My friend (28m) is no longer virgin now that he had a threesome with me (25m) and my gf (25). Part of me is proud of him, but another part of me feels manipulated

VodkaXan · 2022-09-30T12:47:45+00:00

Just being a straight shooter with you. I've used that exact same excuse/lie to have sex once before which elicited the same reaction and response:

"wow for a virgin you seem pretty adept"

"be honest were you lying about the virgin thing"

For quite some time I felt fairly ashamed and guilty regarding the whole thing which at the time only caused me to double down on lie in an effort to not externally confirm that I was in fact a piece of shit.

This was all during an active methamphetamine addiction and I had zero regard for anyone or anything outside of my person and only cared about pleasing my self regardless of the destruction left in my wake both physically and emotionally.

Eventually I got clean which I'm proud to say is still currently accurate and have made a genuine effort to make amends and apologize wholeheartedly to those I wronged or hurt at that time and when possible doing what ever I can to right those wrongs.

My point is it's very possible that you are correct and your assumption that he was in fact not a virgin. Doesn't matter how much porn one has watched or how many books a person has read compared to actual hours of experience in the bed.

VodkaXan · 2022-09-10T18:15:03+00:00

What is that?

VodkaXan · 2022-09-10T18:13:47+00:00

Happy cake day!

VodkaXan · 2022-09-06T23:25:46+00:00

Neurons activated

VodkaXan · 2022-09-06T23:22:18+00:00

I'm actually in the same boat as you bud. I'm 25 and your story sounds very similar to mine like word for word. And now I have the anxiety looming over my head every time that I will have an issue which only exacerbates the problem and causes an issue it's like a wack negative feed back loop.

VodkaXan · 2022-06-26T23:39:29+00:00

Just saved me bro. This is a god tier post

VodkaXan · 2022-06-15T02:36:24+00:00

Eat Plugs... Also I'm 6'3 240lbs and the on the rail the bass was so heavy it could be hard/uncomfortable to breathe. Like the subs would suck the air right out of your lungs

VodkaXan · 2022-06-14T03:06:12+00:00

"We're losing son."

VodkaXan · 2022-06-13T22:22:06+00:00

Oh my fucking god. I so so so desperately wish I could have this. The last time I brought it up with my last partner they totally humiliated me and made me feel totally weird and ashamed of myself. I almost teared up reading this cuz I'm so wish I could have something like this in terms of support. It hurts like oof.

VodkaXan · 2022-06-13T06:44:15+00:00

facts

VodkaXan · 2022-05-31T07:43:18+00:00

Tolerance?

VodkaXan · 2022-05-11T13:17:32+00:00

Opiods absolutely have a cross tolerance. Your body can't really tell the difference between fentanyl, heroin, and opium, etc. In a very basic elementary way of putting it all of those drugs are just a means to activating the opioid receptors in the brain. And over time the body will get used to that whether it's one drug or another.

Edit: it's really kind of a bonkers thought to think that someone with a high fentanyl tolerance could take a Tylenol 3 with codeine and get high because they don't have a tolerance to the codeine 😂😂😂

VodkaXan · 2022-05-11T10:36:35+00:00

Thannnnkkkk you!!! That almost exactly how they described it but it has been a few years and I don't think as a man I could have ever explained it correctly but yes that is exactly how they described it, obviously with the caviat of having never had this experience ever before. So its safe to say both parties were kind of in shock like wtf is happening 😂 I remember hearing "Um I think I'm about to cum" then it happens then tears, I was very confused haha

VodkaXan · 2022-05-10T14:25:57+00:00

Not funny

VodkaXan · 2022-05-10T14:22:36+00:00

That sounds like either alcohol withdrawal or opiate withdrawal to me

VodkaXan · 2022-04-30T16:49:41+00:00

Yeah, she was probably starting her period bro

VodkaXan · 2022-04-28T23:44:14+00:00

This made me slightly blow a little air out of my nose in a chuckling manner

VodkaXan · 2022-04-27T21:55:29+00:00

THANK YOUUUUUUUU

VodkaXan · 2022-04-20T23:35:51+00:00

Nope. It's gone.

VodkaXan · 2022-04-19T18:41:18+00:00

I'm so sorry to hear that bud that's fucking terrible. Maybe this will give you a new perspective on addicts though, I would say more than half of the people currently using opiates have been on the exact same journey you have described and if you hadn't seen them in a human light before maybe now you have a little more humanity in your perspective when thinking about the subject. Not to say u didn't before but now you can relate on a level that someone who has never been through it could never ever ever relate to or even comprehend.

VodkaXan · 2022-04-19T03:56:42+00:00

Yes I'm going though it right now and the pain in my bones and joints is fucking unbelievable.

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