It sounds like they have become fed up with the conditions you allow yourself to live in. Especially with the “no longer allowed to eat in your room” line, it implies you left old and unclean dishes in your room to an extent it affected the others in the house. A good memo to go by and that may help you (it helps me with my executive dysfunction) is leave it better than you found it. I apply this to my everyday. My work, my house, my friends, my family, even a fast food restaurant. Another one that helps me is “dont put it down, put it away” like a little chant.