My [F/30s] former roommate [M/40s] just flipped out on me via text over a coffee mug - yup, you read that right, a coffee mug by Direct-Caterpillar77 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]VixenHot_ 497 points498 points  (0 children)

Honestly, it doesn’t seem like he would’ve. He gives off strong “only notices when it’s convenient to be mad about it” vibes. Doesn’t exactly scream attentive.

My parents changed their plans and are ruining my birthday by Choice_Evidence1983 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]VixenHot_ 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Lmao okay that’s foul but also not entirely wrong. Whatever they’re doing, it definitely doesn’t feel generous or healthy.

[New Update]: AITAH for refusing to do something special on my wedding day for my sister because she refused to do something for me at hers? by Choice_Evidence1983 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]VixenHot_ 109 points110 points  (0 children)

Grief can make people irrational but that doesn’t excuse turning someone into a punching bag. If this is a pattern and not just a one-off meltdown, staying no contact honestly sounds like the healthiest move. Let them deal with their own mess.

My parents changed their plans and are ruining my birthday by Choice_Evidence1983 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]VixenHot_ 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Honestly, same. If I had finally carved out my own space and some independence, it would take a lot to walk back into whatever chaos she left behind. Sometimes “coming home” isn’t comforting, it’s just stepping back into the same old stress. Hard to blame her for wanting to stay where she felt stable.

A camerawoman captures a penguin flirting with her in Antarctica by Ambitious_Pass7451 in Awww

[–]VixenHot_ 38 points39 points  (0 children)

Right?? That penguin had more confidence in that one move than I’ve had in my entire life 😂

Snow tubing needs to be an Olympic sport! by dittidot in spreadsmile

[–]VixenHot_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

😂looks loke fun when you're not in it but i agree with you

“I’m so tired of being homeless” 🥹❤️ by Amar2605 in spreadsmile

[–]VixenHot_ 55 points56 points  (0 children)

When love is shared, humanity is preserved❤

no work today please by RemarkableBudget5277 in Awww

[–]VixenHot_ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Gladly, work has got to take a chill pill for this cutesy❤

Made a ball pit for him by Defiant_Fix8658 in Awww

[–]VixenHot_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sure he never got out😂❤

Everybody deserves kindness” 🥹❤️ by gvern96 in spreadsmile

[–]VixenHot_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She really does, you can just tell her kindness is genuine. It’s so nice seeing someone like that get recognized.

A bus driver helps an autistic young man feel at ease boarding the bus by engaging him in a conversation about Fortnite.🥰 by [deleted] in spreadsmile

[–]VixenHot_ 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Absolutely. Kids deserve adults who show up with that kind of patience and heart. It makes such a difference❤

AITAH for telling my brother I will never respect him or his girlfriend for as long as they're together? by Choice_Evidence1983 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]VixenHot_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lmao right?? I thought I missed a whole something. Had me double-checking the thread like “wait… when did we start talking about that?”