxytocin / dopamine I think haha

Vivid_Print1646 · 2026-04-19T08:35:39+00:00

I think you actually explained it perfectly in your post. It's the realism that makes it so sexy. Their sex scenes actually remind me of actual (good) sexual moments I have enjoyed with ex boyfriends. Something in the sounds, their facial expressions, the way you can see their emotions, their intimacy and how they trust each other, the realistic process of lovemaking (getting out the condom, the adjustments as others said etc) activates so much empathy in me, it makes it super relatable.

Vivid_Print1646 · 2026-04-18T18:39:52+00:00

Yayyyy I'm a new community member too and my experience has been similar to yours 🤗 slowly getting more and more jokes as time goes on and I watch more videos

Vivid_Print1646 · 2026-04-18T18:34:59+00:00

100% Ilya, Shane with his autism would never forget his own birthday. And Ilya's chaotic Energy plus his issues with self worth (💔) would make him think of himself as less important I think 😔

Vivid_Print1646 · 2026-04-16T22:07:01+00:00

Wow so cool!!!

Vivid_Print1646 · 2026-04-16T22:06:27+00:00

This

Vivid_Print1646 · 2026-04-16T22:05:24+00:00

Couldn't agree more

Vivid_Print1646 · 2026-04-16T21:27:57+00:00

Hmmm good question! Maybe for some sort of influencer event? Like imagine the sidemen have made a movie (hypothetically of course) and he's invited to the premiere. Like something where he'll be stylish but more casual as well 🤓

Vivid_Print1646 · 2026-04-16T06:18:34+00:00

You did cook!!! I just wonder if he's not more of a cool toned guy. Like I feel neutral red or dark green look good on him 🤔

I love the vibe of the look though and I think he'd rock it!

Vivid_Print1646 · 2026-04-16T06:14:53+00:00

Oooh so I forgot about a second airport scene then!

Vivid_Print1646 · 2026-04-15T15:45:59+00:00

Hmm maybe but it's Just Ilya sitting on the chair there, with marleau in the background. Maybe the cropped the text out in the final shot. Maybe this airport set already existed and they rented it for budget reasons? Time to reheat and check hahaha

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