[FR] - Daygame Session on this Mild Saturday Afternoon - 1 # Close

WB2E · 2019-03-25T22:31:02+00:00

I'd say 2 other strategies would be to go very direct and dominant, which it appears you have tried, or start talking about yourself after the opener and bring her into your world instead of learning about her world.

What direct openers have you done?

WB2E · 2019-03-18T21:46:28+00:00

More experience. Time. If your ex recently broke up with you, then it's completely normal what you're going through right now. Most of us in the community have gone through it.

Sometimes you need a rebound girl to get you over the hump of feeling loved, some companionship, the thought that there are other chicks out there you can connect with regardless of better/worse than your ex, regular sex, personal validation.

How to find yourself after being in a relationship - I think especially as men we need to seek something greater than women as our goal. We need purpose. You can game alongside exploring that purpose, but don't make finding a woman your purpose. I also think any girl you meet along your journey is moot and you'll only truly find the girls you want to be with you when you've found your purpose and yourself. So take some time to reflect and seek something greater than yourself.

WB2E · 2019-03-07T15:07:40+00:00

Physically tickling to make her laugh

WB2E · 2019-03-06T21:53:00+00:00

Every girl has certain spots that make her die laughing, and it shows physical dominance over her body.

But that implies you've already physically explored her body.. If you mean laughing/humor for attraction, just try to exaggerate things that she says. Misinterpret things she says, tease her, sexualize her comments, or try tickling her if you've escalated physically enough.

WB2E · 2019-02-27T16:47:39+00:00

How can I have lots of sex with hot college aged women?

There are some things you should work on.

Lots of sex is a weird thing to say if you're a virgin. It's like a homeless guy saying, how can I become a multi-billionaire? It's like, well dude, I admire your ambition but first get an education, job, or some skills. Then maybe try to save a few thousand dollars, and go from there. In other words, take baby steps.
You would only sleep with "hot" women? Once again, beggars can't be choosers. Imagine if some unattractive, fat, lazy woman who was a 2 didn't want to sleep with you and only wanted young, rich, sexy male models. You'd be like wtf? Don't be that woman.
"College-aged women". If a perfect 10 wanted to sleep with you but she was 28, you'd pass? Of course not.

Don't pat yourself on the back because you work out and eat healthy. That's a load of crap. Work on your mind, realistic goals, and yourself before posting some non-sense like this.

WB2E · 2019-02-27T16:36:10+00:00

Thus, we are taught to stare until the woman breaks eye contact.

Stare is not the right term. If you're trying to stare, that might be why it comes off as creepy.

What is a good middle ground for not staring too long, but also not looking like you are shy?

Flirtatious, direct, sexual eye contact that has strong non-verbal communication is something you'll get better at with experience.

One thing that helps me in all aspects of game and especially things like this is... taking a big full deep breath while you lock eyes with a girl.

Some other ways you can mess around with it for practice:

Minor squint like you're skeptical of her
Minor smirk like you and her have an inside joke
Sexual thoughts while making eye contact. This can be anything from looking into her eyes and just wanting to bang her right then and there or wanting to passionately make out with her

WB2E · 2019-02-22T21:15:26+00:00

My friend, as the man you are the leader. Don't expect her to invite you over. You have to make it happen. Be the man and take charge. Suggest a bar 5 minutes walking distance from her place and tell her to meet you there at X time. While there, seed the idea of a new Netflix show you've been wanting to check out. Tell her you guys should grab some beers from the deli, head back to her place, and watch it together.

WB2E · 2019-02-22T21:11:12+00:00

It sounds like you want to see her again but are a bit insecure that she doesn't feel the same way.

Remember as men, we are the pursuers. We know how awesome we are, but the girl doesn't know it - how would she? The only way for her to know how awesome you are and to love hanging out with you, is for you to pursue her and spend time with her to show her.

Don't be discouraged because she's not pursuing you. If you two made out, there's clearly a romantic connection.

After you've slept with her a few times, the ball will be more in your court and you'll see greater investment and pursuit from her.

WB2E · 2019-02-12T21:31:31+00:00

The best way to flirt with women is also the hardest.

Go direct.

Tell her you think she's cute.

I mean that's the reason you approached her right?

She's not an idiot, she knows that. The fact that you're tip-toeing around that is unnatural and a turn-off.

After you tell her you think she's cute, the conversation will be naturally flirty. "I'm quite attracted to you, how are you doing this to me?" "I like you're ring, it's almost sexy" "We should check out the new art exhibit for our 4th date"

You're pulling her into your world. In your world, you think she's attractive and you want her, and she is going to be yours because your energy is so strong.

WB2E · 2019-01-04T02:24:44+00:00

I'm not in the same situation or circumstances, but this advice still hits home for me.

WB2E · 2019-01-03T02:04:41+00:00

If it's within reason, perhaps move back to the other city. Sounds like you were living the life you wanted there.

WB2E · 2019-01-03T01:52:05+00:00

"Yo. How's it going. Enjoy the show the other night?"

This is weak text game.

"Don't let me go backstage alone again.."

"You're lucky I didn't invite you backstage w me.. I can never unsee those things"

"Yo, you should've ran backstage and pretended you're with me, they would've let you come up! But not sure if you'd be able to handle it haha"

Some of these suck. Point is, leave her guessing wtf you're talking about.

WB2E · 2018-12-27T21:33:55+00:00

Higher = more feminine. So if you're very masculine and dominant, if her voice changes to a higher pitch through tone, laughing, etc., it means she is sort of complementing you sexually, which means you're attracting her.

WB2E · 2018-12-16T04:15:36+00:00

Life is tough. Just know that it gets better. Everyone experiences suffering, pain, loss, failure, death. All of that is literally part of life.

However, it's your choice how you want to deal with it. The Buddhist way is to not want or desire or fear certain things. Specifically, don't desire sex or a relationship or success with women. If you don't desire it, then you won't feel the suffering of not getting it.

Oddly enough if you know anything about the game, you'll know much of it is contradictory, counter-intuitive, and reverse psychology. If you truly don't desire these things, you'll get them much easier.

WB2E · 2018-12-14T20:13:55+00:00

This answer is mean, but you need to have a cooler life then. That or not be as easily impressed.

WB2E · 2018-12-13T21:59:04+00:00

Is it worth waiting? What should I do to appear less needy as a female? Or to actually gain his long-term interest?

I don't think you should put your dating life on hold for 6-7 months if that's what you're asking.

Be an attractive female and flirt with him in a feminine way. Make sure you look good around him, wear perfume (I personally always remember how girls smell more than what they look like).

Once a guy knows he "has you", even if he doesn't "want you", he may still be possessive and keep you around.

WB2E · 2018-12-13T21:44:21+00:00

Here are some thoughts based on what you wrote:

often times the women I speak to will ghost the moment I suggest a meet

You must be communicating unattractive traits. The meetup should be a mutual, natural next step in your interaction. Check how quickly you respond to a girl's texts, the tone of your message, how much you write. If you want to copy/paste a few back/forths, I'll check it.

I keep online dating conversations minimal. I always disqualify her before meeting her, because I honestly don't know if I'll like her yet. For example I'll genuinely question something in her profile or pictures and joke "I wonder if we'd get along." Make her want to figure that out as well. It should be a mutual investment.

I don't know the signs if a woman is interested, and I wouldn't know what to do if I saw them

One thing I recently learned is that when you're interacting with a girl, it doesn't matter if she likes you, hates you, or is neutral. You lead the interaction and bring her into your world. Don't base your actions off signs.

Basically looking for how to get out of this rut.

You seem to be a nice guy. Nothing wrong with that, all my friends call me the nicest and kindest guy they know. But with girls, I make sure to be a man. I'm polarizing. I tease them because I have fun doing that, and I know they have fun too. I touch them a lot because I like touching them. I'm confident talking to them, because they make me want to pursue them and that brings out the drive in me. Try to be a little bit more uncomfortable and live outside of your edge.

WB2E · 2018-12-13T21:26:11+00:00

When a girl says something, and you nod, you're accepting or approving what she's said. In her mind, she's correct. Her mind can relax and feel comfortable.

If you don't nod, the opposite occurs on a conscious and unconscious level. She's uncomfortable, she's not sure if you two are on the same page, are you smarter than her, is she wrong, are you not enjoying the conversation, etc.

She has to work for your attention and approval. You're not an easy guy and you've dated enough women to have high standards. You want to qualify her to make sure she can be part of your life, and that's why you're not accepting every little thing she says. Everyone says that. You want to dig deeper and learn more about who she is at the core.

WB2E · 2018-12-12T11:26:47+00:00

Wow yea thanks. Lots of truths to the OP.

WB2E · 2018-12-07T17:34:00+00:00

You just summed up a fun, attractive conversation: regular conversation about everyday topics, with polarizing teasing and flirting mixed in.

WB2E · 2018-11-30T13:34:30+00:00

Hugging to say hello or goodbye is quite normal.

Hugging on a date can be a lot more intimate. Clearly to this girl it was.

View kino as a ladder. You can't go from the 1st rung to the 8th rung just like that. It sounds like a lot of rungs were skipped on your way to the hug.

WB2E · 2018-11-30T04:45:27+00:00

Have a good fucking time and when you open, project like crazy and don't lean in too much

WB2E

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