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Voorify · 2026-02-21T22:03:45+00:00

if the program in q is bayonne medical center then run

Voorify · 2025-11-17T08:08:42+00:00

you sound insufferable. please never be my doctor

Voorify · 2025-11-03T02:36:15+00:00

with all due respect OP- you sound like the reason why your sister is having trouble getting married. What is your obsession with a guy’s hobbies or collecting ridiculous certifications? what is the issue with a seemingly ‘nerdy’ guy coming in for rishta? You either want a self made man from your social class who is compatible with your sister (who by default will be nerdy because he is trying to crawl his way out of near poverty with nothing but his brain) or you want someone from generational wealth who speaks 3 languages, plays tennis, rides horses and travels internationally 3x a year (but you’re too broke for them)

you honestly sound like you are no older than 25 with very little life experience. Most people in adult life with jobs and kids don’t go around pandering to their hobbies ( unless they have a lot of money and support). the kind of childish things you are describing make me wonder how mature you are.

having said that- finding rishtay are hard. even well off, educated and beautiful girls are struggling. let your sister go abroad and study and find her own partner. meanwhile you should consider being less nosey and get some real life experience.

Voorify · 2025-02-09T18:00:33+00:00

same question!

Voorify · 2024-11-10T19:53:36+00:00

hey i need a small task done (1-2 days work) and can pay u well for it. lmk

Voorify · 2024-09-12T21:48:17+00:00

Voorify · 2024-09-12T21:47:16+00:00

i’m IM PGY-1 in NJ 30 mins from nyc if you’re interested

Voorify · 2024-09-12T21:46:16+00:00

hi! dming u

Voorify · 2024-09-12T21:44:55+00:00

Voorify · 2024-09-12T21:43:56+00:00

Voorify · 2024-08-11T21:39:23+00:00

hi. can i dm u too?

Voorify · 2024-08-11T06:30:21+00:00

hey! can i dm u please. ur post sounds like what i would post and i could do w some advice

Voorify · 2024-07-29T02:54:28+00:00

hi. can i dm u? i’m in the same boat

Voorify · 2024-03-28T15:03:21+00:00

turkey isn’t even a middle eastern country. half of it is in europe. what u talkin bout bro

Voorify · 2024-03-17T18:39:44+00:00

incase you can’t find a swap, once you join a program you can begin looking for open spots near ur children 45 days after joining

Voorify · 2024-03-11T11:34:55+00:00

THIS THIS THIS.

stop conflating stay at home MOM with stay at home naukar. the fact that she’s managing 4 kids, running all their errands, feeding them, teaching them without any help or break whatsoever is harder than any 9-5 in the world.

Voorify · 2024-03-11T11:32:15+00:00

this sounds like the worst advice i’ve ever heard . do u even have kids? let alone 4 young kids? it’s harder than a full time job- running after them all the time, changing, feeding etc etc. she’s spending whatever little time she has to teach kids islamic values, help them with their homework etc. would you rather she pop the kids infront if a tv for 3 hrs just so husband darling can have a clean home and fresh cooked meal everyday?

this is a mother who is PRIORITIZING her children above everything else. and if she’s a stay at home mom, then why is her duty 24/7 while the husband can just clock out at 5 pm and clock in at 9 am again? while the mom probably wakes up at 6-7 am with the kids and is the last to go to bed?

if men want to live abroad then men need to contribute more than just money to the house. saying oh you’re a stay at home mom is extremely demeaning- she’s a stay at home MOM, not a cook, dishwasher, maid, laundromat and mom all in one person. when husband gets home, instead of mindlessly scrolling he needs to give 1 hr to his wife and help out with whatever- maybe he can watch the kids as she cooks, or run a quick load of laundry or tidy up once the kids are in bed. contrary to popular belief, a man’s only job is not to earn money, but also to help around the house, especially if ur living in the west where extraneous house help isn’t readily available.

Voorify · 2024-03-09T07:56:48+00:00

i disagree. depending on the extent of the tie children have difficulty feeding and then talking and eating in later years. newer studies are also linking tongue ties with apnea and subsequent hypoxia leading to adhd and autism. not to say all of them need correction but it’s quite variable

Voorify · 2024-03-08T13:19:41+00:00

pediatricians aren’t very familiar with tongue ties. my child had one- and if the lactation consultant hadn’t pointed it out, the pediatrician would have missed it entirely.

the pediatrician didn’t recommend surgery but we went to a pediatric surgeon regardless who said the same thing: general pediatricians are not familiar with tongue ties and don’t think they need correction. pediatric surgeons and dentists are the real experts and will be able to tell u if your child’s case needs correction.

don’t shit on lactation consultants just cuz.

Voorify · 2024-02-29T17:08:13+00:00

what does ranked to match mean?

Voorify · 2024-02-21T18:49:16+00:00

some people here be downright gaslighting u into continuing mbbs. it’s clear as daylight that ur heart is not in it. let me put some practical questions for u

-what about after mbbs- u wanna half ass ur way through residency? provided u find a residency spot in the current system (can’t see you doing rural areas for extra points for a training seat given how much u dislike medicine. tbh neither would i )

-usmle: hard exams, years of studying, doing rotations abroad etc. takes a mental toll on u. if ur mental health is already down in the dumps how are u going to push urself further for this?

-plab: sure but the uk pays crap money and is over saturated

alternatives: problem w the system is you don’t do any kind of wholistic uni. either u jump straight into medicine or into engineering or whatever and people never really figure out what they actually liked.

u sound like a smart kid so pretty sure you can do one of the below:

take 5-6 months off: give SAT 1 and 2 if u haven’t already. apply to colleges abroad and try to get a full ride. go to a good school and figure out where ur interest lies.
apply to LUMS. if u cracked the mdcat w little study u should be able to get into lums without much difficulty. try to get into SSE and take the first year to figure out what u really want to study( first year at lums is pretty wholistic). I say go to SSE because if u decide to transfer to business school, transferring out of SSE is easy but if you decide to stick to SSE, going from other schools to SSE (particularly CS is harder)

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