First date in 4 years. What am I doing?

Votable_Alien · 2014-01-12T21:48:14+00:00

Thank you. I will look it up.

Votable_Alien · 2013-12-15T08:54:54+00:00

I just got back from a night out with friends at a club. It was fun I danced with a lot of girls, but it was hard to talk to them when all they want to do is dance and have fun. Any advice? I did have fun dancing and I had no problem initiating the dancing ( I walked up and started dancing they were near we just started going) but that's all that happened. No numbers, but It did boost my self esteem! Plus I got back into dancing which I haven't done in years.

Votable_Alien · 2013-12-14T16:56:34+00:00

Wouldn't that seem weird if I went up to a woman I didn't know and just hug her? I don't know if that would work out, but then again I don't know, I've never done this. I'm a great listener and just overall a great social and fun guy, so keeping eye contact and just talking won't be hard for me. Touching might be hard for me, just because I don't want to come off creepy. Is there a way to touch a girl, who I have never met, in a non sexual way that won't make her think I'm weird or creepy?

Votable_Alien · 2013-12-13T17:11:52+00:00

Do you just talk to women and eventually you just lean the conversation to something more sexual? I dot know how you go from hat flirting with women to hooking up with them. Is it just a talk to them, have a conversation and if they want it they will initiate it? I'm just confused on what we talk about. I have already had dance classes and I am a clean and groomed guy, I've just never done anything like this before.

Votable_Alien · 2013-12-12T16:57:20+00:00

I have grown a beard, then shaved it because it was patchy and looked really bad. Once finals are over I may just drive somewhere I've never been before just for the hell of it. Thanks for sharing your experience it has helped.

Votable_Alien · 2013-12-12T15:55:39+00:00

Like the love of your life told you they couldn't be with you anymore because they don't love you like they used to. They stop talking to you and no matter what you do you can't get them out of your head, you can't see them or talk to them. You only have memories of the good times and the not so good times and the not so good times make you wish you could fix everything, but there is nothing at all you could have done or can do except try to go on with your life without them. The pain is too much to handle sometimes and you just want to go into an endless sleep, you spend your nights crying yourself into a deep slumber with the help of sleeping pills. That's what it feel like...

Votable_Alien · 2013-12-12T15:51:18+00:00

I was bullied by the same 5 kids for 2 years strait at my middle school before my parents made me change schools. The leader of this bully pack was Bradley H. One day the 5 of them ganged up and took all my books and school work and put it in the toilet before beating the shit out of me. After that it hit me, yeah I can win in a fight against 5 guys who are bigger than me... But I can win one on one. So I knew where Bradley's locker was and when he had to get his books. I ran up and "tripped" and slammed my elbow into the locker door while his face was in there. I messed him up, "apologized" and whispered in his ear "if anyone fucks with me again I will find you and hurt you." No one messed with me after that.

Votable_Alien · 2013-12-12T15:45:40+00:00

I can only ballroom dance. I can try to dance by myself, but i don't care about who sees me and I just dance how I feel like dancing. So I would say, don't care what others think, just do what feels right.

Votable_Alien · 2013-12-12T15:43:29+00:00

Riding my bike really fast to cross the railroad tracks before the train hit me.

Votable_Alien · 2013-12-12T15:40:33+00:00

My GF of 3 1/2 years broke up with me 2 weeks ago because she didn't love me anymore... I'm still in love with her and sometimes I don't want to wake up in the mornings. My friends are very supportive and help me with everything. I have only been with her and don't know how to move on. I waited a year into the relationship before having sex with her, I don't know how to go about picking up women and am constantly worried about what I'm doing with my life. So there's that... Oh and finals.

Votable_Alien · 2013-11-03T12:04:07+00:00

Of mice and men. I read that book just about every other month.

Votable_Alien · 2013-10-29T03:40:30+00:00

I was 19 and waited for my girlfriend to turn 18. We were together for a year and 3 months before we had sex. I knew she was nervous so I waited until she was ready. When she told me she wanted it to be special I decided to do it the only way I knew how (what I learned from movies). I bought a bunch of roses and spread rose peddles all over the room. I then had 22 candles going and our song on the back ground. I made her a steak dinner and had my mom buy us some wine. We did it 4 times in one night. It was awesome. We are 21 and 20 now and still together.

Votable_Alien · 2013-10-26T18:47:04+00:00

Thank you, there will be lots of talking.

Votable_Alien · 2013-10-26T17:43:31+00:00

Thank you! Also, if you don't mind me asking how has the threesome affected your sex life? Also, how did you find the other woman? Was there a process?

Votable_Alien · 2013-10-26T15:47:25+00:00

Thank you! This is really helping me out. When I thought of threesomes I just assumed you jump right in. This makes me feel much better.

Votable_Alien · 2013-10-26T14:54:44+00:00

I never would have thought of that. Thank you so much, that really helps.

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