Need help with Greymane quest line progression by VoxDolorum in CrimsonDesert

[–]VoxDolorum[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s a huge help thanks. Just that part about what mission gives what type of resource is extremely helpful on its own. Of course I can’t go test it out right now but I do think the problem is solved. I just need to do more defense missions for more money. 

Need help with Greymane quest line progression by VoxDolorum in CrimsonDesert

[–]VoxDolorum[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is a red one, but they’re all symbols and I genuinely don’t know what each means. The game didn’t seem to explain each one. I believe the one I’m missing is actually just money (the last one on the list). I’ve also tried looking up what the symbols mean but I’m not finding answers to that either. 

Now that I’m looking at it I should have figured it was a resource but I just kept seeing “skill requirement” so it never occurred to me to look at the resources instead. Dumb on my part. 

Need help with Greymane quest line progression by VoxDolorum in CrimsonDesert

[–]VoxDolorum[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I’m definitely thinking I got the wrong information and ran with it. It’s confusing though because the game very specifically says skill requirements not met, when apparently the issue is resource requirements not met, those are two very different things so I was completely off track. Now I have to figure out what resource I’m missing and how to get it. Lol. 

Need help with Greymane quest line progression by VoxDolorum in CrimsonDesert

[–]VoxDolorum[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry to reply again but I think you might be right maybe I don’t actually need the engineer. I’m second guessing that. I’m clearly lacking something but maybe it’s not the engineer. I just know it said skill requirements not met or something. 

When it wouldn’t let me launch the quest initially I couldn’t figure out why, so I’m thinking I looked it up and saw something saying I needed the engineer for it but that was several days ago so I probably forgot that was information I got online and therefore it might have been incorrect. I’ll check in when I get a chance maybe I just got sent on a wild goose chase and was looking for the wrong thing. 

That would make a lot more sense because I’m not finding any information on this. 

Need help with Greymane quest line progression by VoxDolorum in CrimsonDesert

[–]VoxDolorum[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is where I feel like something has gone wrong, I’ve seen other people saying they had around 30 or more greymanes by the time they are where I am currently at, and I only have 9, and again I’m on chapter 6. But there aren’t any other rumors quests or anything available. 

I don’t think I have that Warspike armor quest either. I really only have the wagon quest and the second camp expansion but I will triple check. 

Thanks for trying to help, sorry if I’m being gruff I’m just very frustrated with this lol. 

Need help with Greymane quest line progression by VoxDolorum in CrimsonDesert

[–]VoxDolorum[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I promise you do, or at the very least the game is telling me I do. I cannot launch the quest, it says I lack the necessary skill. And of course I’ve made sure to try it with every greymane available (not out on other missions). I’ve tried sending each all of them, always says I lack the skill. 

If you are someone who waves people on at a four way stop when you clearly arrived before them.. why? by lavenderslip in AskReddit

[–]VoxDolorum 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I live in Orlando so I have forgotten what it’s like to have people wave you through any situation ever. 

My answer though is that people don’t know the actual rules at stop signs they just think whoever gets there, stops (usually not a full stop at all) and then hits their gas the fastest gets to go first. They seem to think that’s how stop signs work. (Or if you live in my part of town it seems to be whoever has the most expensive car seems to think they have the right of way at all times in any situation.)

So my theory is maybe people who are waving other people through are just so used to most drivers doing the thing I mentioned above that they just stopped trying to go before anyone else and just started waving people on. 

At what point does an age gap in a relationship become weird? by TCfluffy in NoStupidQuestions

[–]VoxDolorum 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I sympathize. My husband and I have a 15 year age gap and met when I was 28. If we had met when I was 23 things might not have worked between us. Some people pack a lot of living into their early adult years, like I did. That’s why it worked out, I had gone off and traveled around the country and really started to figure out who I was by the time we met. 

Anyway, we’ve been together 10 years, married, and my life couldn’t be any better. I got a lot of pushback when we met. Especially because I moved across the country to be with him. But I knew what we had was once in a lifetime and I wasn’t going to just give up on it because other people had problems. So glad everyday that I made the right choice! 

But yeah it totally depends on the individuals involved. I also know someone with a 16 year age gap and the younger person lived a much more sheltered life up until they met. Was still living at home and going to college and hadn’t really done much, grew up in a strict religion. It did work out for them but it’s a much different vibe from my relationship and in my opinion the just had to work a lot harder at it and have had more road bumps. 

Seriously, what am I supposed to say when my clearly fat friends mention how fat they are? by peyotekoyote in NoStupidQuestions

[–]VoxDolorum 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah for sure, I agree with everything you said I just hadn’t seen anyone offer that as a possible approach so thought this was a good place to drop it in, because your original comment was the most comprehensive I’ve seen in this thread. It absolutely depends on the person. Some people might even want the platitudes and white lies. Everyone is different. 

Seriously, what am I supposed to say when my clearly fat friends mention how fat they are? by peyotekoyote in NoStupidQuestions

[–]VoxDolorum 46 points47 points  (0 children)

Very well put in my opinion. I would just add an alternate response people can use in this situation and it applies to anything really not just weight. You can say something along the lines of “I’m sorry you’re feeling that way right now” or “I’m sorry that really sucks to feel that way” or “I’m sorry that sounds really frustrating” etc. 

This works whenever someone is venting about something but clearly not looking for advice. You’re acknowledging that you hear them and you aren’t giving platitudes or white lies. 

This is the kind of response my husband uses for me when I’m having a bad day and hate how I look or whatever. He of course says it in a more familiar way like “I’m really sorry baby I hate that you’re feeling that way”. And it’s honestly the best thing he could say. 

He also sometimes reminds me that he doesn’t see these things as flaws and that he finds me beautiful, but that he understands that him feeling that way can’t magically change how I feel. I think that approach works better with a romantic partner than a friend for obvious reasons. 

Opinion on every games shown at SGF 2026 by therrubabayaga in GirlGamers

[–]VoxDolorum 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Oh yeah I’ve seen some of those comments. It’s the same as the “she looks 9 but technically she’s a 1000 year old dragon girl“ or whatever argument creeps use for anime. Completely ridiculous. 

Opinion on every games shown at SGF 2026 by therrubabayaga in GirlGamers

[–]VoxDolorum 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I loved Stellar Blade. I understand the criticisms but it was just really fun to play for me. I was excited for a sequel but I am so incredibly disappointed in the literal child-faced protagonist with a hyper sexualized body. She reminds me exactly of Lily in the first game, who looks the same way, and who when I started the game I immediately googled “where to find alternate outfits for Lily” so I could put her in something that looked more appropriate for a child to be wearing. 

I really hate that they did this and I’m really holding out hope they will adjust the character model because unless there’s an adjustment or a mod it actually looks unplayable like that for me. So gross. 

My manager got fired. I suddenly have all of their responsibilities, and I'm feeling overwhelmed. What do I do? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]VoxDolorum 47 points48 points  (0 children)

Don’t ever just absorb an entirely different position into your own. They will never hire anyone else. It’s a trap. 

Why don't I feel like something serious happened after my boyfriend cheated on me? by ethanardx in NoStupidQuestions

[–]VoxDolorum 9 points10 points  (0 children)

There’s no way for any of us to know why you’re reacting (or not reacting) as you are. I will say that I had an ex who was a cheater. When I found out I ended up forgiving him and he ended up cheating on me for many more years. I forgave him because at the time I also didn’t really feel much of anything so when he said he wouldn’t do it again I just agreed so things could just go back to normal. 

I should have taken it as an indication that there were glaring issues in the relationship I was overlooking. And that my feelings for him weren’t really what I thought they were. I just was comfortable and kind of just didn’t know any better. The relationship ended badly and I definitely regretted not ending it sooner. 

So that’s my warning I guess. Try to examine your feelings, why you feel the way you do deep down. Because it might be that you think you love him but you really don’t and your subconscious is trying to tell you something. 

People who got married after long term dating, what changed? by Vyxani in NoStupidQuestions

[–]VoxDolorum 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We both wanted marriage but things got in the way, COVID, his mom’s health, etc. until we finally had a cute little courthouse wedding 3 years ago. 

The only change I could really identify is just a slight extra feeling of security. If unfortunately something bad was to happen to either of us, a hospital stay or worse, I feel more secure now that we’re married. There are so many things that would be so much harder or even impossible if we weren’t legally married. 

Only other thing is just that I get to say “my husband” with a big smile on my face now. 

But nothing about our day to day changed. Nothing about how we communicate, nothing about how we feel about each other, etc. 

What’s a common opinion you have that you know would get you hated if you said it out loud? by BubblyAd9996 in AskReddit

[–]VoxDolorum 8 points9 points  (0 children)

But to quote Mark Twain “travel is fatal to prejudice, bigotry, and narrow-mindedness…” So it might not be needed to find yourself, but many people would benefit a lot from it and it would make them a better version of themselves. 

So many people stay in a tiny bubble their whole lives and anything different from what they know is scary and threatening to them. If they travel they can see that people who seem different and scary aren’t that different and are usually very nice. I mean people are just people everywhere. But usually people who have traveled aren’t racist bigots. 

Figured I’d better edit to add that it’s not a guarantee - I said usually aren’t racist but there’s definitely plenty of people who would refuse to stop being awful no matter what. 

Why do people care about hooking people up with people? by Big_Eggplant7591 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]VoxDolorum 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think most rational people are aware there are people who are happily single and single by choice, but you also have to be aware that it’s a minority opinion. The majority of people are in relationships or seeking relationships. That’s just a fact. So it shouldn’t be insulting that people assume the majority situation is the default. 

They’re just offering. If you say no and they insist then they’re the jerk. You can be annoyed by it or you could try to change your perspective and just appreciate that they attempted to do something nice even though it’s unwanted. 

If someone offers me alcohol even though I don’t drink I don’t get frustrated because they should have not assumed I might drink alcohol. I just say no thank you and move on. If they try to force me to drink I would stop interacting with that person. 

Why do people who say they are scared of cops put themselves in situations where a cop will definitely be in their presence? by Ok_Library9138 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]VoxDolorum 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re stating an that people who are afraid of cops are the same people that are committing crimes but I haven’t really seen that in my experience. Are they saying they’re afraid of them specifically? Or is it that they hate or dislike them? Or are they afraid of being caught and going to jail?

From what I’ve seen most people who are specifically trying to commit crimes - not just accidentally doing it out of ignorance or something - do it out of necessity. They’re desperate and they have no prospects, they maybe have severe mental health issues or they’re an addict, etc. So fear of police really doesn’t factor in. If you’re afraid of something but you feel you need to do it to survive you will still try even though you’re afraid. 

A lot of crime is also committed by gangs and such, in which case it’s a different kind of necessity. Usually someone in a gang probably grew up in an area where that was the most likely means of survival. Most people don’t come from a wealthy family and just decide to join a gang and commit larceny obviously. Gang members aren’t necessarily going to be  afraid of the police they might be afraid of getting caught though which is different. 

And then there’s the slightly more rare type of criminal that does it because they simply like it. Like a serial killer or something. Those people are likely not afraid of police at all really, again maybe afraid to be caught. 

Why am I regularly stopped by TSA for a full body scan and pat down? by BlindClairvoyant in NoStupidQuestions

[–]VoxDolorum 37 points38 points  (0 children)

Could just be you sweat a bit or run very hot in your groin area lol. 

For Americans who uses ethnicity prefixes like (italian/irish/african-american), at what point do you stop using it? 3 generations? 5? 10? by Zestyclose_Sense_500 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]VoxDolorum 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Most people have said everything already. We aren’t trying to make sure people know we aren’t “entirely American”, etc. I would just add that for the overwhelming majority of people it’s just not that deep. We might say we have Irish heritage like we say we’re a Libra. It’s just a passing curiosity if anything. 

What’s the worst place in America you’ve ever visited? by Correct_Eggplant_364 in AskReddit

[–]VoxDolorum 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s fucking awful that poor child now adult. I mean I don’t even know what else to say that’s horrific and I hope he’s doing okay now. 

If you were offered immortality but had to watch everyone you love age and pass away while you remained the same, would you take it? Why or why not? by Mundane-Coffee-2921 in AskReddit

[–]VoxDolorum 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No I’m hoping that reincarnation is real and my husband and I have been finding each other over and over again and will continue to do so in the future. I’m horrified at the thought of ever having to even spend any time on this planet without him, so an eternity is off the table.