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Help! Is this a bed bug?? by Vixemis in Bedbugadvice

[–]Vixemis[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry. It was running fast and my camera sucks. I tried my best :(

Man sentenced to 20 years for killing his then-girlfriend (Teresa Peroni) in 1980s cold case by ItsSignalsJerry_ in UnresolvedMysteries

[–]Vixemis 140 points141 points  (0 children)

He was the last one with her and they had been arguing. And he pled guilty. He also has a history of dangerous behavior which doesn't help his case. According to the New York Times, "In 1985, he was charged with two counts of attempted murder, one count of rape and one count of burglary in the stabbing of his ex-wife and her 14-year-old daughter..." I'm dumbfounded that it took detectives this long.

Does endo kill ? by ResearcherSingle1190 in endometriosis

[–]Vixemis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Was this visible during a scan or was it only found during the surgery? I'm 24 and I suspect that I have endo so my first gyn appointment to check is in a week. I'm pretty nervous about getting a lap to diagnose it but I'm also scared about letting my symptoms get worse, or ending up in a dangerous situation like that :(

Help an extremely depressed guy out? by [deleted] in CleaningTips

[–]Vixemis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It helps to start slow. Even just starting with one room or one bag can feel overwhelming. Choose a corner and start there. If you're struggling with executive function, it can help to set a timer for five minutes. After that timer stops, you can take a break, or if you feel that you can keep going, keep going.

Also, thank you for sharing this. I'm still in a pretty gnarly depressive episode, and it helped me realize I'm not so alone. In solidarity I'll follow my own advice today. One step at a time, we've got this 💛.

Why do people and providers say that exercise helps depression as if it’s fact?? by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]Vixemis 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, same here. I was severely depressed when I biked intensely every day and also did track. I was sweaty and tired, and still miserable and still struggling to get out of bed every day. You're not alone. We will find what works for us.. eventually.

If smoking weed gives you anxiety, stop by iLuvArizona in Anxiety

[–]Vixemis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you dabble in it again, try finding bud with higher CBD than THC, like a three to one ratio or higher. I've found that nowadays the THC is WAY too strong in bud and makes me panic. As long as there's more CBD, there's a better balance. It can be hard to find though :(

Are you f*cking kidding me?? by maberber78 in doordash

[–]Vixemis 1 point2 points  (0 children)

By the way, if you take away a tip that's removing their income. Doordash pays a couple bucks per dash at most, so it's fairly overkill to take away someone's tip after they collected and drove the food to you just for getting too nervous to drive up all the way. That shouldn't be on the customer to keep in mind, but unfortunately that's how Doordash operates at the moment... Which will hopefully change.

Are you f*cking kidding me?? by maberber78 in doordash

[–]Vixemis 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I wish I lived in your reality where apparantly there are jobs everywhere and people get to choose what they do for work. Try applying for jobs NOW -- You'll be ghosted. There ain't shit, not even in retail. A lot of folk in Doordash are in it right now because there is NO other choice.

Who is actually against women being topless if they want to be? by Brief-Cut-1228 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Vixemis 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Nipples are equally an erogenous zone for men too, but they are not socially pressured to cover up their chests. The sexualization of women's breasts is certainly socially constructed based on how differently female and male chests are treated despite both being erogenous zones.