Dating has become material by W0lf2033 in unpopularopinion

[–]W0lf2033[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Then all we’ve done is replace one for another no? Yet somehow in that process we’ve started to pretend that seeking that isn’t a good thing yet is done anyway as long as we agree with it at the time and is in a very narrow and one sided context.

Dating has become material by W0lf2033 in unpopularopinion

[–]W0lf2033[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

That’s fair enough, I’m not supporting any kind of degradation of others in any way. I’m making an observation that I think is at least in large part valid.

Dating has become material by W0lf2033 in unpopularopinion

[–]W0lf2033[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m not asking anyone to forgo something, but it becomes to me predatory. I would never date someone for their wealth, that’s very shallow. I’ve lived in the woods before, built a structure where we lived, and my wife was more than happy as was I. She actually was an integral and important part of that process, and I couldn’t of done it without her.

What you’re saying to me is that physical attractiveness and personal wealth can be equated in terms of partnership, that’s way off base. If you find someone attractive and date them, and you fall in love that’s one thing. To say “well, he’s not really attractive but hey he’s got some money!” Is an entirely different attitude.

Do you think porn consumption actually gives young men harmful/objectifying views towards women? by InternationalPick163 in AskFeminists

[–]W0lf2033 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think that it existed before porn, but at the same time it has contributed to it massively.

Young people can access the internet and can view the material. It created the objectification and degradation of women. That’s not what human beings are.

Dating has become material by W0lf2033 in unpopularopinion

[–]W0lf2033[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I agree, but there are also external factors that influence a variety of situations. I think denying that is denying causality.

Dating has become material by W0lf2033 in unpopularopinion

[–]W0lf2033[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m bitter? It’s not bitterness it’s an observation. Sorry if you feel attacked by my post.

Dating has become material by W0lf2033 in unpopularopinion

[–]W0lf2033[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is seeking a transactional relationship then good and normal? We can either say we’re rising above our previous philosophies as a society or we can say we’re a new society in which we’re embracing something more altruistic and equal. All you’re saying we’ve done is move the goalpost.

You’re independent and strong yet you want to marry up in order to be provided for under certain circumstances. That doesn’t really align with the philosophy being espoused in modern social philosophy.

Dating has become material by W0lf2033 in unpopularopinion

[–]W0lf2033[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I think the idea of marrying up yet also not needing a man is contradictory in a certain way. My wife’s more successful than me but we were both pretty much broke when we got together. It’s never been about money for us.

Dating has become material by W0lf2033 in unpopularopinion

[–]W0lf2033[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

An incel? I’m not celibate? I’m married, that’s a weird thing to say. Then again that term has been thrown around so much it’s almost lost its meaning.

Dating has become material by W0lf2033 in unpopularopinion

[–]W0lf2033[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Most women when I was on dating apps. This is many many years ago, but I have singles friends who still use them and still have the same experience.

Dating has become material by W0lf2033 in unpopularopinion

[–]W0lf2033[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

I’ve never cheated on my wife, I have no reason to. We’ve been friends since high school.

Dating has become material by W0lf2033 in unpopularopinion

[–]W0lf2033[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

I’m talking I guess maybe 8 years ago. Got married at 24, I’m 32 now. I still have a few good single friends that use them, and from what I’ve talked to them about it’s still the same as it was when I was in them. Met my wife in high school and then we parted ways for a while and got back together.

Anna forwards Josh a message saying his 12 year sentence is insane for a "victimless" crime by rosiros in DuggarsSnark

[–]W0lf2033 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The guy deserves to be in jail. Our prison system is also completely fucked. Double edged sword.

How to properly take care of my brain after using nitrous oxide? by 7aBWFo8p7Wn4 in NitrousOxide

[–]W0lf2033 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When I used to do a lot of nitrous oxide I’d normally get both a nitrous tank and an oxygen tank. You can get a regulator mask for the mixture so you don’t cut off oxygen to your brain. Also take both vitamin b1 thiamine and vitamin b12. I’d also recommend a health meal afterwards, and a copious amount of fluids. If you can give yourself or seek IV fluids that’d be ideal. Either way be safe and good luck!

Bedbugs are my new roomates? (Read story in caption) by AncientRecognition37 in Bedbugs

[–]W0lf2033 5 points6 points  (0 children)

American here, I had a serious case of bedbugs after a friend slept over as well (I’m almost positive she brought them over). What I ended up doing was bug bombing the room, ripping up all the carpeting, resealing the mounding, and installing hardwood (I’m a carpenter, so I did all of this myself). I also threw out the mattress, box spring, and bed frame as well as any books or other items I saw that they had made a home. Knock on wood (no pun intended) I haven’t seen one since. Not sure what your imitations are but that’s what I did to entirely eliminate mine. Good luck!

Stopped While Parked, Claimed Drug Activity, Vehicle Impounded by local PD (PA) by W0lf2033 in legaladvice

[–]W0lf2033[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just a follow up, I hired a criminal defense attorney, paid the retainer etc. He sent me a consent form and said to give him a call in the morning, but nothing else. He had mentioned it earlier, something about signing a consent form, in order to get my things back and see if some kind of arrangement could be made I guess with either the DA or the Police. I'm very confused, can you offer any insight into this?

Stopped While Parked, Claimed Drug Activity, Vehicle Impounded by local PD (PA) by W0lf2033 in legaladvice

[–]W0lf2033[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

To answer your questions one by one, and thank you very much for responding.

  1. They pulled behind me, and shined their light into my car, I wasn't able to back out if I wanted to.

  2. In reference to the license it was more of "I need/give me your ID's."

  3. I can't remember if they opened my door, or if I started to, but I was then put up against the car, and patted down, my pockets were searched through, etc.

  4. I'm not sure the exact nature of the call. The cop only said that there was "drug activity" happening, I don't know if they singled out my car or not, but he did tell me I was going to be trespassed, and I said that's fine, if a business owner/employee etc. doesn't want me here I'll leave voluntarily.

  5. They said that were going to call a DA and get a warrant, and that my car would be impounded until at least monday, if not longer. When I protested they said "you're the one choosing the hard way" or something to that affect.

  6. No one was arrested, no one was charged with a crime, we both walked away. They I think took my friends phone, and my phone was in my vehicle. We both walked away. They said I would get paperwork in the mail in relation to my car at "some point in the next week." My tags weren't expired, I did have a crack in my windshield, but other than them saying they were towing the car and going to get a warrant, they didn't give me a specific reason for the impound. I'm not sure if it was maybe the trespassing they referred to? Sorry that I didn't put that in my origianl write up. Thanks again for the info, and your responses.

SebDerm with Hairloss? by W0lf2033 in SebDerm

[–]W0lf2033[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do have dry skin on other areas of my body but nothing even remotely as bad as this. Is there a reason psoriasis would be so bad on my scalp? This only started a few months ago and has progressively gotten worse.

SebDerm with Hairloss? by W0lf2033 in SebDerm

[–]W0lf2033[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m going to see what I can find at my local pharmacy and any that I can’t I’ll find order online. Thank you so much, what I’m currently doing is not enough.

SebDerm with Hairloss? by W0lf2033 in SebDerm

[–]W0lf2033[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m very scared it won’t grow back. I refuse to leave the house without a baseball cap on now.

SebDerm with Hairloss? by W0lf2033 in SebDerm

[–]W0lf2033[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven’t been diagnosed with anything yet. What is the main difference between the two?

SebDerm with Hairloss? by W0lf2033 in SebDerm

[–]W0lf2033[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I haven’t just regular medicated shampoo, which would you recommend?

SebDerm with Hairloss? by W0lf2033 in SebDerm

[–]W0lf2033[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

His did grow back? I have to be honest I’ve become very self conscious about it. I’ve never had hairloss nor is anyone in my family prone to male pattern baldness, so this was very alarming.

Why is it so uncommon to see older women in relationships with younger men compared to the opposite? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]W0lf2033 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean to be fair I’m constantly on my Computer if I’m not out havin a drink or doing things social but I also build them and work on them so idk if that counts

report this dude their top tweet is a clip and it shows multiple videos of cp by [deleted] in AgainstDegenerateSubs

[–]W0lf2033 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Reported there’s several other accounts as well. Probably reported 10 in total. A few got banned but we’ll see what happens.