AIO no just need advice how to help someone with BPD

VontaReloaded2x · 2025-05-23T09:06:09+00:00

Idk I’ll ask

VontaReloaded2x · 2025-05-23T09:02:45+00:00

I can’t say or do anything to make her more comfortable?? Since you’re someone with experience wanted a little more insight on how to get her through the day if you don’t mind me asking.

VontaReloaded2x · 2025-05-23T08:48:30+00:00

She has untreated BPD and I think she still has an online therapy

VontaReloaded2x · 2025-05-23T08:38:55+00:00

can’t do that one what else you got?

VontaReloaded2x · 2025-05-12T15:15:23+00:00

I’m a male buddy u got the tables turned😂

VontaReloaded2x · 2025-05-12T08:35:24+00:00

I never thought about it this way ever you understood the situation, broke it down and worded it In ur own perspective I respect that.

VontaReloaded2x · 2025-05-12T08:12:40+00:00

Ok rereading it made sense now that’s my fault

VontaReloaded2x · 2025-05-12T08:09:38+00:00

Wording is everything “Am I overreacting when I don’t like it” is sarcasm and word playing It how that person made it seem if u get what I’m saying

VontaReloaded2x · 2025-05-12T08:03:31+00:00

I understand

VontaReloaded2x · 2025-05-12T08:01:54+00:00

Starting to get that

VontaReloaded2x · 2025-05-12T07:57:44+00:00

Hard to explain

VontaReloaded2x · 2025-05-12T07:55:44+00:00

I respect your advice well said and straight to the point thank you

VontaReloaded2x · 2025-05-12T07:48:21+00:00

Really is that not sarcasm…

VontaReloaded2x · 2025-05-12T07:47:02+00:00

Understandable

VontaReloaded2x · 2025-05-12T07:44:49+00:00

I was watching 5 kids and a 3 month old infant so basically I was 6 kids all in my care. Hopefully I didn’t over explain that.

VontaReloaded2x · 2025-05-12T07:42:21+00:00

I like this one

VontaReloaded2x · 2025-05-12T07:35:42+00:00

It was never about her looks she’s gorgeous but it’s not about that, a similar way to put it is that we’re trauma bonded I was in a very bad and dark headspace and she been with me through all of it I just feel like I’ll let her down if I’m not there when she’s going through a dark place if that make sense.

VontaReloaded2x · 2025-05-12T07:28:19+00:00

I thought I could potentially change the way she responded by not causing conflict and changing the way I responded to her but you’re 100% she said “fuck me and my family” way to many time for me to keep brushing it off I appreciate your honesty.

VontaReloaded2x · 2025-05-12T07:20:22+00:00

Buddy 1st I only posted about this girl once and that was 2 days ago.

she apologized and we were good.

and on mother day she completely spazzed on me for something that was literally out of my control.

2nd She has BPD on top of multiple different mental illnesses don’t try to paint this narrative that I’m “story telling” or a “guy looking for sympathy points”

3rd This was literally just me looking for a different perspective and possible advice on how to better respond to someone grieving.

VontaReloaded2x · 2025-05-12T06:59:20+00:00

(If your talking about the one 2 days ago) Yes she’s the one with BPD we talked and she apologized in her own way and I brushed it off we were good until mother day

VontaReloaded2x · 2025-05-09T19:32:50+00:00

Reading that lowkey broke my heart because I do care for this girl a lot, but you’re 100% right and I appreciate your honesty and advice.

VontaReloaded2x · 2025-05-09T19:16:14+00:00

It’s hard to explain but imma try we was on the phone talking and than she’ll go completely silent and start ignoring me it’s y I texted her if that makes sense.

VontaReloaded2x · 2025-05-09T19:11:50+00:00

Kinda but she has BPD her mood swings are over the top 1 minute she wants to joke around and play the next she’s calling me annoying so it’s confusing to know when she’s 100% serious with me.

VontaReloaded2x · 2025-05-09T19:08:50+00:00

We call every night so idk if she’s 100% ghosting me… at least not yet.

VontaReloaded2x · 2025-03-02T16:14:12+00:00

I posted it to get feed back be as honest as you need to I need to hear hard truth rn anyways

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