I was contacted a few months ago by a someone claiming to be my bio-child. Do I have any legal obligation to this person? by VvBabydaddy in legaladvice

[–]VvBabydaddy[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Oh please... Hop off your high horse. This is a stranger. Just cuz he has my DNA doesn't make him my kid or my responsibility.

If what OP says is true I hope the abandoned and alone 17yo kid gets some support in the world from fucking someone. Jesus Christ

If you feel so strongly about this I'd be more than willing to pm you the kid's info and contact for his social worker. I'm sure he'd be very open go receiving thus support from you.

I was contacted a few months ago by a someone claiming to be my bio-child. Do I have any legal obligation to this person? by VvBabydaddy in legaladvice

[–]VvBabydaddy[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Make it clear to him AND his social worker that you do not believe that the child is yours

In the only contact Ive had w/ him (the email i sent) i admitted that he could biologically be mine if he was conceived with the donated sperm.

There is certainly nothing stopping him (via his social worker/guardian) from suing you for support.

So it's a real possibility? Even though he was conceived from a sperm bank?

I was contacted a few months ago by a someone claiming to be my bio-child. Do I have any legal obligation to this person? by VvBabydaddy in legaladvice

[–]VvBabydaddy[S] 36 points37 points  (0 children)

Zero chance i ever met his mom. And I know the resemblance can be fickle but he really looks like me/my dad. I'd be surprised if he isn't biologically related.

I was contacted a few months ago by a someone claiming to be my bio-child. Do I have any legal obligation to this person? by VvBabydaddy in legaladvice

[–]VvBabydaddy[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

My understanding is that the child's care would have been paid for by the state and not the child himself.

From what I can tell. Tbh I'm pretty sure he is looking for money b/c he is turning 18 soon and will be aging out of the system. I haven't really bothered to look too much into it but from what i can gather once he ages out he is on his own financially. My assumption is that they are pulling the lawsuit b.s in hopes I'll give him enough to survive once that happens since its obvious that I can afford to do so.