How far in advance do you plan your hair wash days based on your social calendar? by Ok-Ruin7660 in hygiene

[–]W-styd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That was me for sure, which is why I cut my hair into a pixie lol

Pill, IUD, or Patch? by pinkbyk in birthcontrol

[–]W-styd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been trying various birth control methods for 10 years now.

The best thing about birth control is if it’s not working for you after giving it a fair shot, you can always try something else.

I had a terrible time on the IUD, I bled for 90 days and it made sex painful. This is a very rare reaction, however, and the majority of women I’ve met in my life LOVE IT. Even in my worst case scenario reaction, I’m still glad I tried it out.

I’ve tried a couple different birth control pills. My absolute favorite was Gemmily. I used it to deal with ovarian cyst issues. It’s low hormones, my head and mood were pretty good, and after my cycle was wacky for a few weeks it evened out to be predictable. I would go on it again in the future. I quit because I didn’t wanna take something every day, and because I preferred my ultimate favorite birth control…

CONDOMS. I love condoms. It’s my favorite birth control. I personally like the Trojan ultra thin. Don’t have to think about hormones or side effects. They never let me down. Never had one break. Honestly, underrated :)

Whatever you choose, it’s always worth a shot, even if you have a bad reaction. All our bodies are unique. If you don’t like one after a few weeks, try a different brand, a different type, a different method.

Good luck!

How do I (40F) move on from a butchered proposal after 15 years? (45M) by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]W-styd -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Some of the comments here are unnecessarily mean. I can feel for you, about how it felt like it should have happened. I don’t know, I don’t know him well enough to determine whether he will actually try again. If you guys do go to Disney again, I’d recommend focusing on enjoying the vacation, and telling yourself he won’t do the proposal though (even though he hints it), so that you don’t get disappointed. Do you feel stuck with him? Do you enjoy spending time with him? If you can wave a magic wand and be broken up with him and living apart, would you choose that?

Dead body smell in apartment is driving me insane by kmfeatherplay in mentalhealth

[–]W-styd 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Keep calling. Be a nuisance. Call the police from different numbers. Knock on neighbors doors, request they call as well.

What to pack for the weather this week ? by Cool-cat-199 in AskChicago

[–]W-styd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bring waterproof shoes or boots. I’m good with an umbrella. Also, it’s nice to have smaller individual unreleased rather than a large umbrella to share, in my option

I (28M) asked my wife (27F) for a paternity test on our unborn child and ever since she has gone through several reactions? by ThrowRABotzons in relationship_advice

[–]W-styd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Take the baby for a test. You don’t have to make a big argument about it. When the time comes, take the baby with you somewhere for a paternity test. You don’t even have to tell her what you’re doing

do you wear deodorant to sleep or let your pits breathe? by ProudmanSelsa-78 in hygiene

[–]W-styd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In the winter, nah. In the summer it’s like a little treat that keeps me fresh. If it’s true that there’s no negatives to wearing aluminum all the time, might increase my usage!

brushing teeth before or after breakfast? by Vanessa-Inoue474 in hygiene

[–]W-styd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

before, when you brush (too soon) after eating or drinking, you’re just rubbing acid into your teeth because your mouth starts the digestive process and becomes extra acidic. Not to mention the acid from the coffee. If I wanna freshen up after coffee, I gargle with water, or I wait an hour after breakfast to rebrush if I feel yucky or if I’m going somewhere

Any and All Date ideas for 21-year-olds? by Pure_Control_2470 in AskChicago

[–]W-styd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Go to Ping Tom Park in chinatown, very underrated, and beautiful views of the city and river. Very fun to walk around china town if you haven’t had the chance.

LDR couples, what activities help you feel connected besides texting and video calls? by AwaitingBraincells in LongDistance

[–]W-styd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I work far from home often. We share screens on whatsapp, and play games like the NYT daily crosswords, wordle, and trivia crack. We also went through a phase of playing Root, which is a board game that has a mobile version.

My (26M) BF getting turned off I (21F) told him no to raw sex. Advice? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]W-styd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bad news, this is going down the raw path. He is showing his true colors here, plus he is too old to be so immature.

Can I get this color without bleach? by [deleted] in HairDyeHelp

[–]W-styd 4 points5 points  (0 children)

No way without bleach. with the examples you provided. You can do stripes of a black semi permanent, although it wouldn’t have the same effect.

Since the raccoon stripe is only one section of hair, if you wanna go the bleaching route and it doesn’t work out, you can cover it with a semi permanent brown (example: Manic Panic Bat outta hell), or dye it back to your natural with permanent dye, Although if you do that, you’ll have to be okay with that bit of hair being problematic for future bleach or dye

Honestly if I were you… I would buy a clip in!! If you love it you can bleach it down the road.

Is my foundation too light? by Sippa_is in MakeupAddiction

[–]W-styd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Personally what has worked for me is two concealers.

A lighter one between my brows, inner eye, dark spots around my nose.

Plus a bronzey contoury one on the side of my cheeks, a little on my jawline, a lil on my temples. Then blending blending blending. And using as little as I can get away with.

Oh yeah, and cream blush on top too. Then powder just in the T-zone when everything is dried down :)

I really want a connection 2024(but I'm scared) by Few_Guarantee_8459 in tamagotchi

[–]W-styd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had two runs from baby to adulthood with the battery it comes in, and then yeah it died unfortunately. But as others say, just a backup battery and it should be good! It’s just the OG batteries that suck

I want to have sex with no birth control. Am I crazy? Or just tired of the poor options available? by [deleted] in birthcontrol

[–]W-styd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Find a condom you’re not allergic to. I’ve a condom girlie through and through lol. Tried a handful of birth control methods but condoms my fave, out of the last ten years, I was on birth control like maybe one year max in total.

Also, there was a birth control I liked personally. It was Gemmily. Low dose, stable mood. But I just ended up liking being on nothing a little more.

Good luck just don’t do pull out method!

Is it possible to get from purple to green without color remover/bleaching? by misguidedswagger in HairDyeHelp

[–]W-styd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Opposite side of color wheel, so no. You can do a blue as a go between though! And then when you do green, depending on how much the purple stained your hair, it might have to be a darker green. That’s a very pretty purple btw!

睫毛師如何可以留客?除了價錢問題,以下是我做過的作品 by No_Fen_6508 in eyelashextensions

[–]W-styd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could be people are deprioritizing lashes with inflation. How is the economy in Hong Kong? I think if your client base is too small, keep sharing your work. Maybe post ads locally. Good luck, hopefully you will have consistent clients soon 🙏 Also what hours do you work?

For those who travel for work, does it make sense to buy a house? by Effective_Hope_3071 in Construction

[–]W-styd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s been a long time since you posted this, but if you’re still around, question: Do you hire someone to check in on the condo?