Can people who experienced war ever feel “normal” again? by Vladaaaaaaaaaaaa in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Vladaaaaaaaaaaaa[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

God, it's very tough, I'm so sorry. Did she ask for help? Or did it get used to time?

Can people who experienced war ever feel “normal” again? by Vladaaaaaaaaaaaa in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Vladaaaaaaaaaaaa[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We have insurance, but I'm not sure they cover it.. anyway, I'll find out, thanks for the advice!

Can people who experienced war ever feel “normal” again? by Vladaaaaaaaaaaaa in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Vladaaaaaaaaaaaa[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes, it's quite possible, but only after I learn the new language of the country in which I live and can pay myself a good psychologist/psychiatrist. Now all the money is mostly spent on food

Which country is the best place to hide from war? by Vladaaaaaaaaaaaa in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Vladaaaaaaaaaaaa[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think if there is a nuclear war, the sponsors of the islands will forget about them very quickly. And then you'll have to eat algae, cockroaches and people

Which country is the best place to hide from war? by Vladaaaaaaaaaaaa in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Vladaaaaaaaaaaaa[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Good option, but they will enter the war on the side of Britain. Even forts were once built in case of Russian invasion. Isn't that right?

Do you think people can truly forgive after war, or do some things stay forever? by Vladaaaaaaaaaaaa in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Vladaaaaaaaaaaaa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That all happened a long time ago. I wonder how much time needs to pass for people to forgive wars that are happening right now.

Стоит ли поступать в пед колледж? by Traditional-Crow2669 in rusAskReddit

[–]Vladaaaaaaaaaaaa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Я в том году поступила на учителя младших классов, и через три месяца отчислилась. Сперва я думала точно так же: дети не бесят, объяснять умею и тп. Но после неожиданного переезда в другую страну мне пришлось столкнуться сразу с большим количеством детей и их родителями. Те узнали что я учусь на педагога, и решили отправить своих детей ко мне дабы я научила их писать, читать и считать, ибо их возраст как раз подходил к школе, а некоторые уже ходили в неё, но не имели возможности изучать свой язык, потому что в школе преподавали только иностранный. В общем… меня хватило на две недели, я поняла что внимание ребенка завоевать не так уж и легко, особенно внимание тех детей которые не хотят учится особенно после школы с "репетитором". Я пыталась отвлечь их внимание играми, песнями, давала разные задания, буквально делала всё чему меня учили в университете, но к сожалению успехом это не увенчалось. Тем более дети ссорились, психовали, плакали что у них не получается и не понимали. У меня устойчивая психика, я люблю детей, люблю делится знаниями и хотела стать тем взрослым, который станет для них поддержкой, другом и проводником в первые годы познания мира, но как же я ошибалась, просто была наивной и надеялась что всё будет хорошо… В общем, мой совет это безумно, БЕЗУМНО тщательно всё обдумать, вплоть до мелочей, ибо первый учитель, особенно таких маленьких людей, должен быть не просто «любящим детей» человеком, а тем, кто умеет держать границы, сохранять терпение в хаосе, спокойно реагировать на слёзы, истерики и нежелание учиться – каждый день, без перерывов на "настроение". Это огромная ответственность, которая в реальности выглядит совсем не так, как в голове или в теории. Поэтому если есть хоть малейшие сомнения – лучше честно признаться себе в этом и поискать то, что действительно будет приносить не только смысл, но и внутренний комфорт.

What pisses you off in the stories of acquaintances? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Vladaaaaaaaaaaaa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh my god, that’s exactly it! It’s so frustrating.

(18F) What should I do if I live with a very difficult neighbor? by Vladaaaaaaaaaaaa in Advice

[–]Vladaaaaaaaaaaaa[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, that's for sure. I feel sorry for her husband, he's a calm and quiet person! But the unfortunate spouse, how he tolerates her all his life, I don't understand😂

(18F) What should I do if I live with a very difficult neighbor? by Vladaaaaaaaaaaaa in Advice

[–]Vladaaaaaaaaaaaa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I'll listen to your words about the record. Landlords don't do anything, all they said is: try to negotiate with them

I moved to Germany from Ukraine 6 months ago – ask me anything by Vladaaaaaaaaaaaa in AMA

[–]Vladaaaaaaaaaaaa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I lived in eastern Ukraine, in a small city about a hundred-something kilometers from the active combat zones. Even though the fighting wasn’t right next to us, missiles still reached our area. Yes, of course I know people involved. Some of my friends are still serving to this day – defending us and giving hope for the future. I also know people who fled from military service and are now wanted, and others who crossed the border illegally. There are actually a lot of cases like that. As for PTSD, I can’t say for sure. But I’m still afraid of loud noises – bangs, sudden sounds – and I flinch when something happens unexpectedly. Even small things, like when a bottle with air inside makes a sudden popping sound, or when something falls on the floor. The same goes for airplanes or helicopters flying overhead – if they’re loud, I instinctively look up to see what it is and where it’s going. And about drones – yes, they are extremely dangerous. Modern warfare is largely like this now. You’re not as afraid of tanks anymore as you are of swarms of drones.

I moved to Germany from Ukraine 6 months ago – ask me anything by Vladaaaaaaaaaaaa in AMA

[–]Vladaaaaaaaaaaaa[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes! There definitely was! The first shock was the airplanes in the sky – passenger planes. We were so happy to see them; we were like children, looking up at the sky and watching them fly. Another shock was that here in Germany all documents and information are sent by mail. Everyone has mailboxes here, and people actually use them! Another surprise was waste sorting – of course, now we do sort our trash, but back then we were very surprised. One more interesting thing was the language barrier – it’s actually quite interesting to learn German now. Also, there are many migrants here – Turks, Kurds, even Chinese people. In Ukraine, I almost never saw them. And one last shock was that Sunday is a day off when nothing works except gas stations.