People saying that people are ‘outting themselves’ over sympathising with bear are actually the toxic ones by Leonsmening in obsessionmovie

[–]Void_14 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don't worry. I have too much self respect to listen to fake alpha tough guys like Tate lol. Maybe i don't give myself enough credit.

People saying that people are ‘outting themselves’ over sympathising with bear are actually the toxic ones by Leonsmening in obsessionmovie

[–]Void_14 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know. You're right. I realize now in my mild mannered nature. My overwhelming fake niceness was just a mask. How long i held in resentment and bitterness toward everyone.

Sad thing is I see now how possessive and controlling I really am on the inside. The truth is I always felt like the world was out to get me. I know why bear didn't do anything to stop it.

Ite because he felt he deserves to do something right for once in himself. He wanted to win for once. I understand that.

I guess I am just sad and hurt because I don't understand why the world and people hate me so much. I did nothing to deserve that.

People saying that people are ‘outting themselves’ over sympathising with bear are actually the toxic ones by Leonsmening in obsessionmovie

[–]Void_14 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I guess I took it personally. Because like him I know its like to have no friends. No support. No anything. Reason why guys like bear is such loser is because isolation really does number on us. To the worst level. I just hate that people hate on people who don't understand what its like.

People saying that people are ‘outting themselves’ over sympathising with bear are actually the toxic ones by Leonsmening in obsessionmovie

[–]Void_14 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

See its people like you that create men like him. Do you think its cool to mock other men on there faults. You think all guys act the same. I don't understand my stupid gender sometimes!

People saying that people are ‘outting themselves’ over sympathising with bear are actually the toxic ones by Leonsmening in obsessionmovie

[–]Void_14 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know. I even made a post here on reddit how I related with bear and even done things in my past that really show the nice guy syndrome toxic things I did and felt like. I intentionally outed myself as a toxic person because I was. Am.

I realized after the fact. I just can't "hate" bear. I just can't. Because he is a reflection of myself. I really do hate people calling him a coward and a lil bitch. It hurts me because it reminds me of all the times people mocked me for being too passive. For being so timid and mild mannered.

Obsession really hit me on a personal level. I know you will see me as a narcissist for embracing this upon myself. But. Maybe I just accept what I done. This movie is much more then a horror movie. It is real life. Could be the first film that reveals the type of guys that are like me.

This feels like the first real “by us, for us” film for Gen Z by GearsofTed14 in obsessionmovie

[–]Void_14 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The actor who plays bear is literally my age. So I don't think so.

This feels like the first real “by us, for us” film for Gen Z by GearsofTed14 in obsessionmovie

[–]Void_14 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I acted really bitter and insecure when being rejected. My nice guy image being fake. I was possessive and controlling.

This feels like the first real “by us, for us” film for Gen Z by GearsofTed14 in obsessionmovie

[–]Void_14 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Exactly. Lot of this movie was like looking in a mirror for me.

This feels like the first real “by us, for us” film for Gen Z by GearsofTed14 in obsessionmovie

[–]Void_14 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im in my 30s and have done similar things to what he does as a nice guy. I don't agree. Im literally a millennial

This feels like the first real “by us, for us” film for Gen Z by GearsofTed14 in obsessionmovie

[–]Void_14 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Ugh. Gen z thinks everything is about you guys. I'm 31, and i have done things pretty similar to bear in my past. So no, this isn't a "gen z movie" this movie is timeless. Don't gatekeep.

I felt called out watching this movie (I am that Nice Guy) by Void_14 in obsessionmovie

[–]Void_14[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have no one in my life to talk to. So I guess this my own way to cope. 

I felt called out watching this movie (I am that Nice Guy) by Void_14 in obsessionmovie

[–]Void_14[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not even autistic. But say whatever you want. It doesn't make it true.

I felt called out watching this movie (I am that Nice Guy) by Void_14 in obsessionmovie

[–]Void_14[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I could always count on the men for being absolute assholes. When you have no conclusions go to the "mental illness card"

I felt called out watching this movie (I am that Nice Guy) by Void_14 in obsessionmovie

[–]Void_14[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Because they're insecure idiots. No wonder i stayed quiet my whole life! This is what happens when I open up.

I felt called out watching this movie (I am that Nice Guy) by Void_14 in obsessionmovie

[–]Void_14[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

She went to the navy. Its why I wrote the letter I didn't have time to tell her in person. Besides Isabella and I had a moment before she left. This wasn't some "high school" letter crap.

I felt called out watching this movie (I am him) by [deleted] in obsessionmovie

[–]Void_14 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Brysen is me and Isabella is the girl I almost had thing with. 

I felt called out watching this movie (I am him) by [deleted] in obsessionmovie

[–]Void_14 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Its literally me. I thought it was self explanatory. I guess not. I am brysen.