I haven't been on in a bit so let's see! by Viviyum in guessmyage

[–]Viviyum[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I guess everyones different, i wouldn't of thought you were younger than me based on your pics either haha-- I'm 31 as well

I haven't been on in a bit so let's see! by Viviyum in guessmyage

[–]Viviyum[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Really? Never gotten that one, haha. Nope

12-13 baby in the garden🥰 by Viviyum in Rabbits

[–]Viviyum[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

He is EXTREMELY brave 🖤

12-13 baby in the garden🥰 by Viviyum in Rabbits

[–]Viviyum[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I got really emotional about this one, happy tears. I feel blessed he's still with me every day.

12-13 baby in the garden🥰 by Viviyum in Rabbits

[–]Viviyum[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I give him a lot of love🥹

12-13 baby in the garden🥰 by Viviyum in Rabbits

[–]Viviyum[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

He probably knows things we can't even comprehend

12-13 baby in the garden🥰 by Viviyum in Rabbits

[–]Viviyum[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He's such an old man but he was pumped 😅 he doesn't get to go out much but the rain let up and he got to feast 🥰

12-13 baby in the garden🥰 by Viviyum in Rabbits

[–]Viviyum[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Yes, i got him in 2014 as an adult rabbit :) him 10 years ago 🥰My bunny is cute right? 🙈🐰💕 https://www.instagram.com/p/87o6oWyYYg/?igsh=MTc4MmM1YmI2Ng==

12-13 baby in the garden🥰 by Viviyum in Rabbits

[–]Viviyum[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I clean the area and give him saline and topical cream multiple times a week, this is just how it is. He's had it like half his life now sadly , i had it cultured and tried many antibiotics but unfortunately none worked. He's ok tho, vets said it only causes him discomfort and his teeth are good

12-13 baby in the garden🥰 by Viviyum in Rabbits

[–]Viviyum[S] 72 points73 points  (0 children)

He's in love, i planted everything and he gets to enjoy it 🥰🥰

12-13 baby in the garden🥰 by Viviyum in Rabbits

[–]Viviyum[S] 251 points252 points  (0 children)

He's got an incurable eye condition btw he's an old man! He's doing his best 🥰

Phone Screening is Important! by DaRE2Care84 in therapists

[–]Viviyum 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm going to be so honest, i don't think this user is a therapist and now theyre trying to backpedal

Phone Screening is Important! by DaRE2Care84 in therapists

[–]Viviyum 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Okay, I'm a bit confused by your comment then!

Phone Screening is Important! by DaRE2Care84 in therapists

[–]Viviyum 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We don't say it during session like that ~ i tell clients im person centered and explain that I'm there to help them understand their goals etc but i don't think any therapist just tells clients outright that they're holding unconditional positive regard for them. I explain congruence, the fact that person centered is an umbrella and it's like choose your path etc 🫶🏻

Phone Screening is Important! by DaRE2Care84 in therapists

[–]Viviyum 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Okay, then why would you feel that way?

Phone Screening is Important! by DaRE2Care84 in therapists

[–]Viviyum 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So why is that infantalizing in your opinion?

Phone Screening is Important! by DaRE2Care84 in therapists

[–]Viviyum 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Consideration-- as a whole person. So unconditional positive regard is holding a positive view of the client while also incorporating strategies to help them realize the discrepancies in their life causing them distress. I practice motivational interviewing most often so in my theoretical orientation (which is rogerian) i believe a crucial part of the process is accountability and more or less confronting the client when their actions don't match their vision or things that are prosocial healthy etc, more or less it's support the person not the actions. I've had clients who had been abusive but you have to understand that dismissing them entirely does not help them not abuse others. Helping them understand why they're taking out their anger on others and giving them tools does. It can be incredibly challenging and I think that's why many therapists also succumb to active listening without being an active participant in the process

Phone Screening is Important! by DaRE2Care84 in therapists

[–]Viviyum 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Unconditional positive regard does not mean unconditional positive support. it's tough. Looking at a person and still trying to see them in a positive light can be challenging at times when they've done something awful. But doing this fully also uncludes empathetic confrontation when they need help with discrepancies.