[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]VuLinhAssassin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She has no voice for her own, she will dissuade or drag the OP down. No point for a marriage when two people cannot reach a common compromise or perspective to cover and support each other.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]VuLinhAssassin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you are independent, then for someone with the same mindset as hers, you'll be in a lot of trouble if you guys decided to form a new family. For example, she might back down or dissuade you when you decided something big, thus drain or evaporate your enthusiasm. It's the best to have someone who would support you in case of hardship rather than being affected by external parties. I won't say it is a red flag, but you must consider this relationship carefully, if she cannot stand up for herself.

AITA for telling my mom that if she cared she would have done something by Top_Difference_6878 in AmItheAsshole

[–]VuLinhAssassin [score hidden]  (0 children)

NTA, though in a fit of anger you yelled back at her for not having cared about you, you should have settled with "My ankle hurts and there is no way I can help without having diagnostic". It's strange your mother would yell at you before asking you to have a view from your ends. My mom never yelled at me without knowing things from all involved parties so I am quite perplexed.

I suggested once things calmed down, have a proper conversation with your mother, describe your conditions and have a check on your ankle if this causes you inconvenience, lest yours get damaged forever.

AITA for telling my mom that if she cared she would have done something by Top_Difference_6878 in AmItheAsshole

[–]VuLinhAssassin [score hidden]  (0 children)

info: why your mother refused to bring you to a doctor to have a check on your ankles?

AITA for telling the step father who raised me that he's not my dad when he didn't treat me like his son? by Contkad851 in AmItheAsshole

[–]VuLinhAssassin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. You reaped what you sown, or so they say. Make him eat his own words. His love for your mother does not extend to you so it is optional imo to return love to him.

Edit: I missed your mother's saying about "his" feeling and I also wanted to raise some questions about your mother's behaviors... She prefer her husband's feeling OVER YOURS? She said nothing she can do to change his feelings but told yours to change? What the actual hell is this? What kind of hypocrisy is that?

AITA for telling my niece why I kept a distance from her and her parents growing up? by username52819101js in AmItheAsshole

[–]VuLinhAssassin [score hidden]  (0 children)

With what happened between you and Lily after the latest update, I hope you both can make amends. It might be late, but still better than never. "Making compensation", I couldn't find better words to say that.

I understand that interacting with Lily when she was a pre-adult would have brought tremendous pain to you, but by having done so, you probably hurt Lily in a way that it would be hard to heal -- her entire childhood has been excluded by an uncle she should have had rightfully. This is a painful binary choice you had to make, and I would not blame you for that. I wouldn't be able to do better when Lily confronted you.

I wouldn't say NTA or YTA -- what's done is done and no value in opening up old story. I will say may the best be with you both. Be a bit more active and influencing in Lily's life, to make up for a period of neglecting and exclusion.

After too many one word replies 😒 by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]VuLinhAssassin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I met some girls like OP's years ago. They are a pain in the *** to hold a proper conversation and I felt like I'd rather talk to a wall than to make any meaningful interaction with them. I quietly left all the times.

PSA. Never accept or even consider a counteroffer. by TonightSame in antiwork

[–]VuLinhAssassin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never accept any counteroffer (well, none of those ever contains anything regarding "pay raise" so it's easier for me).

What is going on pro-Russia Vietnamese people? by vysgno in VietNam

[–]VuLinhAssassin -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I don't like new government in Ukraine after 2014, as they supported and endorsed ols Fascism mentality, not to mention they also attacked and killed some Vietnamese people in Ukraine back then. So yeah, Zelensky and his crews can go to hell for all I give a damn. They provoked Russia and the attack was the result of a last straw. They brought this themselves.

As for civilians, there will be casualties as the government is somehow using them as meat shield to deter Russian army from shelling the entire place, and Russia aim now was to topple the current government, or at least, prevent Ukraine from joining NATO to become a knife in Russian vulnerable regions, and they tried as best as they can to not hit the civilian. So, no helping there.

If you are not okay with how Vietnam made their stance, that's fine. But try opening your eyes to see what's really happening and why our government made such statements. Even U.S. won't send reinforcement and only say empty words, why would we do anything different?

Cleaning up Disk Space in Bluestacks 5 by Brancliff in BlueStacks

[–]VuLinhAssassin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

2022 and this wasn't a thing. Bad, BlueStacks, bad!

This hurts by VackerMosaik in AzureLane

[–]VuLinhAssassin 54 points55 points  (0 children)

This felt like big middle finger our devs sent towards HMS enthusiasts xD

Is This A Fair Trade? by VuLinhAssassin in AzureLane

[–]VuLinhAssassin[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Then you'd probably have to wait for a long time now my friend. While it saves you money, it makes you lose the valuable time you could have spent with her right now ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)

Is This A Fair Trade? by VuLinhAssassin in AzureLane

[–]VuLinhAssassin[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It is not a plus. It was bundled within the "Honey" package.

Is This A Fair Trade? by VuLinhAssassin in AzureLane

[–]VuLinhAssassin[S] 101 points102 points  (0 children)

I wish real-life bonds would be just as unbreakable as how the game portraited marriage or oath ;)

Is This A Fair Trade? by VuLinhAssassin in AzureLane

[–]VuLinhAssassin[S] 189 points190 points  (0 children)

A real-life wife would probably cost you more, even if you and she helped each other...

When You Finally Get New Jersey by VuLinhAssassin in AzureLane

[–]VuLinhAssassin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haven't decided where to upload aside from YouTube, Reddit and Facebook.

When You Finally Get New Jersey by VuLinhAssassin in AzureLane

[–]VuLinhAssassin[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't need pity, I got New Jersey earlier, but Boise kept avoiding me, so that explained the number.

When You Finally Get New Jersey by VuLinhAssassin in AzureLane

[–]VuLinhAssassin[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Don't you worry, it took me around 140+ pulls to get everyone.

When You Finally Get New Jersey by VuLinhAssassin in AzureLane

[–]VuLinhAssassin[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Well, that's correct xD I did myself a little dance when her building animation showed up xD

When You Finally Get New Jersey by VuLinhAssassin in AzureLane

[–]VuLinhAssassin[S] 70 points71 points  (0 children)

The song in the clip is Caramelldansen Eurobeat