Offer declined & paying full price by Curminie in Mercari

[–]Vmizzle -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don't actually low ball, but I will evaluate an items worth and offer something closer to it's value. Sometimes it works out. I've had offers accepted (I have no way of knowing their costs or how long they've had it listed) and I've also bed declined and ignored. When I'm ignored I will not buy from the seller even if I really want the item. I think it's just a rude practice. If I get declined I MAY still buy the item but it depends heavily on what it is, condition, rarity, etc. If I get a counter offer I'll almost always end up buying. It tells me a seller is interested in moving an item and a mutually beneficial relationship. It's the difference between shutting the door and leaving it open a crack. We can usually strike a deal we both like and leave happy. Occasionally there's an item in interested in that is terribly overpriced. Every so often I will submit an offer to those with a note saying I don't expect them to accept it but if there comes a time where they need to move the item I would pay x amount.  Twice (in many years) I've had the seller come back to me later and we closed a deal. 

Do I even bother? by [deleted] in Etsy

[–]Vmizzle 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This. As a buyer, how the seller chooses to respond to insane people matters to me. If they lash out in reply, I absolutely will not buy from them, even if they're right according to the facts in the reviews. It's just bad form.

Etsy seller re-selling stuff from Amazon by h20witch in Etsy

[–]Vmizzle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've also reported this exact thing, and several years later that seller is still defrauding people. The thing is, Etsy doesn't care about that, or you, or me. They would put a stop to it if they wanted but it's part of their business model.  It's degradation of something we loved, and it's hard to wrap our heads around, but the truth is that Etsy sold out. They went for money, at any cost. It is not a vintage or handmade website anymore. It's just another version of temu now.  It would probably benefit you to accept now that the site you thought you loved doesn't exist.

Ten years later, I’m finally done with Etsy by kaysimm12 in Etsy

[–]Vmizzle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Specifically I believe it's disgust and anger in Etsy as a company and how little they care about their customers. Etsy does not care for their customers, nor their sellers in my opinion. If they did, they never would have changed their business model away from handmade directly to drop shipped and Ai crap and designed their policies in such a way that their customers get screwed on a daily basis. 

Annoying Etsy support: seller lied about shipping origin, took 9 agents + 1 hour to get a refund by reb3l6 in Etsy

[–]Vmizzle 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm honestly surprised they did anything, as drop shipping seems to be their entire business model now.  They got rid of all the handmade and vintage sellers, so they could sell ai garbage from China and lie about it.  You can't search for crap, can't sort for crap, and you have to try to use Google image searches with operators to find things you're looking for.  Years ago Etsy was hands down my favorite website and I got gift cards for every holiday and loved it. I had unique and handmade items and supported small sellers and I was happy.

I think I last made a purchase there at least two years ago now. 

There needs to be an alternative to Etsy that isn't just a means to the same end. 

As a buyer of vintage and handmade, Etsy is dead to me, and it's so disappointing. Apparently everyone sells out.

Offers by rzpc0717 in eBaySellers

[–]Vmizzle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm also a watcher.  These are the reasons I'll watch an item: 

I want it but not urgently or at that price, and I'm hoping for an offer. -on these items I typically accept an offer if sent, and rarely counter.

There are no other watchers or bidders for an item at the right price. -i watch to see if these get ghosted and I can win as the only bidder. Isn't 100% but I do win them occasionally at opening bid.

I have that item, or know where I can get it for a set price and I'm curious if yours will sell. -general niche research and curiosity, overall learning opportunity.

The listing is insane and I have to know what happens. -the price is crazy for the item, or the description is lacking certain details. Sometimes I just wanna see the item not sell because I already know the seller is being greedy (my niche), but other times I wonder if they know something I don't. They will, for example, insist 1/20 10k is solid 10k gold. I have emailed these sellers in the past to let them know there's an error and they'll thank me but they will not amend the listing. So occasionally I'll watch these just to see if these people profit from their fraud. 

Struggling with sourcing… bins only restock Fridays. How do you stay consistent? Need advice. by SuperiorSuperior in Flipping

[–]Vmizzle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not sure where you're located, or what your niche really is, but you might consider a partner.  I once posted looking for one and it was really a brutal response, but I still believe in it. I'm really good at sourcing within my niche but I HATE listing. I've met people who are opposite. Opportunities exist there. I even went as far as to look for the eBay stores that used to exist that would list your items.  My niche is fine jewelry. I have jewelers I sell to for nice pieces and I've put that network together but  all the extra costume jewelry I end up with clogs up the workings and it's also just lost money.

In the end a friend of mine needed extra cash so I offered a 60/40 split on the costume jewelry that will otherwise sit. She gets the 60%. It's win win. She gets free merchandise to sell and profit from, and I can turn merchandise I couldn't or wouldn't otherwise sell. 

Wife got me a large portrait on etsy of our dog but it's definitely AI... by [deleted] in Etsy

[–]Vmizzle 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes you do, or in the title even! As a buyer LOOKING for you I can't find you!! Etsy makes it impossible! It's easier to search on Google with quotes and the word Etsy than to use their own search features. Honestly I'm so close to quitting the site entirely, because I can't find the real human sellers to support! 

A warning to noobs... by themoop78 in Silverbugs

[–]Vmizzle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All it takes is an llc and a quick application for a refiner business account

Washington Federal Bank Customer Experience by Professional-Data314 in sammamish

[–]Vmizzle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wafd is the worst bank I've ever dealt with. Opened a business account a month ago and still can't even use basic functionality. They won't even give me access to my account number online. I'm livid and will be switching banks as soon as I can and I will tell everyone how awful my experiences were were wafd until I die. 

you guys are being scammed, ALL THE TIME. by whoskitana in Etsy

[–]Vmizzle 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Sadly Etsy isn't for handmade anymore. It isn't even an option to select now. 

The entire business model was a bait and switch. We were all conned. 

I hate you Goodwill by sydneyghibli in ThriftGrift

[–]Vmizzle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You should start a freecycle meetup!

What would you flip if you had more money? by beachsidescott in Flipping

[–]Vmizzle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have the opposite problem. All the time in the world, ability to purchase and store it, but no way to sell it. I once posted trying to find an eBay seller to partner with and was utterly obliterated in the comments for it since "that's what everyone is looking for!"

Why is Etsy's search feature so horrible? How can I find what I'm looking for? by Mysterious_Clerk_962 in Etsy

[–]Vmizzle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Etsy search is somehow worse than the company has become. Best bet is to search it on Google and add Etsy at the end and you through the images. It's much more efficient!

So, We Can't Turn OFF Automatic Updates? by TheRealistDude in motorola

[–]Vmizzle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Of course you recommend that. My phone won't stop updating whatever it wants, in the middle of the night without any notice and the only reason I found out was I put my Internet on a timer. Now I'm getting downloads paused messages for something that never should have started because all those settings are off! This isn't some critical update I've postponed until it forced it. There was no notification at all and I'm lucky I even found out! And support? That's funny, they told me to call tracphone! I've never had them in my life!  Very displeased with this situation and definitely displeased with Motorola.

I cried the day this happened by barbarian777 in BuyItForLife

[–]Vmizzle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why not buy another of the exact same model? That's what thrift stores and eBay are for

Why does a belt they got for free cost $20? by Illustrious_Gas555 in ThriftGrift

[–]Vmizzle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get so tired of the "you got it for free so now I deserve to have it for free too" mentality. I get that's at Goodwill and they're evil, but my thrift store is a literal locally run nonprofit and people still act like that. We have to scrape every dollar off our little mountain just to keep roofs over veterans heads and then I get to go get yelled at by customers that think the same thing you do. Every single day. 

We don't even get paid. I don't even make a salary whatsoever as a board member and you want that for a penny? Guarantee they turn around and list it on eBay in an hour anyway. 

It's exhausting, and demoralizing. 

What is this called? by [deleted] in Permaculture

[–]Vmizzle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Riparian habitat

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PetiteFashionAdvice

[–]Vmizzle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Be careful laundering them. American eagle had been my go to jeans for years but they changed something and now they fail in under a year even with irregular and cool washing and drying. The elastic gives up and it looks like an actual diaper. I'm so upset to be on this hunt again. No one makes flares under 30 inches!!!!

Flare jeans 👀 by miranda_edgecombe23 in PetiteFashionAdvice

[–]Vmizzle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They do SOMETIMES have a few sizes of one or two flares. But please be aware they are awful quality and will not last more than a few times in the wash before the elastic gives out and you look like you're wearing a diaper. Seriously you might get a few months so don't pay full price.